Tag Archive for ‘Proposing marriage’
How do i get rid of guilt?
I am really on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I am 21 yrs old. I live in UK. I am a pious muslimah. MashaAllah I pray five times, fast during ramadhan, wear hijab and try to stay away from haram things…
How do I propose him?
I recently visited family and got to know about this person who is unmarried and not interested in anyone. He is in-law to my aunty, I don’t know if I should contact him. He is a good practising Muslim and from good family. If I should contact him, then is text message a better way to contact as he isn’t in my city.
My life is messed up; please help me to make the right decision.
He loves me too I know that; the problem with me is that I love him a lot and cannot think about anyone else other than but I am ignoring him and making dua to Allah to help me. What should I do? I have problems in my life I cannot go and marry just someone else and also I have tried to but I cannot help thinking about him and cry and praying all the time.
My fiance cheated on me; should i marry him?
I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we got engaged at the end of last year. I found out 5/6 months ago that he had cheated on me with a non-Muslim who then wouldn’t leave him alone and statrted playing games with him. My mum had agreed for me to marry him initially however now disagrees with this. She has said on many occasions she has had signs even in her sleep that this guy is not right for me and wants me to just move on from him. His parents have also from day 1 tried picking at things and constantly trying to lecture me on what to do and I feel that this will happen more if I was to get married to him. I am so confused as I don’t know what to do?
I am confused as he says; he loves me yet doesn’t want to dissolve his marriage.
I was introduced to a boy as we were both in a stage of looking for marriage. Whilst I got to know him we both developed feelings for each other and wanting to marry one another. So, when my other half found out he was fuming and said I could not be trusted. He then looked at another proposal his parents arranged for him and told me he was still in love with me. Thereafter, our relationship was going downhill and after a month of our mending of relationship I heard he is marrying another girl! He calls me and tells me he loves me and made a hasty decision out of confusion!
I want a divorce from my wife and want to marry this other girl who I have been in relationship with.
I am in a situation which is very troubling. Eight years ago I got married to my mother’s identical twin sister’s daughter from Pakistan. For all these years I have put on an act so my mother remains happy. We are not able to have children & last year I became exhausted of living a lie. I met a girl with a beautiful heart and good intentions with whom I and she instantly had a spark and connection with. Unfortunately, she became pregnant with my twin babies & this is when I had to tell her I was still married. I left her with no option but to abort.
I am heartbroken, overwhelmed and ashamed for what I did. Please help me I want my fiance back
I was engaged to a brother. We had the right intentions and were doing things in the correct way. No private contact, no private meetings. The first time we met alone, we both tried to get a third party but were unable to, and I was leaving the city so we ended up meeting alone.
I am in love with a married man and my feelings are torn; don’t know what to do?
Four years ago a man came to work in my department. He is a good muslim, husband and father alhamdilullah. In addition, he is very charismatic, popular and excellent at his job. However, I remained true to my values and tried my best for the relationship to remain professional. I confronted him and I admit that I became terribly distressed and he tried to comfort me. The situation became impossible after that, as I think it must have been obvious to him that I feel the same way about him, although I would never say. The problem is that no matter how I try, I cannot forget this man. He continues to attempt to contact me and recently messaged me through my facebook account which I have now closed.
can I marry my former brother in law?
My name is Aneesa; I am 25 and divorced. My older sister recently also divorced from my brother in law. I feel he has the right qualities that I am looking for in a spouse. In Islam is it possible for us to marry ? even though my parents might refuse ?
Can a Muslim girl marry a Hindu man if he promises to convert after marriage for her sake?
If a Muslim girl and a Hindu guy got into a relationship and the guy promises her that he will convert to islam just because he has strong feelings for the girl. Is it okay to accept that the guy actually converted to Islam just because he has strong feelings for the girl and he’s willing to do anything just to marry her? While the girl prays to Allah in the same place where the family carries out all their hinduism culture, pooja (worship), not eating red meat etc?
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