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Tawba – please advise me…

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Respected ,
Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah.
Hope you are busy with the fikr of dawah to save the mankind from the fire of Jahannam and to settle towards the eternal happiness and tranquility in Jannah. In this days who does the effort of the last prophet hazrat Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, he/she is the Dayee of Allah to call people to the greatness and superiority power of Allah Subhanahu Ta A’ala.
I beg apologize your heartiest pardon to not to keep contact with yours excellency. The condition of my Imaan is very bad. I supposed to become fasik, fazir, munafik and Nau Zubillah kafir (may be ). Please save me from this terrible situation. Otherwise I fear I may not be left this world with Imaan. I shall become the insect of the hell.
Please advise me. I shall try to follow your advices obediently In Sha Allah to rectify myself and to become a dedicated representative of Allah Ta A’ala.  I must be purified. There is no sin in this world what I do not perform. I want to make real towba. But I think that the door of Tawba has been closed for me. May Allah bless me with his own mercy. Please do not give me shame! I still loose the shyness from Allah Subhanahu Ta A’ala.

Awaiting to hear from you soon. Jakham barhta gaya jo jo dawa ki.

Jazakallah!

khwajamus


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  1. Asalamu Alekum
    Dear brother/sister.
    As you have not mentioned wether you are a brother or sister.
    I do not know what Naseeha you are looking for. Listen to Mufti Ismail Menk he has beautiful lectures
    and also go to YouTube listen to the daily reminders.

    Start with praying your 5 daily prayers.
    Ask Allah subhana wa T'ala to forgive you for whatever sin you may have commited.
    Pray Qiyamulayl.
    The prophet ﷺ Said:

    “... The best Salat after the prescribed Salat is the Salat performed at night.”

    I do not pray it always but I will be inshaAllah.

    I hope I have been of benefit to your question.
    Asalam Alekum warahmat Allahi Wa Barakatuh.

  2. Wa 'alaikum as-salaam warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh khwajamus,

    I commend you for recognizing your sins and hoping for Allah's mercy and guidance.

    My dear brother, no matter what your sins are and how huge they are, you can always overcome them inshaAllah.

    Get a table and write your good deeds on the right side, and your negative deeds on the left side. Each day, practice on changing one particular negative deed, and then on the day when you are able to overcome it perfectly, you then move it and place it under your positive deeds, and then start practicing to over come another negative deed gradually, till you are done with all negative deeds inshaAllah. To be successful in this, you need to know the means that usually motivate you to fall into the sins and then practice to avoid them too gradually--be in the company of good friends and masjid.

    Also, as you practice on overcoming your negative deeds, make istighfaar a lot. You see, when you pour water in a white glass, and then start pouring black ink in the water, you will realize that the color of the water is changing and turning into black water till it becomes completely black with each drop of the black ink. Now in contrast, when you start pouring another white pure water on the black water, you will notice how the black water is changing to its initial white color.

    The first white water is your heart. The black ink are drops of your sins (they make your heart become black each time you commit a sin). However, the white water is your istighfaar (they refine the black water or your heart, and return the black water or your heart into it's initial white form with each drop of istighfaar, till your heart becomes completely white again, inshaAllah). Therefore, never overlook or underestimate istighfaar. Do it everyday and night as much as you can.

    May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala help you and us all. Ameen!

    Hope this helps inshaAllah, and Allah Ta'ala knows best.

  3. There is no sin in this world what I do not perform.

    Walykum assalam brother, its the sins that take one away from islam.

    Allah tala is oft forgiving and most merciful, try abstaining from the sins, repent and ask forgiveness. Because allah tala does not accept duas from a one who sins.

    Its not easy controlling nafs, brother take your self away form bad company, find and mingle with people who are MUSLIM. Who offer prayers five times a day. If possible change your place and live among muslims.
    If you are not married, get married that will help you from abstaining from zinah. Look for halal means of earning. Its never late till its too late when people are young they fall in to wrong ways.

    Start reading quarran with translation and books of scholars .

    Hope this helps insha allah, may allah tala keep us steadfast on quraan and sunnah.

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