Black magic is destroying my family
Who is responsible?
I'm not really sure if there is a solution but i'm somehow really desperate for help in any way. Our problem started quite some time back. Basically it was centred around my brother, who gradually with time started to become aggressive.
i mean we noticed that his intelligence was not appropriate for his age, he was around 15 yrs then, it started with his, because before it he was alright in his studies. Later with time he started to get really mad at my mom, and would beat him. with the passage of more time he became so aggressive that he would even throw stones at my mom and dad. Aggressive enough to kill anyone, and then he would speak of such bad words that we didnt even know existed.
My parents are very God fearing people, they would just pray and pray. my mom was really desperate they prayed to God that plz call us for Hajj, and there they will pray for anything that helps my brother. When they came back after Hajj last year, through someone they found this man who could identify what was wrong with my brother. He said black magic was done on him, and the rest of us, by people in our family. He did not tell us the names but gave us the idea that people whose words hurt you the most are the ones doing it.
He told my parents that your prayers have been saving you people. He prayed for my brother, and took his shirt and removed black magic ( maybe not all of it), as a result the effect was drastic. My brother stopped hitting anyone, but still he was left with the effects of black magic. He still does not have the intelligence of his age. He's 24 but does not talk or make sense like 24 yr olds. But he's a lot better.
My father is getting old, he's still working mashAllah, but it doesnt seem that my brother would ever get a job, becuz wherever he goes he fights with them, as a result they have to sack him.
Is there anyway that black magic can be completely removed from our family, because these people are so jealous of us that they don't want to see my parents happy, or for any of us brother and sisters to succeed.
My sister is having problems getting married and somehow can never seem to get a job. She's frustrated that she for some reason can neither work, nor get married. There is always tension in our household. Same is the case with me. After great problems i got married, and now i can't seem to get a job and even if i get a positive reply, they forget to call me from the next day.
I wanted to know that those people (somehow we have the idea who they might be, but God knows better) why do they seem happy and even though sihr is haram in islam, how can they still be praying and everything and nothing seems to go wrong with them.
Why do they never seem to stop, becuz we are told they're 4 different people, and separately everyone is doing black magic on us, so basically all the time someone is doing black magic on our family.
But my parents are thankful to Allah even in this troubled time, they keep praying that may God remove this hatred from these peoples hearts so that they stop practicing black magic.
Thank you for your time, may Allah take away all the problems from my family. We would love to be like a normal family too. Inshallah.
- angeline
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Dear sister Angeline, As-salamu alaykum,
First, I'm sorry that your family is going through problems. But sister, I'm going to tell you something very important, and it's vital for the future of your family that you understand this: everyone goes through problems in this life. It's not black magic. It's life.
I know you have been told that it's black magic and your family seems to be convinced of that. But sister, look at the explanation you've given: that there are a group of people who are jealous of your family's success, and because of they they are taking shifts to run a 24 hour round-the-clock black magic operation on your family.
Does that sound likely? No. It's a fantasy. It's not real.
So your brother is mentally ill (most likely), your sister can't get married, and you can't find a job. These problems are not unique. Many people have trouble getting married. And certainly many people have difficulty finding work, especially in this economy. As far as your brother, this kind of mental illness is unfortunate but it happens. It's quite possible that he can be treated with medication.
The key is to take personal responsibility for your own happiness in life. Keep on turning to Allah as you have been doing, making dua', praying; and also do your utmost to solve these problems using your own intelligence and hard work.
I'll give you an example from my own life. Two years ago I hit a low point in my work and income. I'm self-employed. I had gone to a week-long martial arts seminar in Vancouver, Canada, and no sooner had I left than my business fell apart. My primary client dropped me. My income - which had already been struggling - went to almost zero. Because I was out of town, there was little I could do about it.
It would have been easy for me to say, "Someone is jealous of me and is doing black magic on me. Maybe it's one of the other students who wanted to go to the seminar but couldn't afford it. Or maybe someone here in Vancouver."
