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Can I massage my private parts to make them grow?

Don't believe everything you read on the internet...

Don't believe everything you read on the internet...

ASSALAM O ALAIKUM Sir and Madam I am a 13 year old boy has hit puberty, my penis is kinda really small and I did not want to take pills or nasty stuff. I saw on the internet that exercises and massaging your penis with Olive oil is good for penis enlargement is it allowed in Islam ?? Is it like masturbation? I never tried that's why I am asking first THANK YOU

Brother 12

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  1. Assalaamualaikam

    Firstly, don't worry about the sizes of various parts of your body. At 13, you're just starting puberty - over the next few years, your body will inshaAllah develop and you'll become an adult. You don't need to do lots of exercises or look up tips on the internet. It's normal for a 13 year old not to have adult sexual characteristics, as the changes your body goes through in puberty are gradual.

    Be careful about what you read online. Not all websites will be reliable. So, when you read something that you're not sure of, or something that you're planning to act on, it's important to discuss it with a trusted adult (ideally your parents) so that you can get their perspective on it. You might also want to get your parents to talk to you about puberty and the changes you may experience over the next few years - it's usually better to have "the talk" with them about this rather than trying to figure it out for yourself.

    Midnightmoon
    IslamicAnswers.com editor

  2. Assalamualaikom brother

    Massaging the privates is actually damaging to the sensitive nerve endings and it will ruin your adult life later. you are still young, do not worry about the size now, and let things grow naturally and you will be fine trust me. stay away from seeing websites that talk about sex and private parts, you cannot really trust them.

    Your body is in the growing stage. The best thing to do in your age is to play sports and make use of your energy to build a healthy lifestyle, and a fit body. Also make use of your time in acquiring knowledge and healthy habits that will shape your character as a good Muslim and responsible adult. Hangout with good peers who draw you closer to Allah, attend lectures to increase your knowledge in deen, Give some of your time for charity and o volunteer activities whenever you have some spare time.

    Remember that a young man/woman who grow up in obedience to Allah is among the 7 types of people who will be under the shade on the Day of Judgement, where there no shade at all.

    May Allah protect you from all harm.

  3. kukhtar: Massaging the privates is actually damaging to the sensitive nerve endings and it will ruin your adult life later. you are still young, do not worry about the size now, and let things grow naturally and you will be fine trust me. stay away from seeing websites that talk about sex and private parts,

    What is your source information that supports your statement that massaging privates can damage sensitive nerve endings? Also what effect this damage does to the private parts.

  4. Assalamualaikom .

    my friend went first time in body massage but she did also his private part massage.. but not sex .now he is very sad. what he can do please tell us....

    • He should make tawbah and not repeat this sin, and try to do 'ibadah and good deeds as much as possible.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  5. Hi, can a male give body massage to male?

    Pl reply

  6. Applying olive oil on private part is ok or permissable or impermissible in Islam as olive may be considered as pure and sacred because it's name is mentioned in the Holy Quran and ALLAH ALMIGHTY takes oath of it.?

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