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Strong feelings of commiting suicide

I’m sick of this life and crying and feeling lonely. I’m so hurt and in pain. Will Allah forgive me if I kill myself and end this pain????

I feel upset and miss my wife

My wife came on holidays for getting married. But now she has gone back to her country and I am feeling very uncomfortable as I love her very much.

Working abroad and lonely

I miss my wife so much… My first child was born last month but I can’t meet…

Regretting Past

I still pray that both of those guy-friends stay happy and blessed with their new gorgeous soulmates. But my problem is that I am too much alone.

My husband left me but I don’t understand if he cheated me or not

Still now I do not forget him, I still love him, I want him back in my life. Everyone hates him. I’m trying but I can’t.

Trapped in my own thoughts

Was it my mistake as I wanted to be in limits… maybe I didn’t give the guy what he wanted? I just hang out with girls, so was not hanging out with this guy the reason he left me?

Where do I fit in this world?

My relationship with my parents isn’t so good. I spend most of the time ignoring them or bickering. I am clearly the least favorite child, but I don’t mind.

Desires vs. society

Others might not be bothered delaying nikah in the desi society, but some have strong desires and since I’m one of them, why should I suffer? Some portray marriage as such a complex thing, as if it’s no different than being jailed. Now I’m 22, don’t watch porn, wish to stay away from fitna, sport a sunnah beard, and offer my prayers. But every so often when I get depressed, I just can’t help but please myself.

Feeling hopeless about marriage

I can’t find a partner for myself at all even though I have done many wazifas and prayed a lot. Though I have had proposals, but nothing seems to eventually work out.

I need some help for past abuse

I thought Allah hated me and wanted him to hurt me. Even though I know that’s probably not right, I still feel that way sometimes. I feel like Allah hates me. Thats when I go back to my suicidal thoughts. I planned, but I’m too scared. Sometimes though I hurt myself without knowing because I’m just so sad.