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Asking for forgiveness

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Salam.. I don't know to how to say about have to so that you can help me in finding a new path... I was in an affair 5yrs before with a non muslim boy and have a physical relationship too. Later on I got married with a muslim man but after that also I was in with a relationship with my previous bf... but now I found myself guilty and want to leave him and want to make sincere tauba please guide me I was unaware of this gunah I was blind... please suggest me how to make dua for my gunah I now
realized my gunah please guide me I want make myself pure as before.

chahat


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  1. You have done worst sin in Islam of Zina . If there is sharia law you might get harsher punishment .Tell your husband about this and ask for forgiveness from him ..most importantly ask forgiveness from Allah .
    You were not aware Zina is haraam?

  2. "I was unaware of this gunah I was blind"

    So... you claim that you were unaware that cheating on your husband by committing adultery was wrong? Do you expect anyone to believe that?

    How can you make tawbah when even now you cannot be honest about your sin?

    In fact your entire post comes across as juvenile and immature. Are you very young?

    In any case, you should NOT tell your husband. Doing so will certainly destroy your marriage. You must cut off your relationship with your "boyfriend" completely. No contact of any kind, ever again. Ask Allah for forgiveness and live your life differently in the future.

    Wael
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  3. it would be twice as worse if the husband find out himself, especially when this woman will breakup with her BF, the BF will respond by spilling his guts to the husband for sure!

    so bit of a dilemma.
    You should have thought of this sudden awakening of your conscience before you committed adultery.

    just make tawbah and ask Allah to help you out of this.
    feed the poor, make lots of sadaqah.

    may Allah guide us all.

  4. The only thing you need to know is your purpose in this world ..Life is not a bowl of cherries....This world is a test and Allah created this world to test the humanbeings who are the believers and the non believers....
    It is scary to know that the situation of the young ummah are so weak and have no idea what they are headed for....
    Salah is compulsary on every male n female ADULT....
    THIS IS THE 1ST THING THAT WILL BE TAKEN ACCOUNT!!! FOR YOUR PAST SINS ....WE CAN ONLY FORGIVE N FORGET AND MAKE SINCERE DUA THAT YOU WI'LL NEVER DO THIS AGAIN. THAT'S WHY WE MUST BUILD OUR IMAN AND WORK TO GO HAJJ SO AT LEAST WE KNOW THAT WE CAN BE CLEAN ON RECORDS THAT ARE BEING RECORDED BY THE ANGELS! SO MOVE ON AND STUDY HARD AND LIVE A LIFE OF PURITY....THEN YOU WILL SMILE BEFORE THE ANGEL OF DEATH COMES TO YOU

  5. Asalam o Alaikum
    Sister you had done a heinous sin but if you are guilty then it is a good thing.
    Sister my advice is please donot tell your husband about this and quit your relationship at once . what ever you had done until it is between you and Allah it can be forgiven but if you will tell your husband then you will violate one more right. do a proper ghusal and do perform salwat tawbah and ask forgiveness from Allah by begging him and do lots of good things after and obey your husband sincerly, if you are not happy and you dont have any children then leave him by apologizing and search that muslim man who make you happy where you dont require extramarital relationships
    Allah haifz

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