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My husband is having difficulty finding job; is it due to black magic?

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AOA.

I m in grt distress.I got married on 4 sept 2011.My husband was wrking in a  MNC on a gud post. But aftr sm 9 mnths he decided to quit as his new boss levied too much of pressure.we retrned home.Since den ,its now ten mnths.He gets gud offers bt nthing wrks out.On consultation wi d sum scholars ,dey said that my hsbnd has bandiSH  on him.now at present i joined my old  job n he z luking job n he z n Delhi.I stay wid my parents,lyf is too stressed.As my parents giv dffrnt vibes. I m helpless n hav nowhere to go.

PLS  ADVICE SMTHING DAT WILL help me.

Farhat.


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  1. Assalamu'alaikum,

    Sister, a stable job is a must in today's scenario, where, the market is worse. One has to adjust with one thing or other in order to succed and remain on the job.

    The current Indian market is really bad. Jobs are very difficult to find and employers are taking undue advantage by offering very low salaries for good jobs.

    I would not say your husband has any bandish or any effect of magic, but the problem is the world out there. Trust in Allah and hope for the best. He Will not leave you alone. He Is your Creator and He Knows what you need and when, so trust in Him.

    When a bird leaves her nest in the morning she is unaware of what she will eat and from where. But when she returns, she also brings food for her babies. She trusts in Allah and we need to learn this trust from her.

    A friend sent a message on whatsapp:

    Allaah Azzawajal provided for us when we weren’t even able to speak and move in our mother’s womb, trust Him, He knows exactly what we need & when.

    Sos sister, trust in Allah and encourage your husband to trust in Allah. Do not put pressure on him, as it will shatter his confidence. Be his support and remind him that Allah Will Help, in sha Allah. And when he gets an offer or tries somewhere for a job, let him perform Salatul Istikhaarah so that it becomes easy for him and he gets barakah in it, if it is good for him.

    Abu Abdul Bari
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  2. ASSALAMALAIKUM
    THE WHOLE MTTER DEPENDS ON THE PERSON YOU MENTIONED SCHOLARS TO WHO DID YOU GO AND WHO TOLD THE LIES ABOUT BANDISH-HIS BACKGROUND HIS BELIEF/CITY/SECT HE BELONGS TO
    THEN WE CAN REPLY -
    REGARDS

  3. salaam sister,

    its a bad market for anyone to find a job..too many people and too little jobs its about supply and demand. pray and tell him to persist and he will find work inshallah

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