Tag Archive for ‘lack of communication’
I am tired, confused and do not want to marry my cousin anymore. Its driving me to suicidal thoughts
Recently, I went to Pakistan last year for my brother’s wedding. I already had been told that I was engaged to this boy within my family whom I knew. This is the same person who I remember when I went last time to Pakistan I told my mother if I wanted to get married to someone it would be him, I was about 12 years old then. While I was there in Pakistan I did some things that I should of not done, I never did anything like get physical with him or anything (like commit zina), but like sitting close to him when he was not my mahram, I was continuously warned by mother, and relatives that a muslim women does not act the way I did.
As I am a housewife, I wait for him to come from office.When he comes, he just comes for 5 min, then he leaves the room, … Sometimes it seems that there are some magnetic forces that are attracting him to come outside.
I need your dire help in advising me as a Muslim how to deal with my ongoing situation. I have been married for 3 years and I love my husband dearly and his family. However, I have maintained sabar and remained steadfast with my difficult in laws.
I do not know if this is something wrong, but any time I say something to my husband he gets angry, for example he asked me if his trousers are dirty( to judge if they are dirty) I said I do not know, I did not think that my answer was rude?
Have I been rude Is there any book in Islam that talk about good marriage communication?
i have been married 6 years alhamdulillah, but my husband does not intetract with me or the children, or even talk or show love.
i have a feeling that he wants to end it. i have given him chances after chances and nothing nobody can get through to him.
I went to Dubai for 3 months out of pressure from my parents. We used to still talk and think and plan of how to get back to each other. Due to some fight we had over the phone we stopped talking for some time. That’s when his parents forced him to marry and he got married again to another woman.
I’m having problems in my marriage. We’re on the brink of divorce. The main problem is lack of communication. It’s me that lack the communicating.
Honestly, I don’t know what to say to my wife most of the time and that’s bad. I’m passive and she’s aggressive.
I have been married for Alhumdulillah 14 months, this was not an arranged marriage. At the start of my marriage things had not been easy for me as I had married outside the family. Anyway prior to me, my husband was considering someone else but for some reason he did not proceed with her and married me.
One day, I went through his phone bills and I could not believe what I saw. My husband had kept in contact with the same girl he had once considered for marriage. He gave her the time and day as if she was his wife.