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Trying to arrange a love marriage

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Sir.

I like a guy named (deleted by editor to protect privacy). We both want to marry each other. His parents are also ready for our marriage, but my parents -especially my father- is not allowing us. He got some Ullma and told them our names. After listening to our names they just said this marriage would not be successful. But I believe in Allah, not in Kundali or name stuff.

Sir, please guide us both in this matter. We both want to marry each other in a Islamic way i.e. by pleasing Allah SWT and my parents too. We have clean and sincere hearts.

-MahwishMasud


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  1. You can marry whom you love

  2. I think the best thing to do here is to get someone of Islamic knowledge to speak to your parents, maybe someone from your local mosque who they respect that can explain to them the Islamic ruling on doing something like this, they can then maybe persuade them to consider the man you're interested in.

    If that isn't an option for you, possibly talk to an aunt or uncle if your parents won't listen to you.

    May Allah grant you what is best for you and guide your parents & guide us all. Ameen.

  3. m facing same problem n m Nt able to decide Wat should I do
    plz help me

  4. Salaams,

    Entrusting such an important decision to a fake imam (in other words, fortune teller) is tragic. Your father presumably loves you, how can he simplify such matters. I'm wondering if it would help to have the boy and his family meet with your parents, to discuss the benefits that would happen if you all married? Sometimes when fathers talk to fathers the concerns can be mutually understood and addressed in a more appropriate manner.

    -Amy
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  5. Isn't fortune telling haram? This name business, isn't it fortune telling?

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