Comments on: She had a secret ‘urfi marriage, and now her family wants to marry her to someone else http://www.zawaj.com/she-had-a-secret-urfi-marriage-and-now-her-family-wants-to-marry-her-to-someone-else/ Muslim Matrimonials, Muslim Wedding Photos, and Arab Singles Sat, 11 Feb 2012 20:44:11 -0800 hourly 1 By: Wael http://www.zawaj.com/she-had-a-secret-urfi-marriage-and-now-her-family-wants-to-marry-her-to-someone-else/comment-page-1/#comment-1298 Wael Sat, 11 Dec 2010 05:32:52 +0000 http://zw.worldsingles.com/?p=524#comment-1298 tina, this is a difficult situation. I suggest that first you speak to a Shaykh and find out if your first marriage was Islamically valid. If it was not then you have no problem. But if it was then you have a serious problem. You will have to separate from your current husband until you can get a divorce from the first. Then you will have to marry your current husband properly. However I am not a scholar and you really need to take this to someone with knowledge who can advise you. And Allah knows best. Wael Zawaj.com Editor tina, this is a difficult situation. I suggest that first you speak to a Shaykh and find out if your first marriage was Islamically valid. If it was not then you have no problem. But if it was then you have a serious problem. You will have to separate from your current husband until you can get a divorce from the first. Then you will have to marry your current husband properly. However I am not a scholar and you really need to take this to someone with knowledge who can advise you. And Allah knows best.

Wael
Zawaj.com Editor

]]> By: tina http://www.zawaj.com/she-had-a-secret-urfi-marriage-and-now-her-family-wants-to-marry-her-to-someone-else/comment-page-1/#comment-1296 tina Fri, 10 Dec 2010 17:52:16 +0000 http://zw.worldsingles.com/?p=524#comment-1296 i think i have messed up my whole life so plz help me ..13 yrs back i got married to a man without my family knowledge ..where the marriage took place with 2 witness of my husband and the qazi.. i did not get the mehr i think soo.. and then i met my 1st husband just twice 13 yrs back and till date i dont know his whereabout as he was also married at that time.. 5 yrs back i got married to another man of my parents choice im happily married but my past life haunts me and i want to rectify my mistake and make my marriage legall islamically what should i do please help me as my current husband is very nice i dont want to bear illegitimate children please help me i think i have messed up my whole life so plz help me ..13 yrs back i got married to a man without my family knowledge ..where the marriage took place with 2 witness of my husband and the qazi.. i did not get the mehr i think soo.. and then i met my 1st husband just twice 13 yrs back and till date i dont know his whereabout as he was also married at that time.. 5 yrs back i got married to another man of my parents choice im happily married but my past life haunts me and i want to rectify my mistake and make my marriage legall islamically what should i do please help me as my current husband is very nice i dont want to bear illegitimate children please help me

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