Comments on: Story: 30 Days of Carrying My Wife http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/ Muslim Matrimonials, Muslim Wedding Photos, and Arab Singles Sat, 11 Feb 2012 20:44:11 -0800 hourly 1 By: Robin Miculek http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-3001 Robin Miculek Wed, 16 Nov 2011 07:41:20 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/?p=1463#comment-3001 The ending of the story that I read on another site was that when he returned home that night he found his wife dead. She had cancer and that was the reason for her weight loss. She suffered with the cancer and never told him about it and all that time he was out with his mistress. By the time he realized that he was still in love with his wife it was too late. She died loving her husband and son and not wanting to tarnish her son's view of his father if he found out about the divorce. The husband was left to deal with the consequences of his actions. The ending of the story that I read on another site was that when he returned home that night he found his wife dead. She had cancer and that was the reason for her weight loss. She suffered with the cancer and never told him about it and all that time he was out with his mistress. By the time he realized that he was still in love with his wife it was too late. She died loving her husband and son and not wanting to tarnish her son’s view of his father if he found out about the divorce. The husband was left to deal with the consequences of his actions.

]]> By: Isha http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-1094 Isha Fri, 15 Oct 2010 23:59:50 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/?p=1463#comment-1094 The truth is that this does not make it all right. Not only is he not being true to himself. He is also being untrue to three other people. A wife ,son and mistress. Case in point here is that the wife out of desperation found a way to avoid divorce. Both husband and wife need to seek Islamic counseling. I never heard anything about prayer .Marriage is not a romance movie. How will this affect their lives in the future? Sometimes two people are great together for a certain span of time. Moving on has its benefits as well as working things out. Unclear here. Unstable. Too HollyWood. The truth is that this does not make it all right. Not only is he not being true to himself. He is also being untrue to three other people. A wife ,son and mistress.

Case in point here is that the wife out of desperation found a way to avoid divorce.

Both husband and wife need to seek Islamic counseling. I never heard anything about prayer .Marriage is not a romance movie. How will this affect their lives in the future? Sometimes two people are great together for a certain span of time.

Moving on has its benefits as well as working things out. Unclear here. Unstable. Too HollyWood.

]]> By: jon http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-1083 jon Thu, 14 Oct 2010 04:39:32 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/?p=1463#comment-1083 im not satified with the ending.... sorry im not satified with the ending…. sorry

]]> By: kgn http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-939 kgn Wed, 18 Aug 2010 13:32:56 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/?p=1463#comment-939 the story is touching but also points out the need for passion and understanding especially for men who generally lack it. the story is touching but also points out the need for passion and understanding especially for men who generally lack it.

]]> By: Wael http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-935 Wael Mon, 16 Aug 2010 20:48:31 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/?p=1463#comment-935 Hamza, I think you missed the point of the story. He didn't need another wife. He just needed to appreciate the one he had. Wael Zawaj.com Editor Hamza, I think you missed the point of the story. He didn’t need another wife. He just needed to appreciate the one he had.

Wael
Zawaj.com Editor

]]> By: hamza http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-933 hamza Mon, 16 Aug 2010 10:12:00 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/?p=1463#comment-933 he should have taken dew as his another wife he should have taken dew as his another wife

]]> By: uthmaan http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-871 uthmaan Mon, 12 Jul 2010 01:47:32 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/?p=1463#comment-871 Yeah man, that guy sounded like such a jerk until the end. Just shows how important it is to only look at your wife and not some random girls. And it shows the fickle nature of men. Yeah man, that guy sounded like such a jerk until the end. Just shows how important it is to only look at your wife and not some random girls. And it shows the fickle nature of men.

]]> By: wael http://www.zawaj.com/story-30-days-of-carrying-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-849 wael Tue, 08 Jun 2010 15:32:17 +0000 http://www.zawaj.com/?p=1463#comment-849 The only problem with this story is that it portrays the wife as this poor, suffering individual who can do nothing but try to win her husband back, while he faces no consequences for his emotional betrayal and possible infidelity. Still, it's a nice reminder about the need for emotional an physical intimacy in a marriage, and how easy it is to forget why we love someone if we don't pay attention and always strive to see the good in one another. We also have to be tender and loving in order to keep love alive, otherwise it withers on the vine. - Wael, Zawaj.com Editor The only problem with this story is that it portrays the wife as this poor, suffering individual who can do nothing but try to win her husband back, while he faces no consequences for his emotional betrayal and possible infidelity.

Still, it’s a nice reminder about the need for emotional an physical intimacy in a marriage, and how easy it is to forget why we love someone if we don’t pay attention and always strive to see the good in one another. We also have to be tender and loving in order to keep love alive, otherwise it withers on the vine.

- Wael, Zawaj.com Editor

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