I’m an educated beautiful girl, but boys reject my proposal
I am 28 year old girl. Still no hope for my marriage.
I am educated and beautiful still boys reject my proposal.
My parents in tension for my marriage.
Help me.
- samina kazi
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ASSALAMALAIKUM-
THIS IS TO INFORM YOU THAT YOU DONT HAVE TO WORRY AND TELL YR PARENTS ALSO THAT DIVINE DECREE IF THE TRUTH- Is marriage predetermined?
Abdullah b. 'Amr b. al-'As reported: I heard Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: Allah ordained the measures (of quality) of the creation fifty thousand years before He created the heavens and the earth, as His Throne was upon water.
Sahih Muslim - The Book of Destiny (Kitab-ul-Qadr) [033:6416]
1ST NOTE THE WORDS OF THE QURAN [CREATED FROM HIM YOUR WIFE]
The Noble Qur'an - Al-A'raf 7:189
It is He Who has created you from a single person (Adam), and (then) He has created from him his wife (Eve), in order that he might enjoy the pleasure of living with her. ...
Like all matters, marriage and divorce are among the things that Allaah predestined for man before his creation. A man will not marry anyone except the woman Allaah has predestined for him...
SO YOU MUST HAVE PATIENCE-
Marriage is one of the things that Allaah has decreed. The person whom you will marry is known to Allaah: He knows who he is, when he was born, where and when he will die, how he will be towards you, and other details. All of that is known to Allaah and He has written it in al-Lawh al-Mahfooz (the Book of Decrees), and it will inevitably come to pass as Allaah has decreed.
SO DONT WORRY READ ASTKAHFARULLAH ALL THE TIME ALLAH WILL OPEN WAYS FOR YOU -
http://islamqa.info/en/ref/20806
Prophetic Hadiths:
Al-Mughira reports that when he got engaged to a woman the Prophet (pbuh) says,
"Look at her, for it is more likely to create affection and consent between you.”
[Narrated by At- Tirmidhi and An-Nasa’i]
Jabir reports the Prophet (pbuh) to have said,
"If a man wants to betroth a woman, he can look at what entices him to accomplish his marriage.”
[Reported by Abu Dawud]
"If a man wants to betroth a woman, he can look at her even if she does not know.”[4]
Please visit http://www.islamqa.info/en/ref/112172/29%20years%20old - this site will answer you a lot
Dont worry, InshaAllah you will find someone. Keep up prayers, charity work and associate with more sisters. Once they see your good qualities they will mentioning you amongst their family and friends; recommendation start flowing. Give it time and socialize (within our boundaries of religion). Nobody would be married if they never stepped out 🙂
This is excellent advice, and pretty much what I would have said. It's not all about being physically beautiful. Work on becoming the best Muslim you can be, not for the sake of finding a marriage partner, but for the sake of Allah and your own soul. Study or work. Get involved in charity work. Take Islamic classes. Exercise and eat well. You'll find that your life is richer, and you are happier, and suddenly you will discover that you have become the kind of woman about whom men say, "I wish I had a wife like that."
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
My dear I am 26 and my parents are also worried. But I put my trust in Allah and I pray.When you are worried, study Coran and pray.
But at the same time keep you busy with your work, cooking, reading. Worring will not solve your problem, when my father is worried, my mother tells him that there is a moment for evrything, Allah has decided somthing for us and it will happen according to his will. Read "ya hayo,ya rahman,ya khudus", as much as possible.
Just pray to Allah and insallah you will find somebody soon because Allah has somebody out there for everybody.
A phrase
' Sometimes we think we have lost a mercedes, for all we know a ferrari may await around the corner '
In other words, Allah may have someone even better waiting for you.
Be patient, enjoy being single for a while more, theirs a wholeee life to spend with him.
Keep smiling,
Salaam
Assalam o alykum wr wb,,All the praises belong to Allah swt In regards to your question posed i ask you to pray Allah swt that grant u the best mate who will guide you to jannah .And i recommend you to read Surah Baqarah which will expel the shatian out of your home.
Beauty and being educated has nothing to do with it sister it’s the heart that counts at the end of the day. Continue to do good things and pray be patient inshallah your dua’s will come true amen.
from which country u belong to ? & 2ndly what about your relatives ? your family background ? 3rdly did you find the reason why ur purposal is being rejected any issue bring to your notice !!
Allah only help those who want to help themself.. so 1st start helping your ownself & there is a reason behind every thing just need to see it .. let me know about your complete status, who know who can help you out in practical manner !!
feel free to tell the rest,
Thank you & Asalam O Alikum 🙂