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What does my marriage istikhara mean?

I’m 17 (almost 18) and have been dating a 19 (soon to be 20) year old for just over a year now. I love him unconditionally, and feel he’s the one. We realize it’s wrong to date and have always had the intention of getting married, however cause I’m still in full time education we hadn’t spoken to our parents about getting married.

How should isteqara be done?

Salaam. I am a 20 yr old muslim girl. A guy of my age asked me for marriage. He spoke to my mother and made his aunt speak to her. My mother and me did isteqara and saw good where the guy’s aunt and grand mother did isteqara and saw a bad dream. The guy didnt do isteqara himself and believed them.

Who should do the Istikhara for marriage?

Salaam,

I’m a 20 yr old muslim girl. A guy asked for my proposal and spoke to my mom about this. His aunt spoke to my mother and discussed things. Later on the guys aunt and grand mother did istikhara and saw bad dreams whereas me and my mother saw good.

Dream interpretation following namaaz Istikhara

I recently got a marriage proposal from a boy and I did the namaz Istikhara.I dreamed of five white dogs trying to attack me and I was saving myself from them by beating them with my long umbrella.

Sunni and Shia, in love for twelve years.

I am a shia girl and I met my fiance in kindergarten. We grew up as friends, and fell in love in high school. He is sunni. We both have good faith, practise Islam moderately, and are of very similar and liberal thinking. We both consider ourselves just muslims and the sect difference is not an issue for us at all.

I am very confused, I am feeling pressured to marry my friend but am in love with another.?

I have known this man for 4 years, we are family friends. We have been good friends, and we’ve recently been talking and I know for a fact, that this man does have feelings towards me. I know that he’s told his parents about me, and one day he hopes we get married.

Please do Istikhara for me and my cousin

i want to do istakhara for me and one of my beloved cousins because we are facing many problems due to the rejection of our marriage.

Istikhara for marriage

I have performed the Isktikhara namaaz several times now. The first time I had performed it, I had a very good feeling when I had woken up but I didn’t remember seeing a dream. The second time I performed it, as soon as I had woken up I had said the person’s name and felt [...]

Is there any conflict between Istikhara and my own personal dua?

I am doing istikhara for the past 2 days, I do it after Isha prayer but I dont sleep after that (I’ve heard that dreams are not necessary). So for the past 2 days my feelings are still the same, nothing seems unusual, no change in feelings, no sign or anything.

Having mixed Istikhara dreams, should I divorce him?

I am Muslim female. For the past 3 years, my life has become hell. 3 years ago I got engaged to one of my distant relatives but due to our misunderstanding, it was called off…