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Reached my tolerance limit with my mother-in-law

I have been married for 5 yrs and I have 2 kids, my mother in-law is jealous and talktive a lot. I and my husband bought an apartment, and my husband never accepted to live alone and shift to our house.

Can my mother-in-law tell my husband not to spend time with me?

I do not understand why my mother in law hates me in this way! I accepted so far everything calmly up to now but since my husband started warning me with divorce and that i had to go and beg her for forgiveness and bend on my knees and ask them if i can sleep on the stair in front of their house i stopped talking to her because i believed she was much nicer then that and she started all the sudden with the hateful towards me behaviors.

Living with the in laws

I need your dire help in advising me as a Muslim how to deal with my ongoing situation. I have been married for 3 years and I love my husband dearly and his family. However, I have maintained sabar and remained steadfast with my difficult in laws.

Bullied and belittled by the in-laws I live with

I live in Pakistan. I was married in 2009. My husband is a very nice person. He takes care of me regarding my needs. He has 1 sister and 3 brothers. The problem is that my sister-in-law is married and she is almost 2 years younger than me. As she is the only one daughter or sister in her home so she is treated very specially. As I told earlier that she is married but still she lives in my father-in-laws home (we all live together). Her in-law’s home is nearby, but my mother-in-law prefers her to live here.

Am I right for wanting a divorce?

I got married when I was 14 with my first cousin. When I started living with him and with my mother in law as well, they started abusing me without any fault and my mother in law became abusive to me both physically and emotionally. Now I’ve got an order of protection against him because he was threatening to deport and kill me.

My in-laws have driven me and my husband apart

One day when i came from work my sister-in-law started saying that i would not make food in the house as our cook had not come for 2 days and she got agitated… when i told her that v can speak and work out things.. but it went invain and she started hitting herself on her face.. and blew things out of proportion… my husband was involved in this and he also supported her saying that i am in fault…and removed other issues that my family does not respect him and in anger he broke the lcd television… he left the house and went for Goa for 4days…. i stayed with my in laws… they would not speak to me

My husband lives with me and my family, and he can’t stand it

I got married and my husband came from overseas and now lives with me and my mother at home. (he is also my cousin). However, the situation at home has been very unpleasant since he came. My mother and my husband do not get along.

Do I have a special duty to my mother-in-law?

My husband wants me to make up with my hypercritical in-laws, but I don’t want to.