Monday, December 17, 2001
Dear Bilqis, Asalaamu Alaykum,
Right now I am extremely focused on getting my education and my priorities are organized as well. However I'm concerned about preparing myself for a relationship with a Muslimah when the time is right. As soon as I graduate from a technical school I have in my interest, I will gain my associate degree in networking and Insha'Allah search for a well paying job or career. I am very anxious about finding a faithful, trustworthy and sophisticated muslimah afterwards. Could you please send me a few tips on how to approach a Muslimah? I know that obviously one should talk to a Muslimah in a respectful and peaceful manner, I just need more advise on how to approach her. Insha'Allah a few tips would be best for me and much help.
May Allah bless you.....
- Need a Few Tips
Dear "Need A Few Tips",
I would suggest that you browse through the Articles and Essays section of the Zawaj.com site. There is quite a bit of information regarding all aspects of marriage. If you click on the second topic, "Weddings in Islam", there is an article entitled, "How to Help Muslims Get Married. Tips for Parents and Imams." Though written from the perspective of being a parent or an Imam, I think you will find some helpful information in this article.
I also encourage you to read through other articles here, as you will find a lot of good information.