Tag Archive for ‘stress’
I want my husband to give me a separate house and privacy, because everyday I feel I am doing sin as my brothers in law are always in the hall and the house is very small that I have to face them. My question is, what does islam says about the mother in law and her rights on the daughter in law? My mother in law says she and my father in law are first, and then my husband.
Asslam walaykum. I used to be a very diligent student who did really well at school. I was doing Ok until I had to take a board exam. I kept delaying this exam for the fear of failing and the hope that I could do better. I have been studying for a very long time, […]
Long story short, I want to be that way I was when I was happy. I know that I should pray and ask Allah to ease my worries, but I am not able to attain tranquility in salah. Can anybody suggest to me one of the best duas that I can recite?
If we take any pills or other things like jaributian, which takes our memory safely, will that be a sin? Even if those are halal? And what if I take something which has side affects which can cause coma or loss of life unintentionally? I mean, if we don’t have the ‘neeyat’ of harming ourselves but accidentally we harm our self or lose our life, would it be considered suicide?
So stress is eating me alive now, and I don’t know what to do or where to start. I can’t continue living like this because my salary can’t even provide me good food, and I am always afraid of commitment…but I’m all alone and need support from a partner.
I really hate myself for pushing people away that love me and then trying to bring in the people who don’t. I can’t handle all these pains in one go: mum’s health, family arguments, my broken heart and loneliness. I cry everyday while I pray during namaz; I can’t concentrate and I soon breakdown.
When she had a first baby (with my brother) and second i went there bearing gifts and i use to go all out balloons, gifts and i mean expensive but yet when they first found out that i was pregnant the first thing she said was “is she going for an internal check up” who says that!
I did medical checkup also thrice and Al ham dullilah everything is fine but till now i did not conceive. My in laws, every relatives makes me so so mad by asking same question “why on earth I am not conceiving ? ” .
I talk to my husband but he never supports me, he always says that elders are always right, and even if they are wrong we can’t tell them anything. He forces me to talk to my mother in law but my heart just does not accept her, she always tries to manipulate me and make me feel weak. I wanted to study and work as I was so tired of being at home just thinking about her all the time, but she told my husband that all women must sit at home and look after their children they have no right to work.
I was alone all these days and was able to handle up my stress and anxiety and hiding my foolish mistakes (which I do when I am in stress), but the situation will be different when I am married. I always think, will I be able to keep my wife happy in my current state?