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A Muslim girl and a Sikh boy

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AOA.
I am a Muslim girl. I met a Sikh guy online. He's a very respectable person and he loves me. I want to convert him to Islam. I want to do this not because i wanna marry him but because i want him to find falah. i love him as well. How can i let him know Islam is the ultimate source of guidance and falah? Please help me in this matter. thanks.

Ayesha


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  1. salam.This is haram.All of this chating and social media is the new era of the devils way of corrupting the muslim young generation.This is fact! As weak as people are and the haram relationships involved it doesnt go very far when Allah is the one who controls everything in this universe. These haram relationships only bring the curse upon them and so there lives are filled with terrible ongoing stressful and unblessed life.And the pressure of this world begins.So you choose? I say this because i have all the experience as a male revert into Islam and wife who is a Islamic scholor. The sikh population is the biggest in Vancouver,besides India.There families are strong in there beliefs and hate Islam with passion and you are playing with fire.So dont go in that direction.This word Love is just a word. I only seen my wife 3 times until we both agreed we have similiar goals in life and now after 11 years are love has grown strong and healthy all too obeying and following the orders of Allah through the example of Muhammad.The New world order or American dream or whatever you call it promotes this painted picture this haram lifestyle that looks beautiful but empty .Common expressions or ssyings that i saw this man or women and my heart melted or love at first sight Shes the one for me..This a deception.For the non muslims this is what they believe for a perfect marriage or partner in life.Good luck i say? I dated alot of girls when i had no beliefs before. Its all fun and games.Just wham bam thankyu mam. Ask any wealthy man or women in the world and they will agree that lifes a doggy dog world.Regardless all the love words and flowers they all say the samething ,"your not like them ......I love you only..... your my first true love."etc....Sister this all the Devils doing.The average person goes through 10 or more partners before they settle down.Figure that out.These are surveys in Canada. Islam is the correct way of life .It is natural and best way that God is pleased with us.So question why live life the wrong way when you will lose both of the worlds! Remember your death for that is what all true knowledgable people prepare for.

    • Asalam Raul.

      Could you perhaps paragraph your comments instead of just one big block? It makes it easier to read fully.

      Thanks
      AAZA

  2. Raul i want to ask you a question. why do you feel so much proud of having a scholar wife. why do you keep on mentioning in every other comment that your wife is a Muslim scholar she is a scholar right not a person chosen by Allah for any particular purpose whatever you both are doing are for your goodness so please be humble and grateful instead of telling everybody, everywhere.
    before the internet era there were people who were involved in haram things internet is not the founder of Zina.
    my ex best friend's sister is married to a man she met online. you wont believe and she is happy.

    secondly i agree with your statement. i met many sikhs online and when first i had conversation with them they openly told me their parents hate Islam. few sikh like Muslims but majority of them hate Islam because of Aurangzeb the mughal emperor who ordered to kill the father of Guru Gobind Singh after that he took revenge from him. so this is the whole story they hate Muslims because of aurangzeb who force others to practice Islam and ordered to burn the books of other religion.

  3. secondly i want to tell the lady that the person is nt going to accept Islam no matter what. i m sure you are Pakistani he is not going to marry you he will make excuse he cannot come to Pakistan etc etc.

    Sikhs according to me have dirty cheap thinking they are worst than Hindus, there was a time i had to block 20 people from my profile coz they started to flirt and openly asked for cyber sex. no hindu person ever said anything dirty to me but sikhs have this honor . many of the sikh men and women they are involved in dirty acts and they casually have sexual intercourse with their class mates and friends.
    he may be nice to you but he is nt going to accept Islam.

    dont waste your time on him.

  4. You can meet him with a capable ustad(s). Ustad who have knowledge over Islam and able to explain clearly.

    Beside, ustad who have knowledge over the history, not only based on quran and hadeeth but also written history (since he is from other religion). Since - there is a possibility - holy peoples of other religions might actually one of our phrophet - they called it different as ours - but basically refer to the same person.

    So, it may help him to open his eyes.

    ****

    Many couple succeed converting their lovers to practical moslem - based on love,
    others by together studying both religion - ask both religion to it's own masters and ask all questions you both have in your head,
    other by letting the man studying Islam on it's own - and let him make decision (with you - with consequence convert to Islam, or keep his religion and forget you),
    or let him ask all questions he has in his head to an ustad - and let him make decision,
    or if you have other idea - you can try it.

    The most important is:
    To choose a leader who moslems and knows+practicing his rights and responsibles as moslem. It's nothing more than for your own happiness.

    Beside, du'a maken, that Allah will give His righteous hidayah and taufiq to you both. Make you both become practical and educated moslems. Aamiin...

  5. You can not marry with him he is non muslim boy Pls don't do and after marrige he will convert in sikh religion so pls don't trust him. In Many cases non muslim boys did cheating for marrige. He says that i will accept islam for marrige but after. Marrige he convert his religion and force to muslim girl for convert his religion. "The Quran says do not marry with nonmuslim" if you do shirk then you will go to hell. Please Sis don't do. Please think about your parents. Respect your parents. I will pray for you In shaALLAH you will get a Good muslim boy. Please take care of your parents and always be careful.