Then I would have wasted all my time seeking someone to remove the black magic, etc.
Instead, I finished my seminar and when I got home I immediately begin seeking other clients for my business, and trying to repair the problem with my original client. I went through a very difficult couple of months financially when I had no money at all. Then I was able to develop two new clients, and began making money. And after a few more months, I recovered the original client. And I kept on making dua' the whole time. Now I am earning four times what I was before that seminar two years ago - Alhamdulillah! I turned a problem into an opportunity and I learned an important lesson in the process. Ambition and hard work - along with dua' - can do wonders.
I'm not blaming your family for your problems. As I said, the nature of life is that it hits you with alternating periods of problems and relief, problems and relief. After all, your family has some blessings too, right? Your father is working, your parents went to Hajj, you got married... Alhamdulillah. Don't blind yourself to the good things in your lives.
* Take your brother to a physician who can determine if he is suffering from some form of mental illness. It may be treatable.
* Let your sister try different avenues to get married. Family friends, the local Imam may know someone, maybe even a matrimonial website.
* Be diligent in your own search for work. In today's economy it can be hard. Be persistent. Go for job training if possible. Keep trying. Consider setting up a small business of your own.
May Allah aid you in your efforts and give your family continued success.
Wael
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Salaams,
Personally, I feel that your brother may not be mentally ill, in the sense Wael mentioned. Based on what you said with "his intelligence was not appropriate for his age" at age 15 and he "still does not have the intelligence of his age. He's 24 but does not talk or make sense like 24 yr olds", I am suspecting some sort of cognitive delay or mental retardation. That is an altogether different issue from mental illness. Cognitive delay/MR cannot be treated with medication, but education, training, and intensive therapy can maximize his potential.
The other reason I'm thinking it might be a cognitive issue is because of the level of aggression you have described in him. Unfortunately, there is a high correlation of aggression in individuals who are cognitively delayed. There can be countless reasons for this, but again it can be managed with effective training/therapy.
I agree with Wael, your parents should take your brother to a psychiatrist for a proper evaluation. He may then be referred to a neurologist if the issue is suspected to be biologically based. Hopefully then he can access the needed resources so his coping skills can improve.
-Amy
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As Salamualaikum,
Adding to the above points, I would like to say that suspecting magic should never be the first reaction. One should not approach a Raqi or someone else who claims to cure magic, before medical examination (considering the technology and facilities we have today. Because if there is any medical issue, it can not be magic).
Magic does happen, it is true, but suspicion in the name of magic is more rampant that the actual magic. This is dangerous, as it can lead you into the darkness of the world of Shayateen.
Magic is Kufr, and one should never accuse someone of having done it, until he or she admits. Whoever claims to identify them are liars. None has the knowledge of the unseen but Allah Subhaanah.
Sometimes Jinn mentions that magic was done by such and such person. Even this is unreliable, as Shaitaan is the biggest possible liar (this situation occurs during the cure of magic according to the Sunnah)
In your case, I believe it has not anything to do with magic, but a medical/mental issue that needs attention.
My mother's cousin had a similar problem. Approximately 10 years ago, I remember seeing him walk in the streets. I also used to hear that he acts wired. He was even made fun of by the passers by. His mother took him to a doctor and she was told that he has some problem. He never spoke a word and did nothing after that.
I came to know later that one of his cousins had burnt his school report card due to which he lost control on his self. Around 4 years ago, I remember that it was a relative's marriage when we were in one house. He woke up from sleep and set out to beat someone up. He took the name of his cousin who had done the burning act.
Today, he is a lot better. He smiles, replies to Salam, talks to people, and what not. But he is still very weak and far far away from being social. He stays aloof. He does not initiate talks with anyone, we talk to him, then he talks. But moreover, he is a lot better.
Whether it was an effect of Shaitaan or not, Allah Knows Best. His parents did a lot and tried every possible way to cure him.
I shared this with you (a) to mention that it might not be magic (b) to mention a possibility that the same might have been the case with your brother.
