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Abortion – Do or Don’t?

I was thinking about getting an abortion – my ex is against it in every way but I am Muslim and my family is extremely conservative. I don’t know what to do the baby has a heart beat already and I feel guilty but at the same time my family will disown me.

I committed zina with an older woman

But the problem is the woman got pregnant and I’m now not just stressed I’m in a big deep of depression because of her and the child.

Nikah and pregnancy in shariah

The process of mahr was delayed. A few months later pregnancy occurred. What does shariah says about this?

My fiancé wants me to get an abortion

My fiance says the baby is a mistake and we can have other children after we marry.

I want to change and be a good Muslim

We committed zina, she got pregnant and after born a baby. After a few months I was totally disappointed with this. Last few years I don’t contact her and she also.

Pregnancy and nikkah.

Salaams, I am currently 8 months pregnant by  my “boyfriend”. I struggled a lot with the decision to keep the baby, but chose to do so as I thought it was islamically and morally the right thing to do. I have my family’s support to keep the baby, but they do not approve of the […]

Married, but having a child from another man

I am married…my marriage has nearly come to divorce…2 yrs back i met this man. And now am having a son from him…how to make my son lawful..how to make our relationship valid after my divorce

How should I deal with my brother’s secret child?

My brother had premartial sex with his then girlfriend and got her pregnant. Now he has a daughter who is the age of 2. His girlfriend is Christian which means that he can marry her but he is no longer with her. Also he has been hiding this from my parents ever since it happened

My husband hates his stepdaughter

I got married to someone from Pakistan. Neither of us were happy in this marriage, he became very violent with me as did I. Then, I made the worst mistake of my life, I was seperated from him and I met someone else. I began having an affair, astagfirullah. Then my parents told me I have to give my husband another chance so I did, trying to finish my affair.

Her husband says her child is haram

The question is, what shall they do with the child because her husband tells her the child is haram child. She wants Allah forgiveness but she didn’t know if she was forgiven already, she’s praying and asking Allah’s forgiveness for almost a year now.