I think my husband is cheating on me, what should I do?
I have this thought that my husband has been cheating me while he was working in a different city. First I saw he had made an email address that he was using and I did not know about it, and he was e-mailing a girl that was working with him while he was home. From the email it looked like he had told her that he was married and he has a son and also his name. I confronted him and he said she is only a friend but she called him by a "pet name" which was very weird so I let it go.
The second thing is that when he was working in a different state, I saw text messages to this woman's number in the phone bill. I asked him and he said it was his roommate using his phone. After a few messages the girl texted me and said that she did not know him, but that she did see a middle eastern guy in the bar and a white guy together and she was interested in the white guy. She says she does not know what I am talking about and she never met him or had any physical relationship with either one of the them.
The third thing is that I had an email account that he was talking to girls about his sexual desire and dreams. I have noticed he watches a lot of porn and tells me there is nothing wrong with that. So now a lot of things go in my mind like, did he use an escort service, does he do it online on porn sites, and a lot of other stuff. Of course he denies it all and swears that he has done nothing wrong.
When he comes home it looks like he is physically here but mentally some where else, we hardly have sex, I feel like I have no connection to him and every time I feel like I don't know him. So I went to this Hindu temple to see what that teacher will say, and he told me "he is cheating on you and you know about it". Then I went to this other palm reader and she told me the same thing.
I don't know what to do as he totally denies it, I have tried everything that he will tell me but he won't. I have threatened to leave but he says it is all my imagination and I have no proof and don't ruin my kids life. He cries and swears and I am confused what to do.
Please help me, if it is my shaitan that is putting stuff in my heart and if there is any dua that I can do to find out the truth so I can make a decision. My question is if there is any prayer or dua that I can do to rest my heart or to see something so I can move on. Right know I don't know if I am doing wrong or is my heart telling me the truth. Please help.
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