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I am beating myself up, but equally angry at her for the mixed signals!

The love of my life denies that she ever loved me. It would one thing if she’s telling the truth, but this was not the case!

He was obsessed with unearthing my past, but it turns out he was just as guilty

He forgave me every time but now I wonder if it was just because he was hiding much more.

I have been spreading lies about my father, saying he abused me….how do I repent?

Do I have to confess to both my father and the people who I lied about him to?

I hid my addictions from my girlfriend but we are both reverting…should I confess to her?

I was previously addicted to drugs and masturbation, but have reverted back to Islam. I’m worried that telling my partner about my addictions would hurt our potential marriage.

I want to reconcile with my wife, who claims her parents blackmailed her

On the one hand, my wife says I am not intimate with her in bed, while on the other hand, she claims her parents emotionally blackmailed her to divorce me. I am confused!

My boyfriend lies, wants a threesome, and a second wife!

I am in a relationship with a guy who lies and requests creative sexual situations of me. He still wants to marry me after all that!

I lied to my family, but the truth would destroy them

I know that if my family found out the truth, it’d hurt them, anger them, lead them to hate me or even hurt me, and could destroy my family and bring shame and embarrassment onto them and me.

Seeking comfort from someone else

I am married to a man who lies and cheats. My supervisor at work hugged me when I was crying. For the first time I felt comforted and secure.

Poor family boundaries, and I’m tired of it

I am at a turning point. My father does not care if he is naked in front of me. He doesn’t lower his gaze and I have advised him, but he simply said that he didn’t know I was around. This doesn’t happen once but plenty of times, as our rooms are opposite each other. My mother, on the other hand, does not share the room with him anymore, and has since made the living room entirely hers, even getting dressed in front of my nephews.

Lost my partner’s trust, we are broken

e had asked me for the full truth, as his gut was telling him I had hidden so much. I told him some truths and then swore it was everything. He then begged me that there was more and I should come clean so I told him a few more things but still hid others. He then said he would go to my ex-friends and ask them if I didn’t come clean myself. Afraid of the humiliation, I told him every detail. I explained to him that I never wished to hurt him, and my intentions were always pure.