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My husband is a good man but emotionally unavailable

He is INCAPABLE of EMPATHY for me when I am hurt or upset about something he does. If I am hurt and complain to him, he always seems to interject HIMSELF into the conversation and play victim. He even does this with our children. I have a son who is ADHD and requires alot of care. My husband LOVES his children but is not good nurturer or talker.

Muslim Girl, Depressed and Alone, Hopes of Marriage Shattered

I know Allah knows best but I just don’t understand why someone could be meant to walk through life alone? Am I being forced to pay for the sins of my parents which I cannot ever change?

Loneliness haunts me

Look everyone leaves me. now i feel extremely alone , deppressed and sad especially at nights. i couldnt believe and understand why do i cry so much. i cant control on crying, at one moment i m happy and at other i m crying .

What should I do with my life?

I don’t know how to begin my life story. My first husband died in war in 1995. After 4 years, I got married for the second time, only Sharia wedding. That man was religious and was on Hajj.

None of my proposals materialise

I am writing in today as I have started feeling incredibly low again, I just feel as though life is full of CONSTANT hurdles and I keep losing motivation. I know I should be grateful to Allah swt for everything I have, but I have been dying for one particular happiness for a long while now but despite my efforts I am not seeing any results. I had a horrible expereince when I first set out to find a suitable spouse and it traumatised me, it took me a long while to recover from it but I have.

While sinning everything was fine, after marrying he hits me.

We had to marry before Ramadan so I could be with him through out and I fasted that month which was amazing.. I knew after I wanted to convert.. But he would always say to be that I am not ready and put me down about the religion saying that I am not fit to be a Muslim…

I would love him to express his feelings.

As I am a housewife, I wait for him to come from office.When he comes, he just comes for 5 min, then he leaves the room, … Sometimes it seems that there are some magnetic forces that are attracting him to come outside.

Since we moved to his sister´s house, he ignores me.

I have been married for 2 years now and Iam very upset with my husband, it´s like he doesn´t care for me anymore. We both work for living, he works shifts and I work mon to fri.

I feel useless….

I have been in a relationship with this guy for a few months but we always argue and he is always rude and disrespectful to me, and we always break up and we always get back together but I know I shouldn’t but I can never stop.

I feel depressed and nobody understands why.

Asalam-o- Alykum. I came across to this website to find solution for my problem for so much needed advice Inshallah hope it help me .However my problem stems from living to the United States, I feel life is very hard here…