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First wife refuses to accept me as second wife

Sallam allaikom. I have recently married a Muslim man as a second wife. When he told his first wife about our marriage she has refused to accept me. He is concerned about not seeing his children. She is requesting that he get an annulment from me.

Stay with my fiance, or marry the Afghani man?

i have met a nice muslim man from my country and we got engaged. he is 10 years older than me and he wants to get married right away but he has no job. meanwhile i met another man who wants me as a second wife. i cannot decide…

Financial and cultural problems are destroying my marriage

I had to work as a waitress in junky restaurants for about two years. My husband sends his money to his family and makes me pay the household bills. He slaps me, pulls my hair and calls me names.

He took an oath on the Quran to never touch me sexually, but now we’re in love & want to marry

He is married and I have been talking to him for 2 yrs. We respect each other nothing sexually happened between us. I know his children and his wife. She doesn’t like me because I help him alot and she thinks that something is going on between him and me. She made him swear over the Quran that he will not touch me sexually and that he looks at me like part of the family.

My husband lied about everything, he was already married

After my failed marriage, i met someone who was born here in uk. i never knew that he is pakistani aswell. He lied everything bout himself. I told him everything about me and never lied to him and he told me that he is divorced as well and have one son and the ex wife is in pakistan. He even told me that he is just adopted by a pakistani family. I believe him coz he dont look like a pakistani and have a very fair skin.

Should we divorce or should husband re-marry because we haven’t got a child?

We are married for nine years, but we haven’t got any child and we both thinking where our relationship is going? No baby. He loves me alot and I love him too, I can’t live without him. I am the one who gave suggestion to my husband to give me divorce, may be because I can’t give him a child and start new life, or getting married with another girl.

My husband married a second woman and I am sick

i’m a hindu who ws in love wit muslim guy n as witness to khuda v accepted each other by saying kabul, since 3yrs as husband n wife. But its becoming a problem for him sometimes to spend time wit me. Kindly advice what to do i’ve become depressed n i’ve stopped having food n i’m sick kind of bed ridden.

We got married, and then I found out he is already married after a week

My issue is about polygamy. I am married to a muslim man and I converted on the same day. In my situation, I didn’t know at all before we got married that my husband had a wife and on the process of divorce already. After a week of getting married I just then learned about the 1st wife which surprised me a lot and got me confused with the situation.

Will it be okay to live separately from my husband without divorce when he has marries another woman?

Although he loves me very much and insists that we all stay together as family, I have never been able to accept the fact that he would be with another woman. Its hurt me badly. Besides, this woman was his past love before me and if 10 years of marriage with me couldnt get her out of his mind, I just think that once they are together, I would slowly be forgotten.

My husband wants to marry his ex hindu girlfriend who is still married to another man

My husband has been pestering me to allow him to marry his Hindu ex-girlfriend. He has told me that he would never be able to forget her as she has suffered so much for him and wants her back in his life. Moreover their affair was also very physical. He also admits that he loves me dearly and will see to that I would never get upset in life ever again.