Concerned about my private parts…
I am a 19 years old male who has a problem which is that my penis is really small. It's measured flaccid: 1.7inch and full erect is: 4 inch. I don't know why my penis has not grown and I simply know that it doesn't run in my genes and my brothers and father are fully developed and not so small. I think I was a late bloomer still have less facial hair, little amount of chest hair and a little around my private parts and underarms.
I have been to the doctors and they say it's nothing to worry about.
I really hate myself because of my private parts. I can't go swimming in public and never wear jogger pants because then people could see the shape of it which I really don't want.
I read my full 5 times namaaz and do dua that my private parts get better, but doesn't look like it. I will be really grateful if you could help me and give me a good way of curing this problem. Or any quranic duas that I could read to help it grow.
I will be getting married soon and if I still have this problem I won't be able to satisfy my wife, please help me I have written soo many posts but people tend to ignore me.
Thank you
Allah hafiz
I shall be waiting for your reply...
Hassan2132015
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salaam ,,,you should listen to the doctors....there is no problem its small because you have never had sex befor it will grow ,,,marry have sex and it will expand naturally ,,,,i know this because ??? my husband was the same ,,,,
Asalam alykum,
Male sex hormone Testosterone play a vital role in development of sexual characteristics in a male. Since you been to doctor and you have normal erection and your organ has no bends that are blocking the blood flow the growth is normal.
So bro be happy with what allah gave you. Sex is a complex thing it requires, Hormones, nervous system muscles and a good psychological state to function. If you have any negative thoughts, will effect the psychological state and will effect your sex drive.
I think its too early to jump to any conclusions, by the way its established that only one forth of the opening of a female is sensitive( has neurons) that is some 3 inches. Which is responsible for pleasure.
Here is a remedy you can give a try may work insha allah, it will increase blood flow and is natural will not cause harm.
http://answers.myyog.com/question/farbah-oil-reviews-39993-135
But wait till you get married, because you do not know what your partner likes or get satisfied with.
Assalaamualaikam
Lots of men worry about their private parts, so you won't be alone in this. There seems to be a misconception that the average man has large private parts, but statistically speaking, this isn't true - the average size is around 4 - 6 inches (when erect). The size of your private parts doesn't have a significant role to play in whether or not you and your future wife can enjoy physical intimacy - the closeness between a husband and wife is far more dependent on communication, compassion, love and trust.
Midnightmoon
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agreed with midnightnoon
I have a few questions. Firstly how did you know your dad and brothers private parts are Fully developed? What is fully developed anyways? Secondly it's good that you don't wear jogger pants(though your reason for doing that is twisted). It should rather be to not show the shape of your private parts(whatever their size) as it's the islamic ruling on cloths. I don't know of any dua's that might help, nor do I think their will be any. Dua's are usually for more general reasons rather than....
The doctor said that its normal so... What's the problem then? You don't believe the doctor? Or do you want it bigger anyways? If yes I think it would be better to maybe consult another doctor. good luck and don't think the basis of a happy marriage or rather a happy wife is a larger....
You will be happy to know an adult gorilla's erect penis is about 4 cm (1.5 in) in length.
Haniyyya explained to your her real life experience. I am sure she enjoyed as much or more when the size was comparatively small.
According to midnightmoom "The size of your private parts doesn't have a significant role to play in whether or not you and your future wife can enjoy physical intimacy".
You have a big enough...... to have normal sex.