Can we get married?
Hi. I'm a Filipina. I have a daughter with me and 2 sons. My 2 sons is with their dad. We are not married and we're separated.
I have a Pakistani Muslim boyfriend. We love each other and we want to get married. I was wondering if I will go there to marry him or he can go here to marry me. I don't know which process is much easier.
If I will go there for tourist can we get married?
Or he will come here and we get married here in Philippines and go together in Pakistan.
I hope you can help me with this.
Thank you.
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AOA,
If You're A Muslim And He Is A Muslim Too! There Is No Harm In Getting Married! But Both Should Be Muslims!
According To Zakir Naik It Is Better Not To Marry Because You Don't Know The Person Very Well Just By Online Talking.
It May Ruin Your Life! And Ask ALLAH For Forgiveness That You Talk Online Like This Because It's Not Right According To Islam But If Now Your Ready For Marriage It's Good, ALLAH Is Merciful And Forgiving!
Anyways There Is No Harm In Marrying But Only On One Condition And That Is Both Should Be Muslims!
Believe Me 90% Percent Of The Time Such Distance Marriages When You Even Don't Know Either He Is Telling A Lie, It Turns Out To Be A Disaster But If You Know Him Quite Well! Then Marry Him If You're A Muslim Too!
Abdullah, please write in a normal font and do not capitalize every word.
Wael
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Asalaam Walaikum.
(I'm not sure if you are Muslim or not but eitherway this reply still stands.)
I dont know what country you are from or the whole story of the current situation you find yourself in so forgive me for assuming here.
A lot of Pakistani (Afghani, Indian etc) men do all sorts just to get a visa, the use and abuse women for entry into a country and then abandon them once they get stay in that country. It happens wayyyy more often than people realise. So please be cautious and I'm sure others on here can advise you better in how to deal with the situation.
May Allah Guide you.