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Sad, frustated, astonished and sometimes hopeless. Where is my life?

Something inside me is torturing me saying,’You are not so good looking as Non muslims, who have fair white skin, and they all have pretty girls and they are also admired by girls for their muscles, and attractiveness. Allah maybe doesn’t love you. In fact, He doesn’t help you in your everyday struggle to be without someone to love. Watch how they enjoy sex, live fullfilled lives, get good positions at job, and look how they are enthusiastic about life.They get everything because they are good, and maybe you’re not so good’.

How to win over the solitude?

Time goes on and I remain alone. Every day my life gets harder and harder. I talk to myself. I talk to Allah; but not with my family, not with my friends, and not with my muslims brothers. There was a believer who helped me, but only when he has time so he stopped helping me. I tried to know more people. I go to mosque to pray even if it’s far away from my city. And yet, even there nobody wants to help me.

I feel like a silly loner – I don’t have any friends

At times I get this feeling maybe Allah thinks I don’t deserve any friends or maybe He’s angry at me and wants me to be alone…

Will I always be alone?

In all my years, I have been alone. I believe strongly in the sanctity of marriage, and I fear Allah. I have never been with a woman, never held or kissed one, although I have been heartsick over two. I fear Allah, but I am so lonely. My heart is breaking. As I get older, I fear the prospect of finding a wife to love and cherish is becoming ever more remote… is it my destiny to remain alone until I die?

Lost motivation to look forward because of my past

Sometimes I wonder why Allah brings people in the world if they will have so many problems? There are even times when I have told myself that maybe I won’t even have anyone in this life, and then again this life is temporary. I just don’t know what’s happened to me? I don’t understand how rude, heartless, and conniving people get such caring, loving, and devoted partners; and when it comes to honest people who want good for others and care for others, they just have it so hard.

Divorced but not able to forget my ex-husband

Please tell me how should I forget him and start a fresh, and whether I really love him or it’s just the effect of the loneliness with me. Pray for me that I get a religious, loving husband and the one who respects my feeling and emotions.

My husband is a good man but emotionally unavailable

He is INCAPABLE of EMPATHY for me when I am hurt or upset about something he does. If I am hurt and complain to him, he always seems to interject HIMSELF into the conversation and play victim. He even does this with our children. I have a son who is ADHD and requires alot of care. My husband LOVES his children but is not good nurturer or talker.

Muslim Girl, Depressed and Alone, Hopes of Marriage Shattered

I know Allah knows best but I just don’t understand why someone could be meant to walk through life alone? Am I being forced to pay for the sins of my parents which I cannot ever change?

Loneliness haunts me

Look everyone leaves me. now i feel extremely alone , deppressed and sad especially at nights. i couldnt believe and understand why do i cry so much. i cant control on crying, at one moment i m happy and at other i m crying .

What should I do with my life?

I don’t know how to begin my life story. My first husband died in war in 1995. After 4 years, I got married for the second time, only Sharia wedding. That man was religious and was on Hajj.