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Family not agreeing due to caste
Hi i am currently going through the a problem and i came across this forum i have known this guy for 6 yrs my family hav met him and know his from a good family and is a good guy and that he will keep me happy but are not allowing me to marry him due to caste difference.
How do we get our parents to agree to our marriage?
His mother came to know about our relationship and has blankly asked him to stop. Her reason seems to be same as the problem in my family. They just don’t like love marriages but I am too emotionally attached with him and so is he. I want his mum to accept us so that we can be relieved about our future.
I want to marry my girlfriend but she is not divorced yet.
My question is; can we get married as soon as she sends the divorce forms or she have to wait for the divorce thing to finish completely. And once she will get divorce paper saying that she is divorced then she can marry me or we can get married now.??
Whose decision takes precedence in selecting the groom – daughter’s or parent’s?
My sister-in-law wants to marry a good man but her parents are refusing due to different traditions, culture, geography and the relationship between two countries (India & Pakistan) is never healthy.
We both wanted to marry but his mother doesn’t agree because I am a revert
He said that he will keep in touch via mail which I doubt and said that he will try once more with his mom because his mom was very upset about our intimate relationship. He told me that don’t give up hope and make a lot of dua. I am still so hurt and I am going crazy without him beside me; at least to hear his voice once a day. I miss him so much and I am praying to Allah to give him back to me and cry a lot.
My family won’t accept him, because he’s a European convert Muslim
I got to know a guy through Facebook in November last year. We talked for about two weeks, he seemed perfect even though we had never met and even though we only spoke for about two weeks. I live in Germany and he lives in Switzerland…
I want to marry him but his father refuses as I am divorced. Is it due to religion?
I am new to this site but I am sure that I can get my answers on this site. I am a 25 years old divorced Indian female and am currently dating a muslim guy. We get along with each other very well since we have been together for past 3 years. I have been divorced for 6 years now. Me and the guy want to get married and settle down but just because the divorced tag on my name has refrained us being together. He doesn’t have his mum with him and stays with his father and twin brother. We tried to talk to his father last year for us to get married but he refused due to me being divorced. I am not sure why he has said no to our relationship; is it because such marriages are not acceptable by religion Islam or is it something else?
I have converted to Islam but my boyfriend is delaying marriage as he is convincing his family to marry me.
My boyfriend was guiding me to Islam and it took so long time(nearly 2 yrs to understand the beauty of islam) and then I became Muslim. We don’t work in same place any longer. He is either not willing to come out or he is getting scared to spend time with me. I understand that now he is staying with his family and it won’t be the same as earlier. I feel I have been rejected by him. I m ready to do anything to convince his family but they are not ready to accept me.
I want to marry him but my mother refuses because he is from a different tribe. How can I convince her?
I have been looking for the right man for many years. Now, I met him who has the personality and qualities I desire. I am a true Muslim. He is very devoute Muslim. Proposing marriage is so difficult because we are from different tribes. He wants to get married in a halal way, but my mom disapproved him because of his tribe. I want to be married to him because I love him. I don’t want to disrespect my mother because I love her to death but how can I make her understand this good Muslim guy, who prays five times a day and knows the religion better than me. What is the best way to make her understand and tell her stop being judgmental without disrespecting her?
Should I continue praying for the man I love to marry me or should I move on?
I wanted to marry a man from a different background and school of thought to my own; due to his past and cultural differences my family rejected him. When my father eventually came round he decided to do istikarah and informed me that he was no longer willing to marry me because of my father and small differences we had in the past. I’m in a bit of a limbo because on one hand I should accept his decision and move on but on the other I love him so and can’t move on he’s such a beautiful person mashallah. I sometimes don’t know whether I am right or wrong? Should I accept Allah’s decree and move on and accept the past is over or should I pray for our marriage?
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