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Does my husband have a valid reason for keeping from school?

I want to go back to school but my husband puts obstacles in my way. I help him at his store and support him in whatever he wants to do but he does not do the same with me.

Stuck in a marriage with no way out

My parents got me married to my cousin in Pakistan. We have been living together in England for four years, but we just do not get on. He doesn’t ever listen to me or talk to me about anything…

Husband treats me like I don’t exist

My husband shows no affection. Although we share the same bed, he does not like holding me or being intimate with me. After six years I am losing hope.

My husband ignores my physical and emotional needs.

Assalamualaikum sisters..I have been going through a tough time since I got married. It has been 13 years of our marriage but my husband is not inclined towards sex. During the first 3 years we had it twice as a result I have two daughters. I was 19 when I got married now I am 33…………

Help Me, I am Married and going through many problems!!

I am an Arabic Muslim woman married to a non Arab Muslim convert. We have been married for 3 years and currently have no children yet. We have had a lot of problems while we have been together due to the fact that there are a lot of things in our life that are quite unbalanced.

He has two kids and he is a lot older than me and comes from a different culture . However ….

Husband chatting to a woman on the phone at nights, please advice.

I am in a bit of a dilemma with regards to my husbands habit. I have been married to him for nearly 6 years and have a child nearly 4 years of age. It was an arranged marriage, we’re related but we both liked each other & were happy to get married to each other. My husband was so caring and loving to me in the beginning, I must say he still says he loves me to bits and will be lost without me. But we slowly started to drift away from each other after having our child

I have no physical desire; is marriage right for me?

From childhood I noticed I never really liked or desired getting physical, and grew up with very little to no physical desire. I then got married out of convenience at the age of 17, and realised that I could not bring myself to have relations with my husband…

Lack of Intimacy and Respect in my marriage

My husband and I have been married for almost 1 year. When it comes to sex, he thinks that it is the most important thing. I have told him when it hurts to have sex, he still has sex with me. When I am having my monthly, he still wants some type of sexual favor. He does not respect me at all in bed. He comes close to and sometimes enters the forbidden area. I have asked him not to do this because it is uncomfortable for me. Every time we have sex, he goes to this area.

My husband is very distant.

Although we get along quite well and i do feel that he loves me, there is an emptiness in our relationship since we are never intimate with each other. I believe that I lack the level of attractiveness which he desires as he has usually visited pornographic websites, websites of escort girls Etc in the past. I spoke to him about it and he appologised sincerely.

My Husband prefers to masturbate than to have intimacy with me

My husband and I have been married for 8 yrs, we have one daughter. After about 3 years of marriage our relationship started going downhill. We have been arguing over little things but mainly because he has not been performing with me sexually as he should. He only ever did it with me when I would initiate it and even then many times he would just tell me that he is tired. If finally he does decide to perform with me he would not be intimate with me, wont kiss me etc, just does his thing.