So, better take him to a doctor and have him examined completely, in order to identify and rectify the issue.
Muhammad Waseem
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Assalamoalaykum,
I agree with previous posts that it can be psycho social problem. There is possibility he had some incident after that he has lost his temper. Teen age is the are where if they think they are cheated, injustice they will be hurt a lot it will be life long impact.
Assalamualaikum sister Angeline,
I could imagine what you're going through. I have been through this issue of magic too and currently through the process of recovering Alhumdulillah. Regarding your brother I would for sure advise you to first get medical help (something that is essential and I also did) and if there is no medical problem/solution then go to a Raki. Sometimes magic does lead to illness but you need to be sure from both ways.
In relation to your sister, if you're sure its magic then consult a raki, but always remember magic nazar etc will affect easily when your emaan is weak so you need to strengthen your emaan. Play Surah Baraqah continuously for 41 days in your house on a light volume so if there is anything in the house it will go. Also always recite the 3 Quls as they are very powerful and your shield from evil. Make lots of dua and strengthen yourself. Try not to miss any of your 5 daily prayers. May Allah make it easy for you. Ameen
Assalamualaikum ,brother,some Muslim made this subject as big business.I had really really bad experience.from some Muslim brother.they say ,they can remove the Black magic Jeen.even they can tell me , who have done Black on me or my family .but I have pay them first to start .after I pay some of them don't even talk to me no more. Some of them say ,read this, read that.all are lieyer.they selling Allah's quran's ayah.which is prohibited .if someone lost there fear of Allah ,they can do any thing.anywsy still I'm looking for someone who can Perfectly REMOVE my Black magic. My name is: ................(deleted)
JazakAllah.
Establish Salaah, recite Quran and stay away from haraam.
SisterZ
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Brother Assalawalaykum
Don't search for amal to cure black magic coz nobody can cure except ALLAH. Only recitation of Qur'an can solve ur problem. U r the aamil u not require amil . magic is done by evil and evil only destroy as he is enemy of human
Assalawalaykum
Sister I totally agree from you.might me ur whole family is under influence of black magic. Black magic do exist that's the reason surah Falaq& Nas was revealed our prophet was effect with black magic then what are we.
Sister don't be sad fight with them don't get scared or search any amil. ALLAH says in the holy Quran
The holy Quran is shifa for belivers
Wa nunazzillu minal Qur'anic ma hua shifa in wa rahmatul lil mumineena
Its Quranic verse
If ur brother is effected or not still Qur'an recitation will solve ur problems
You do recite surah baqarah 11 times 4 qul surahs 11 times surah fatihah 11times aytal kursi INSHALLAH your problem will be solved
Me n my family are hardships right now if Allah is listening he will answer my prayers 4 the sake of beloved prophet Muhammad pbuh Allah plz answer my dua plz help me n my family going thru this horrible time 🙁 ameen
Assalm o Alikum,
Today everyone is worried due to his daily life problems. The best solution to these problems is to revert back
towards Allah Subahana Wa Talla.
Below I'm sending a very useful link, here you will find Istikhara prayer which has been taught by our beloved
Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) in order to seek guidance directly from Allah SWT for any type of problems.
Please offer two rakat Salah (prayer) keeping in mind your problem and do dua istikhara mentioned in below link.
Salat al-Istikhara
Dear sister,
The magic has been done by someone really close like your parents siblings or maybe one of your own parents. Grab a set of keys and start shaking ot near all of your family members. The one who is rubbing his soles of his feet together is someone who has submitted to ilblis. Recite the last 3 surah of the Quran for protection.
Your friend.
Sounds ridiculous to me. The one who is rubbing the soles of his feet together... *smh*...
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
If someone finds blood drops on the end of the each finger and on forehead; usually sees horror dreams; have body pain.
Surah baqarah every morning and evening - last two ayahs
This is happened to me also my entire family was been done black magic and suffering hard from years .
iam lookiing for amel who provide free service to cure
brother do any one know one good amel who can cure the problems my entire family is suffering with black magic problems