Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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How should I deal with selfish, jealous and interfering people? And any du’a for releasing debts?

When she had a first baby (with my brother) and second i went there bearing gifts and i use to go all out balloons, gifts and i mean expensive but yet when they first found out that i was pregnant the first thing she said was “is she going for an internal check up” who says that!

Why can’t I conceive? Is it because I married my cousin?

I did medical checkup also thrice and Al ham dullilah everything is fine but till now i did not conceive. My in laws, every relatives makes me so so mad by asking same question “why on earth I am not conceiving ? ” .

Problematic in-laws and husband

I talk to my husband but he never supports me, he always says that elders are always right, and even if they are wrong we can’t tell them anything. He forces me to talk to my mother in law but my heart just does not accept her, she always tries to manipulate me and make me feel weak. I wanted to study and work as I was so tired of being at home just thinking about her all the time, but she told my husband that all women must sit at home and look after their children they have no right to work.

Suffering from Clinical Anxiety, Should I get Married?

I was alone all these days and was able to handle up my stress and anxiety and hiding my foolish mistakes (which I do when I am in stress), but the situation will be different when I am married. I always think, will I be able to keep my wife happy in my current state?

6 months later I still can’t forget him

that time it was 1 month v broke up.. and now it has being 6 months nothing seems to change.. I am 16 yrs.. am fuly mental.. ya Allah y is this hapening wid me.. i prayed so much after one of the brother in ths site advicd me so wel.. before sleepng no mater hw sleepy i usd to be no mater hw lazy i usd to feel bt stil i usd to get up.. cry to alah that hav mercy on me.. i dnt want to thnk abt tht guy… i prayd alot..

What is the Evidence that says Masturbation is Haraam?

It’s been over 2 months since I last masturbated(because i heard it was Haram from a friend and stopped) and I never watched porn/bikini mag/video/etc. I didn’t then and don’t intend to ever. I know the sunnah says to fast but that’s not going to work

How do I turn back to Allah when I remain tense all the time?

I always remain tense and the only thing that comes from my mind is hatred of this world. Every time I look in the mirror and say to myself that I’m a good person, I want to help people, but still I don’t want to be a hero.

Why do I keep failing when I work so hard?

Asselaam Aleykum my brothers and sisters.

I am a 19-year-old Muslima. Alhamdulillah I pray and thank Allah for everything I have. The last two years there has been a lot of stress in my life. Alhamdulillah Allah gave me patience and I am sure Allah has the best for me.

My problem is that I keep failing the same class, however I really try to study hard.

How do I manage my wife’s bad behaviour?

I want to share my entire situation so that I would tell you the better question which I am suffering from. My wife was already divorced of six year relationship with her ex before I got married. She was a sterility patient and I knew this very well.

How can I have a happy relationship when I am so bitter about my sacrifices?

I am a person who used to be very sociable. I used to hang out a lot with friends, family, cousins and more. Eight years ago a man entered my life. Since I said yes to him, people that were close to me become my enemies. He is not a bad guy at all he is Muslim and has no bad habits at all