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Hi I have doubt in marriage? Openly I am talking and am loving a girl 4 years in relation. After 4 years only I have come to know she is my relation - like my father's elder brother's son's daughter. Is it haram in marriage? Please clear this for me.


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  1. Brother you are not very bright.If you are in a relation how is this evil act excepted in front of God .Read the hadiths for the curse and wrath comes upon the disobedient.You will lose at the end.If you love this girl then get nikah right away to save youself and do a walimah later . Marrying your cousins there is nothing wrong dont listen to the unlearned. The onle people forbiden are your sister, brother, father and mother,polytheist animals etc...If you are looking for a good book on types of questions with answers theres a book called Bahishti zewar(heavenly ornuments)you can download this app from app store.Brother success in this world and in the hereafter is only obeying the commandments of Allah through are prophet muhammad s.a.w. who is the best of creation and the best example of a human being!!! Other then this your living a dream with high hopes that never comes until your death. So think and understand this.

  2. Salaam, she is like, your cousin once removed. The marriage won't be haram. Cousin marriage aren't prohibited, so cousin-once-removed-marriages aren't prohibited either. Look in Quran Sura Nisa.

    [4:22] Do not marry the women who were previously married to your fathers - existing marriages are exempted and shall not be broken - for it is a gross offense, and an abominable act.

    [4:23] Prohibited for you (in marriage) are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, the sisters of your fathers, the sisters of your mothers, the daughters of your brother, the daughters of your sister, your nursing mothers, the girls who nursed from the same woman as you, the mothers of your wives, the daughters of your wives with whom you have consummated the marriage - if the marriage has not been consummated, you may marry the daughter. Also prohibited for you are the women who were married to your genetic sons. Also, you shall not be married to two sisters at the same time - but do not break up existing marriages. God is Forgiver, Most Merciful.

    [4:24] Also prohibited are the women who are already married, unless they flee their disbelieving husbands who are at war with you. These are God's commandments to you. All other categories are permitted for you in marriage, so long as you pay them their due dowries. You shall maintain your morality, by not committing adultery. Thus, whoever you like among them, you shall pay them the dowry decreed for them. You commit no error by mutually agreeing to any adjustments to the dowry. God is Omniscient, Most Wise.

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