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Arranged marriage – does he love me?

Salam, I am 25 years old and a mother of two kids I don’t know whether my husband wants me or if he loves me. I don’t find a solution for my answer because he doesn’t even care for my children nor even me in a positive way. I think he is busy in his [...]

I can’t carry on in this loveless marriage

I need some guidance. I was a orphan child and my aunty brought me up and at the age of 16 she wanted me to marry her brother’s son. I wasn’t happy about it and she emotionally blackmailed me and took me to Pakistan .

My husband is having a relationship with his parents instead of me

My husband is Muslim and I am Christian. When we got married, I converted to Islam just to please him only to realize that it was a mistake. He told me that I just needed to convert to please his parents but didn’t need to practice the religion. I tried however to pray and practice the religion but did not get any fullfilment because of our other cultural differences.

All parties unhappy in this forced marriage situation

I was seeing a guy from past three years and we have made our minds that we will get married. We have talked to our parents also, the guy’s parents (uncle and aunt) agreed and he formally proposed me for marriage to which I agreed, he was outside country and during that time his aunt arranged his marriage with the daughter of his brother.

I had an arranged marriage and don’t like my husband

I have been married for 3 years. It was a arranged marriage. My nikkah took place 3 months before my ruksati. Right after my nikkah I got to know my husband and didn’t like him. I have dreams where I see myself in love with other men…

He’s trying to divorce and abandon me for no good reason

My husband and I knew each other since 1997. At that time, I was divorced with two sons who live with me in Houston. He was divorced with one son who lives with his American mother in California. He was a student preparing for Pharmacy College. I waited five years for him to complete his studies, then he married someone else, then divorced her and married me, then married another woman.

In limbo with absent husband who won’t divorce

I got traded by my own father on some culturally backward promise and was married to a using Pakistani so that he could get to the UK. I have learned that my husband is definitely using drugs, cannabis and cocaine and he drinks alcohol. He shows no care or concern for the children and has become a stranger to them.

My wife never wanted to marry me and now she treats me poorly

I feel my wife did not want to get married to me at all. It was because her family told her to. She has said many times that she’s better looking than me. Even the treatment I’m getting makes me feel this way

Married to Avoid zinaa, now in a loveless marriage

I got married because of hating zina, I just got married to a girl I did not love before, just to save myself from zina, I had never been in love with anyone because those I could love never loved me, and those who could love me I had no love for.

My husband and I have a loveless marriage

I am unhappy in my marriage; I am not able to communicate with my husband, his and my thoughts and ideas are worlds apart. My daughters love their dad, and due to this I am perservering in this marriage. I feel lonely as I have no affection or love for my husband and I presume he feels the same.