Tag Archive for ‘Forced Marriage’
Family wants me to marry a guy I have no feelings for
My brother, who is the oldest and is Mashallah set up financially, says he will not marry until at least one girl from the family gets married first. This is silly because they are following the old Pakistani culture and want me and my sisters to get married first even though two of us are still studying and are not mentally prepared for marriage.
Are my parents allowed to force me to marry someone?
I’m the elder daughter of my parents. I have another younger sister. We don’t have any brother. We always tried to do everything what our parents wanted us to do. Every time my father used to tell me you can do this and you can’t do this. I didn’t have any opinion of my own. It is like what ever we do on our own will be wrong and bad for us.
How can I get out of marrying this guy?
My name is Fatuma and my wedding is this summer July 2012 and I’m not ready. I do not like the guy I’m supposed to marry.
I said yes to my parents in the first place because they were mad at me for rejecting my cousin and I didn’t wanted to hurt them again even though I was not happy about what I was doing-but now I’m trying to explain my parent that I never liked that gu
My nikah was done without me, is that valid?
It has been 3 years that I am married but in the recent two years I am very confused about my nekah. Before my marriage I did not know my husband and had never seen him.
I’m inlove with someone, but am being forced to marry another
I am 21, I loved this boy, and some of my family members were in favour of his proposal too, they to felt that he loves me for real. However, coz the boys family were not very nice, my parents had suspicion on the boy that I love too. After some time I got engaged to someone else that was the choice of my parents.
Is this marriage valid?
My Q is? If I convince my family and get married as she said, is such Nikkah valid as my intention is not good. Does halal marriage fulfilled only using witness and wali? I hope you understand my question but she is pushing me so hard. I don’t know what is her benefit? and to be honest with you, she knows I am not happy and will leave her some day.
Advice needed for pregnant non-Muslim to a Muslim mother to be.
Also I feel his parents are being unfair in forcing us to ‘marry’ it is something I want to do with him but its also something I want to spend months planning and not have my mother in law plan everything FOR ME in a matter of weeks.
Muslim man and a Christian woman; Is it possible?
Everyone that is important to us are against us but we are still strong in love and still want to be together. I’m looking out for our happiness but its hard because all odds are against us. I have been taking time out to learn more about Islam so that I can be more familiar with it. What should we do?
Stuck in the middle of a forced marriage
When I was was small, my mum told me I had a choice between two guys(which were my cousins sons). My mum had chosen the smaller one for me but I didn’t like him, so after I went abroad to meet my family the other one named Imran stood out. I began to like him [...]
Istikhara for marriage
I have performed the Isktikhara namaaz several times now. The first time I had performed it, I had a very good feeling when I had woken up but I didn’t remember seeing a dream. The second time I performed it, as soon as I had woken up I had said the person’s name and felt [...]
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