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When will my husband come back? (CLOSED)

When will my married life get better, and when will my husband come back to me?

No rukhsati in sight, now my friend is on my mind

I had a friend. He was very honest and he loved me a lot before my nikah, and he still does. I don’t have any contact with him, but because of my husband I sarted missing him and I don’t know what to do now.

My husband is not coming home

After marriage, my heart filled with enormous love for him. Now that I am a mother of a two year old daughter, still he is living a bachelor’s life. He goes at 8pm with his friends, and comes at around 5am daily. His friends are all unmarried and elite class. He never prays, no fasting or any other command of Allah. And if I ask him to stay at home or come early, he uses abusive language with me.

Emotionally crushed by my husband’s indifference

I am so sick of it. I’ve never been more angry, more sad, more depressed. I can’t even look at his face. He makes me nauseous. His voice is so annoying. I feel so bad for feeling this way, but I’ve been spending the past week making duaa, praying and reading Quran- but I just can’t get over it this time. I wake up and go to sleep crying. Tomorrow is our third year anniversary, and I truly despise my husband this moment.

Please suggest what shall I do, my son and I can’t live separate from my husband?

Since 5 yrs i every day pray with ALLAH and ask for help and support but we failed . I tried every possibility but still failed. Please suggest what i do. how me and my son can be happy again. i read every Surat in Qur’an. and i am keep reading. but still we are living our miserable life.

I haven’t seen my husband in ten years, am I still married?

Am I still married to him as I have had no connection with him for 10 years and I do not know his whereabouts? I want to move on but I have a guilt that I am still married to him but unable to get a divorce as I do not know where he or his family are at now.

My husband left the house and will not tell me where he is staying

My husband has left home and has now been out of the house for one week. he is refusing to take my calls and he has not called me not even to check to see if I’m OK. I know that he was having an affair because i spoke to the woman that was about two months ago. But now i know that she is not seeing him any more. But i feel now it is some one else that he is seeing.

I feel abandoned by my husband

I am married to a Muslim man, and I am a convert with children not belonging to my current husband. He decided to go to his country and visit his parents and siblings there, then would return and find a job and a home for us. When he first left he kept in touch regularly, but he has been gone now 5 months and I have not heard from him in weeks. He does not even answer emails or any of my calls. In the last contact he sent to tell me that he was robbed and did not have phone but would return home eventually; he will let me know.