Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘Marriage’

Negative istikhara but we still want to get married

Istikhara was done by mufti saab and the answer came no… but I still want to marry him. Can I lie to my dad saying the answer came yes?

Financial issues are causing problems in our marriage

Now that I work I pay half the bills, grocery and other things my son might need. I get no pocket money at all unless I ask… On top of that he doesn’t help round the house “cos that’s not his job”.

In this case, is a secret nikah valid?

If he reveals his Nikkah in the country, his own sister’s and niece’s marriages will be in danger. But he is ready to repeat nikah with witness once both will reach in third country.

Istikhara to choose between marriage proposals

I did istikhara… I slept and “NONE OF THEM” came to my mind.

Am I divorced? If so can we start fresh and remarry?

Please don’t give me personal opinions… all I need is proper guidance or at least something that will guide me in the right direction.

My parents think I’m too young to get married

Besides I have an elder cousin who isn’t yet married and my family believes in proper sequence.

In a complicated marriage

I’d like to ask if my marriage to my husband is valid.

Getting married to an older woman

What is it like being married to an older woman compared to some one who is younger ie benefits, things I should maybe be sensitive about?

My parents are forcing me to get married

My siblings are saying me that you are committing a sin, Allah wont accept your Ibadat and all. But i really dont want to get married.

Is love haram?

Is it haram for me to love someone who I’m not married to?