    You are not an easy girl. Which impress anyone.

    Sis pls aisa mat kro aaj kal muslims ke khilaaf aisi sajishey ki jaa rahi hai ki nonmuslims ka kahnaa hai ki muslim girls ko impress kro aur shadi krke apne dhrm me laao ya fir unki jindagi barbaad kro Rss ne is kaam ke liye Coaching collages me apna network failaa rakhaa hai. Facebook pr bhi ye log active hai. Is kaam m hindu, sikh,dalit bhi shamil hai isliye pls koi bhi aapse kitni bhi acchi baat kre uski baaton me nahi aaye ye log apna Maqsad pura karne ke liye aisa krtey hai. Is baat ki kya gurantee hai ki shadi ke baad bhi vo muslim hi rahega. Sis ye log shadi krne ke liye hi islam accept krte hai aur shadi ke baad inka kaam hone ke baad firse khud ke dhrm ko apna letey hai kafir ban jaatey hai aur ladki ko bhi islam chhorne ko kahtey hai khud ka dhrm apnaane ko kahtey hai aur shadi ke baad ladki kuch nahi kr paati hai. India me aise bahut saare cases ho chuke hai jinme muslim girls ke saath aisa ho chuka hai. Sis pls apne maa baap ki ijjat ka khyaal rakho. Agr aap aisa karogi toh aapke maa baap ki ijjat khraab hogi. Rishtedaro me bhi unki kya ijjat rahegi. Please apne maa baa ki ijjat ka khyaal rakho unhone aapke liye bahut kuch kiya. Itni aasani se kisi ki bhi baato me mat fanso aaj kal boys ladki ko impress krne ke liye aisa krtey hai aur baad me apna asali Chehra dikhaatey hai. Hum kisi ki 2-4 acchi baaton se ye nahi kah saktey ki vo insaan accha hai. Meri aapse Request hai ki Please apni aur apne maa baap ki ijjat ka khyaal rakho. ALLAH HAFIZ

    Please Must Watch This Video

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=g7t8MPy1Z9w

  6. Why not marry a pakistani muslim man whats wrong with that. Personally i couldn't do all the convert thing and why pick someone outside the box when inside is better. Allah knows best

  7. Please Must Read......

    Sister pls aisa mat kro aaj kal muslims ke khilaaf aisi sajishey ki jaa rahi hai ki nonmuslims ka kahnaa hai ki muslim girls ko impress kro aur shadi krke apne dhrm me laao ya fir unki jindagi barbaad kro Rss ne is kaam ke liye Coaching collages me apna network failaa rakhaa hai. Facebook pr bhi ye log active hai. Is kaam m hindu, sikh,dalit bhi shamil hai isliye pls koi bhi aapse kitni bhi acchi baat kre uski baaton me nahi aaye ye log apna Maqsad pura karne ke liye aisa krtey hai. Is baat ki kya gurantee hai ki shadi ke baad bhi vo muslim hi rahega. Sis ye log shadi krne ke liye hi islam accept krte hai aur shadi ke baad inka kaam hone ke baad firse khud ke dhrm ko apna letey hai kafir ban jaatey hai aur ladki ko bhi islam chhorne ko kahtey hai khud ka dhrm apnaane ko kahtey hai aur shadi ke baad ladki kuch nahi kr paati hai. India me aise bahut saare cases ho chuke hai jinme muslim girls ke saath aisa ho chuka hai. Sis pls apne maa baap ki ijjat ka khyaal rakho. Agr aap aisa karogi toh aapke maa baap ki ijjat khraab hogi. Rishtedaro me bhi unki kya ijjat rahegi. Please apne maa baa ki ijjat ka khyaal rakho unhone aapke liye bahut kuch kiya. Itni aasani se kisi ki bhi baato me mat fanso aaj kal boys ladki ko impress krne ke liye aisa krtey hai aur baad me apna asali Chehra dikhaatey hai. Hum kisi ki 2-4 acchi baaton se ye nahi kah saktey ki vo insaan accha hai. Meri aapse Request hai ki Please apni aur apne maa baap ki ijjat ka khyaal rakho.

    You are not an easy girl. Which impress anyone.

    You can not marry with him he is non muslim boy Pls don't do and after marrige he will convert in sikh religion so pls don't trust him. In Many cases non muslim boys did cheating for marrige. He says that i will accept islam for marrige but after. Marrige he convert his religion and force to muslim girl for convert his religion. "The Quran says do not marry with nonmuslim" if you do shirk then you will go to hell. Please Sis don't do. Please think about your parents. Respect your parents. I will pray for you In shaALLAH you will get a Good muslim boy. Please take care of your parents and always be careful. ALLAH HAFIZ

    Please Must Watch This Video

    https://­m.youtube.com/­watch?v=g7t8MPy1Z9w

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