Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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What does my marriage istikhara mean?

I’m 17 (almost 18) and have been dating a 19 (soon to be 20) year old for just over a year now. I love him unconditionally, and feel he’s the one. We realize it’s wrong to date and have always had the intention of getting married, however cause I’m still in full time education we hadn’t spoken to our parents about getting married.

So many mistakes, I have no idea how to set things straight again

I am a muslim girl but have been a very bad one for the past 4-5 years, though I always had my faith in Allah it was always on/off I guess the Satan came in the way too many times, I had been in a relationship with a muslim guy for 3 years we were in love but I had done other bad things before him as well…

Will Allah forgive me for rejecting a proposal after accepting?

Asalamualaikum,
My parents had finalized my partner for me a year ago who is my cousin. That time I was okay with it and agreed to it. However, as time went on I met another guy. I was very much attracted towards him. I started to fall for him very badly. He felt the same about me.

Can I marry a girl who is taller than me?

I am 21 years old boy. I am short in height. My height is 5 feet 1 inch. For this I got into many harassment. I pray to Allah for this. So there you see, I love a girl. I think she is a good girl. I am shorter than her.

I need help please!! Muslim family-Christian boyfriend wants to marry me

I’m from a muslim family therefore having a relationship is not accepted. I’m 21 years old, never had a boyfriend before but a year ago I got closer to my male friend. We started going out after a while but I’m having a guilty conscious because islam says no to having a boyfriend. I’m not a religious person but you know I have beliefs. My boyfriend is a christian. My family doesnt know anything about it (They dont know that I have a bf).

How can I win the confidence of her parents?

My problem is that I loved a girl for past 10 years and have been sincerely waiting for her. After a long patience I prayed to ALLAH and finally found that because of my dua that girl also started loving me.

How can I pursue marriage with this girl?

I am 22 years old. I love a girl from childhood but she doesn’t know. I am afraid to tell my parents that I love that girl and want to marry her.

How can I achieve marriage with no contact whatsoever?

I know this guy from the time I was studying in my 8th standard, he was my neigbour and is my neigbour even now. As years passed by we used to at times just smile at each other. This was when I wasn’t very Islamic and then later on it so happened that we started loving each other, but would just look at each other and smile and at times just communicate in sign language, we never spoke to each other, never met

How can I win her parent’s approval after gossip and lies have damaged it?

Some miscreants have told some false stories about my family and made the girl’s parents to break our relationship. Myself and my parents have tried to convince them to know the truth and accept the relationship but the girl’s family is not willing to do so.

Can Nikkah be accepted without parent’s permission?

I’m in love with a guy who is also Muslim and we have decided to get married, however my parent is againts me only becuase they want me to marry a doctor on an engineer since this guy that im in love with he could not finish his university degree..