Black magic is destroying my life and my hopes of marriage
As Salaam o Alaikum my Muslim Brothers and Sisters. My issues are long, but I shall try to keep it simple and explain my situation:
Some of my jealous relatives have been practicing Sihr on myself and my parents to prevent us from doing well in all walks of life. We have approached many raqi's on multiple occasions but these jealous relations then re-do their evil acts to prevent our lives from prospering and there is no way to rid our lives from the presence of these relatives and their Sihr. Sihr has also been done to prevent my marriage. I am in my mid 30s and still unmarried. I also find it difficult to accept or be attracted to suitors that do come my way despite my desire to be happily married.
A few years ago a relative visited my place. There was instant attraction between us and he expressed his desire to marry me to his family. His siblings approve of me but his parents do not due to my father's financial instability and my not being attractive enough for their family's 'beauty'. He has begged, pleaded and fought with his parents to let him marry me. He has approached various mutual relatives for help, but they have all sided with his parents.
I have never been in a relationship with him, nor have built any understanding with this man. All I am know is that he wanted to marry me, and I wanted to marry him and that there is no just reason for us to not marry. I have not expressed my desire to marry him to anybody except my parents. I have always maintained my sobriety, self respect and dignity, and not approached him in any manner. I am trying to be open to other suitors, but I have never been attracted to anybody in my entire life the way I have find him to be my perfect suitor.
After several years of persuasion, he had very recently managed to convince his parents to finally start meeting me and they started visiting my family with him. The intent of marriage was yet to be expressed when one of the relatives who practices Sihr became aware of their visits. She had her spells cast on him, and his parents suddenly reverted and set his marriage with somebody else against his will. He has fought with his parents and made known to all relatives that he is being forced to marry against his will whereas he still wants to marry me. He does not even talk to his fiance still his parents are forcing him to marry her.
I feel extremely hurt, oppressed, helpless and lost. I read Ruqyah and Manzil regularly and this calms my soul however circumstances are not improving. I do pray regularly to Allah, and have faith in His plan, Insha Allah all will be well.
Brothers and sisters, please guide me in the light of Islam - how do I cure this Sihr, which has devastated my entire life and hurt me so much, causing hurt, stress and depression? Is there any lawful action I can take to set things right? How do I still marry him? Also is it true that in Islam the first right to marry is among (halaal) relatives before marrying beyond relations? Has my Islamic right to marry been denied to me?
Also please remember me in your prayers, nobody can imagine all that I am going through.
Jo-2
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Salam sister
It sounds like you need more help than what you can do alone. I would find a reputable sheikh to guide you in your hardships. Make sure he doesn't fix them with shir. Find a wali of Allah who is known to be a reputable in the community. There is no other advice I can think of.
Good luck and May Allah have mercy on you and your family.
Assalaamualaikam
The only force in this world which is all-powerful is the Will of Allah. These spells and rituals that people cast and claim are so strong, are only given strength because people believe in them. Refuse to allow such things to have control of your life - trust solely in Allah to guide you in this life. Ignore all the shirk practices and superstitions, focus on Islam instead. Make sure that you pray regularly, read Quran, attend study classes, make dua, live an Islamic lifestyle. If Allah has written that something is for you, then His plans will not be upset by the whispers of mischief-makers.
As far as marriage goes, forced marriage has no place in Islam. This man has the right to choose his own wife, and you have the right to choose your own husband (so long as Islamic values are maintained, of course). I've never heard of any rule that relatives have any sort of right to marry someone first - that sounds like it probably has its roots in a cultural tradition rather than in Islam. If he truly wishes to marry you, he needs to stand up to his family and say that he refuses to marry this other person and wants to marry you.
Midnightmoon
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Dear sisiter
recite these two verses seven times after each prayer ( five times a day )
insha Allah it will help you .
surat Yunus
verse 81: And when they had thrown, Moses said, "What you have brought is [only] magic. Indeed, Allah will expose its worthlessness. Indeed, Allah does not amend the work of corrupters.
verse 82: And Allah will establish the truth by His words, even if the criminals dislike it."
The Best and most Powerful advice for these evils is to read Ayatal Kursi, and the 3 Quls after Fajir and Magrib Sallah . And to learn the meaning of them so you understand why they protect you. They speak of the might and power of Allah. This will solve your problem once and for all Inshallah.Ameen
I've been through this with my family. Evil is everywhere and people who practice this, don't remember that they are no longer muslims as this is a form of shirk. We moved two states away from my in laws who were doing this on us. But it was still the case, ever after we moved over a thousand miles away. People visiting our previous house and the new house we bought two states away, would tell us that both homes' upstairs had something and I can totally vouch for it. After suffering for so long, we've changed our lifestyle and I think it is all a matter of the past.
A few things to remember and I am an example of it:
1) Life and Death belongs to Allah SWT. Your time in this world is set by him and when its time, you'll go. Whatever is in the heavens and in earth is all his. This is a key thing to believe in. When you have concrete belief system, the magic and the scare and force of it is gone as Allah SWT will protect you.
