Teenage love, masturbation, and a friend committing zina – What do I do?
Salam Brothers and Sisters,
I had a affair with my classmate girl when I was study A/L. She is a religious girl. I kissed her lot of times and touch her secret areas. at that time I intend to marry her seriously. She also intend to marry me. Due to her family members we breakup our affair. After I lost her affair I got more and more close to Islam and I understood it is a major Sin. And I'm asking taubah from allah but I'm still having the guilty feeling about my past. I worry about that should I tell this story to my future wife (in shaa allah). Please advice me on that. And I'm having a major issue that still i'm masturbating. How to avoid masturbating?
The next problem is my friend having sexual affair with a married women who have two children. He don't listen to my advice and I feel very bad about that. Still he and that women having sexual affair. Please advice me how to advice him and how to avoid masturbating and what is the solution for my past misbehavior..?
Jazakallah..
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Wa Alaykum salam brother.
To be sincerely speaking with you, you and I have something in common cuz last month ago I was in love with a girl which I do kissed her time without numbers but I later found out that that isn't good and is a major sin in sight of Allah swt then repented and promise not to do it again I turned to Allah for forgiveness. Brother Allah will surely forgive you if you can control yourself with even your masturbation act. Pls stop it and Allah will forgive you wasalam
OP: my friend having sexual affair with a married women who have two children. He don't listen to my advice and I feel very bad about that. Still he and that women having sexual affair. Please advice me how to advice him and how to avoid masturbating and what is the solution for my past misbehavior..?
How old is your friend? Married woman he is doing with could go to jail for a long time if your friend is a minor. Married woman's husband may divorce her too. Her husband may hurt both your friend and his wife.
You say girl is very religious but she let you touch her secret areas. You also kissed her.You make it seem like you did not know if it was a sin to touch a girl's secret areas or to kiss her.