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Since he left me I don’t eat and I cry all the time
i really dont think i can marry anyone else anymore .. for me i already accepted him as my husband and still i cannot believe that he did this to me… i still thinks he will come back one day as he talked to me damn rudely…
My fiance cheated on me; should i marry him?
I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we got engaged at the end of last year. I found out 5/6 months ago that he had cheated on me with a non-Muslim who then wouldn’t leave him alone and statrted playing games with him. My mum had agreed for me to marry him initially however now disagrees with this. She has said on many occasions she has had signs even in her sleep that this guy is not right for me and wants me to just move on from him. His parents have also from day 1 tried picking at things and constantly trying to lecture me on what to do and I feel that this will happen more if I was to get married to him. I am so confused as I don’t know what to do?
I cheated on my husband but didn’t tell him until a year later
I was in a relationship with a boy at the age of 17 and it went along for about 3 years until we decided to get married without telling our parents. The first 6 months of our relationship I had a problem of not being fully committed to him and I cheated by kissing 5 other guys during that time.
My husband cheated on me but I don’t know how to deal with this situation. What are my options?
A week ago I walked through the doors of my home to find my husband in bed with another woman. Apparently she had no idea that he was married, and I know this because I saw the messages that he sent to her. He said he has made Tawbah but I am unsure of his sincerity. He seems to be genuine, but this is not the first incident that we have had; this is just the first time that he had gotten caught in the act. I asked for his reasoning for being defensive but he didn’t reply. All he keeps saying is; I am sorry. I am so confused as to what to do.
Am I in an haram relationship?
I have been with my Muslim boyfriend for 6 years now and we were having sexual relations for about 5 years. Since this discussion a year has passed and now I have reverted to Islam, which I am very happy and proud about. I know that this is obviously haram as Allah does not permit any form of relationship between the opposite of sex till marriage, and if it was down to me I would marry him in a heart beat. But here is where it gets complicated because he says that he will marry me but not until he finishes his degree and/or if I get a good job.
I am in love with a married man and my feelings are torn; don’t know what to do?
Four years ago a man came to work in my department. He is a good muslim, husband and father alhamdilullah. In addition, he is very charismatic, popular and excellent at his job. However, I remained true to my values and tried my best for the relationship to remain professional. I confronted him and I admit that I became terribly distressed and he tried to comfort me. The situation became impossible after that, as I think it must have been obvious to him that I feel the same way about him, although I would never say. The problem is that no matter how I try, I cannot forget this man. He continues to attempt to contact me and recently messaged me through my facebook account which I have now closed.
Am I a virgin?
I have always loved to sit in woman’s laps, I used to do so a lot with her, and she never minded that of course. Also, on the bed, I used to sleep very close to her, and e.g. when she was asleep, I would put my legs on her legs, as if I was lying in her lap and thus enjoy myself I was 11-13 in this age then. I did not know fully about sex back then, and did not touch any of her private parts or anything, but simply repeated that childhood obsession of lying in her lap while she was asleep. I have tried to overcome that habit as well. I am at a point of life, where one comes to realize that there is nothing of True Vale besides one’s relationship to his Creator.
She wants her family back but wants her freedom too. How to trust my unfaithful wife?
I have talked with my wife and she gave me a story about her being unfaithful. She told me a story that confirmed my thoughts but now she is telling me that she gave me lie that may be would satisfy my heart and brain. I think she love me but not in the way that she will sacrifice something . I hope somebody knows what to do in this situation as I have lost a lot with my children and parents. On the other hand she is willing to go to imams,and try to convince them that I am the problem and maybe she is right because when I offer a solution she says yes and then it turns to no, Is there somebody who knows how to deal with a lying woman that really wants her family back but she wants the freedom to do what she wants even if its haram.
My wife committed adultery; what should I do?
A Pakistani Muslim man married a Filipino lady in UK about 2 years ago. She embraced Islam at the time of Nikah. Life went on as usual. After 1 year of marriage, Husband visa refused, and he came back to Pakistan. After 6 month, husband received a call from a Filipino man that he had sexual relationship with his wife. Pakistani man confirmed from his wife, she confessed adultery. Now the wife has confessed that she committed adultery, She is not very much repenting and even she is not practising Muslim; she drink wine occasionally; attending Christening parties. She is ready to accept any decision that the husband makes but is also seeking forgiveness.
In love with A Muslim man who is engaged to another woman by force. Do I have a chance?
I am deeply in love with my Muslim Ex-Boyfriend. We both saw the same point of view in life. We talked about , me becoming Muslim for him in the past. But On August 3, his parents got him engaged with someone else. The same day he broke up with me saying he’s very sorry and didn’t want this to happen. He has told me he likes her but does not love her. Like the way he loves me. Will there be a chance that he will Break off the Engagement? If so how?
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