I had gotten into two serious accidents within 18 hours of each other, both took two tires each time, out of two different vehicles and left them useless. The first accident merely made me late to a BBQ (SubhanAllah) and the second one still didn't result in a scratch to my body even though it was horrible, but caused inconvenience, as I had to standby a damaged, useless vehicle, till help came to tow the car. So establish that faith inside of you first.
2) Sura Fatiha, 3 Quls (Sura Ikhlas, Falk and Naas) and Ayetul-kursi's recitation as many times you can in a day and at minimal, a few times (I try to do 3 or more). Add Sura Baqara's recitation when you can.
3) Salat and Quran's recitation should be establish as it says in Quran in a few places to Establish Prayers and give Charity. The next, obviously is Sadqah or Charity for you and your family's life, health and everything else associated to you. When giving charity, pray that may Allah save you from evil, Jins, humans and everything else that might be out there to harm you, (even a dollar counts if you can't afford more). Stay in ablution as much as possible. Remember, when you are in Wudu, no evil or black magic works (SubhanAllah).
By starting to do these things, the effects of black magic should be marginal and won't make a difference. Let whoever is doing it, be happy thinking its working, while there is a hell-home being built for them as its haram to the last degree and comes under shirk.
4) Find out what if there is an area/s in your house which may feel weird to you or to others, a lot of people put stuff somewhere in the house as we found something in our old house as well.
Once you start doing things mentioned above, you'll get a feeling off where the "impact zone" may be inside your houe. We knew our new home's upstairs was the "impact zone" , just like in the last house.
I now have an Azan clock right there on full volume, and Azan goes through the entire home everyday when its time for a prayer. This is how I think I "annoyed" these evil spirits. There is NOTHING more powerful than Allah's name and call for prayers.
Call for prayers is the largest peaceful movement that happens around the globe every day, five times a day and probably hundreds of millions humans (if not around or over a billion people), move on it. So imagine the force and blessing of an Azan.
We try to read namaz and play recitation of Quran in or around the "impact zone". Well....to tell you the truth, the first couple of days of doing this, fixed everything and the impact zone is now a part of the household. If I went up there till a couple of months ago, my body's hair would stand and I'd feel like heavy cold air pushing on me, with a really weird, kind of scared feeling even as I'd start to recite some sura.
Now, I think the zikr and Allah's might pushed whatever it was, out of our house and the black magic's impact will be given to someone in their hereafter as its haram and extremely disliked by Allah.
Once you feel normal again, don't stop the things you are doing. Salat and Charity and recitation of Quran should happen in any normal Muslim household and these will keep you safe, away from any black magic and will bring you Allah's blessings in everything else.
Lastly, for your marriage or other important decisions, ALWAYS do Istakhara and if you are confused, do it again. By doing Istakhara, you are asking Allah's guidance on a specific issue or topic. When you give him the command, there is NO such think as black, white or green magic.
He says "BE" and it becomes, and he is the most powerful, merciful and knowing. Everything happens with his permissions and he is the most knowledgeable. Once you do istakhara, the command of that specific issue goes to him and he'll give you what's best for you, whether it was what you wanted or otherwise, and you'll find peace and agreement with that decision.
IA, this will all help. Do post here a few weeks after doing these things so that we all can learn from your experience IA.
There are a few things you need to do and to do them with heart and permanently.
A lovely post brother, mashaAllah. May God reward you.
READ OR LISTEN TO SURAH BAQARAH! THEY WILL GET RID OF SIHR AND LISTEN OR SAY THE AZKAR MASA AND SABA WITH EARPHONES! THE SIHR WILL GO AWAY AND IF U LISTEN TO THESE THINGS EVERY DAY NO SIHR CAN HARM U!!!! I HAD EXPERIENCE WITH THIS LET ME HELP U!!
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Salaam sister,
I have a similar problem as well. But I think you have done your part over and over again but doing ruqiyah and breaking their spell but now i think there is something mightier than this, pray (make du'a constantly) that Allah prevents their ruqiyah and retrains/restricts their hands in the best and most appropriate way for this situation.
Salaam i know what your going through because im nearly 36 and the same things happing with me my sister in law doing black magic on me every time she finds out someone asking 4 my rista she goes and gets bandish done on me many times i had it removed she keeps on doing it over and over then says to me your not going no where until i say so i was shocked this women has no fear of Allah toba so ur not alone im going through so much i wish i knew someone who could reverse it all then that way if she done it on me again i wouldnt get effected she would get effected but cant find any one yet ,people who have no fear will go to crtain limits but then comes a time when Allah. Punishs them then these ppl learn,
Dear Saika,
Salam alaikum dear. Could you tell me please how did you have the sihr removed? I am a 38 year old lady and never been married, I came to know that some guy who approached me for marriage has done black magic on me since 6 plus years as I had refused the proposal.
Me and my parents have been trying to find a match for me but there are zero proposals, and many other issues. at the end moment everything stops, either the guy changes his mind or his family does not approve. I am alhumdulilah a lady with a clean heart. and lookwise or health wise i have no issues. please advise what treatment did you do
Jzakallah
Take care
I can't remember every moment of life what I did as a Muslim I basically felt I forgot everything strongly that's the second time it happend. When I forgot first time what I did as a Muslim every moment of life I still can't remember things I did need help is it sihr,jinn or evil eye