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How do I go about getting a divorce from my husband?

I was going through menopause and was not very sexual with my husband. I know it was not a good thing to do, for my husband went to someone else and cheated on me.

He wants me to follow his haram desires

I told him that i would not accompany him with his thoughts firstly because my Islam would not encourage this and secondly because of my values and ethics what my parents have imbibed me. He says that i am not supportive and would be force to do things alone.

He divorced me via text message, is it valid?

My husband has cheated on me many times and I caught him many times having physical relations with other women for that reason we were living seperately. One night he came to know that I knew everything he is doing on internet. He called me middle of night and in extreme anger he abused me and said I divorce u immediately.

Husband uses dating sites to meet other women

For the past few years my marriage has been difficult. I found that my husband is/was using dating sites, chat rooms etc to meet online/chat with other women. I have seen some conversations and they are completly inappropriate.

I am falling apart inside and desperately need balanced guidance.

I am approaching divorce and plan to move from ***+ after five years of marriage to an Arabic Israeli citizen back to my home in ****. He is relatively wealthy but plans to leave us with nothing. I have three semesters plus internship hours left to complete my degree in court reporting. I found a nice therapist recommended to me by a friend once I return to *** but that could be weeks or months before I get there

Can’t trust my husband after I found emails to other women

I found out and confronted my husband about what appears to be an emotional involvement via email, with a woman he met on a flight. The back and forth seemed like a prelude to something more physical but I could make out, that despite his entreaties, the woman had not taken the ‘affair’ to the next level…

What are my Islamic rights over my husband, he drinks, smokes marajuana & has an STD

My husband has moved out, he drinks, smokes marajuana and has an STD which he transmitted to me. I need to know my Islamic rights over him.

Cheating husband

My husband having affairs /flirting with girls for a year. Evidence shows that he is involved in zina (no witness but emails from other non muslim girls tell whats going on between them). He is not practicing muslim, drinks alcohol (discreetly).

Unfaithful Husband

I have been married for almost 6 years. We don’t have any children yet… a blessing, I have begun to think. He treated me really badly since the beginning, being very rude and curt all the time. In the first year of our marriage I discovered that he was in a relationship with a cousin of his, romantically involved. I went on. Then I discovered that he had sent messages to one of MY cousins, and was starting an affair with her. That was caught too, and everyone came to know. That time he said that this is the last time anything like this will ever happen.

My husband has online relations with other women

I need advice and help, I feel so alone and confused. I met my husband online 4 years ago, a few times over the time we met I discovered he was talking online to females and joining wierd fetish groups for sexual relief. I would discover many times what he did, but I new deep down he is a good man and I stood by him believeing him every time he said sorry and that he had done tawba over his mistakes.

I find myself asking what I’m doing wrong. It’s not the obvious reason where people will say I dont give him sex, as I’m always the one asking and waiting for it. He is always tired because of work and when we do finally have sex he just jumps in the bath and wants to eat, whereas I want to lay down and cuddle and talk.