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I want to die, any dua to die instead of suicide

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Salaams

Is there any 'dua' for maut instead of attempting a suicide which I don't want to do as Allah doesn't like it? There is a matter of 'izat' or character - so I want a natural death to save me from tortured life.

Please let me know can I  pray for my death? Is it allowed in islam in order not to do a suicide atempt?

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  1. Asalaam u alikum,

    The closest to what you are looking for:
    "Oh Allah, keep me alive until life is good for me and give me death when that is the better for me" [Bukhari, Muslim]

    I don't know the issue you are facing sister (since you said izat I am assuming you are a sister and not a brother, and from South Asian backgound)! Nothing in this world is worth losing face in front of your Maker who stood by you through thick and thin.

    I am from Pakistan, I understand where you are coming from. Maybe if you can give some more details...I can understand the situation better, to advice you to the best of my abilities inshallah.

    Regards

    Ayesha

    • Aoa! Thanx 4 all 3 of u 4 responding me in such a detail. The bigest problem of us is to think wrong abt any one before knowing them.. I didnt want 2 mention that bt nw i have 2 that ALHAMDULILAH i have read Quran with translation n tafseer i do fasting offer prayers n darood and many of the Allaha's beautiful Names.. And i am prepared i the day of judgment for a very long time (but all of this is btween ALLAG and i so i dont disclose such things). U all took my question in other direction i just want 2 know is there any dua or not? I dònt want a sucide i would have if i cud have bt i want 2 go 2 janat as i do beleiv this and because of sucide i dont wana ruin all ma life's good things. So just tell me is it jaiez to pray for my own death? Or ALLAH nt allowed such prayer e.g. Allah doesnt like divorce bt it is allowed when life goes worst. Thanx

    • Am from India Muslim Brother, I have Some Many Problem in my Life You Publish a Dua is Very Useful for me Jazakallah

      Regards,
      Young Muslim Brother from India

      • recite tasbi e yunus - laa illa haa illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zaulimeen.

        Recite this everyday insha allah all your problems will be solved.

        before reciting 11 times darud and the tasbi e yunus (its upto u, u can cn as much time u want ) den again 11 times darud and in the end make a dua.

        Insha Allah all your problems willl be solved ,

    • I am attempting suicide tonight...

      • Ali, what are you saying? Will you take your life against Allah's Will?

        Do you want to be in Hell Fire for Eternity? This is the result of suicide.

        Please do not throw yourself into Hell Fire. If you think you are occupied with distress and complications, give us a chance to help you attain peace and love Allah.

        What can be better if you can be a dweller of the Paradise? What can be better than seeing the Face of The Most Merciful Lord in the Jannah?

        The people of Hell will be deprived of all this, plus, they will burn and burn, forever, except those who Allah Forgives. But according to the Ahadeeth, suicide deserves Hell, perpetually forever.

        I request you to post a question with your problem separately on our website and in sha Allah we will try our best to satisfy you and address your problem.

        When you have a problem, it is better to get it solved, than give up life. You will gain nothing from suicide. Infact, you will lose everything.

        If you think suicide will end your problems, you are wrong. This is when your problems will begin.

        You can post your question by following simple instructions here:

        http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/submit-your-question/

        In sha Allah, we'll try to help you.

        Muhammad Waseem
        IslamicAnswers.com Editor

        • Asalamu Aleykum,
          if someone killed himself...
          Can those who live, do something about it, or is there any du'a that one can do for the person to be forgiven by Almighty Allah? and so that this person enters paradise? I really need this answar, and this person was muslim, verry kind, but many people around him was evil to him for a long time, so he could not stand it i gueess, i dont know the actual reason^^ but I really hope there is something I can do for him ? InshaAllah...
          Jazzakum Allahu Khayer

          • Latifah, if he was Muslim then you can make dua' and ask Allah to forgive him.

            Wael
            IslamicAnswers.com Editor

          • Wa Alaikum as Salam,

            If he was a Muslim, you may ask Allah's Forgiveness for him. Though the Ahaadeeth say that a person who commits suicide will dwell in the Fire forever, it is upto Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala to Forgive or not to Forgive. We have no say in it. We can never say Allah Will Forgive someone or He Will Not Forgive someone, but we can do what is in the boundaries of the Sharee'ah.

            I maybe wrong, but this is what I think. And Allah Knows Best.

            Muhammad Waseem
            IslamicAnswers.com Editor

        • salamo alaikom my wife cheated on me please help me
          what im ganna do?
          i will kill my self or i will kill the man?
          please help me,,,,,,,,,please

          • ryan, you will not kill yourself, nor kill the man. You will divorce your wife and be done with it. After that you will try your best to live your life, staying busy, working, exercising, praying, until your heart heals from this wrong. One day you will be ready to find a good, loyal woman.

            Wael
            IslamicAnswers.com Editor

        • I am at risk too but what I want to be helped is that I just wanna stay away from people I am living with now cos they are the reason why I feel this way

      • Brother Ali ....Please dont even think of that! it will mean u r hopeless of Allahs power ( anauz abillah) and Allah wants u to be courageous, he'll help Insha Allah. Listen Brother Ali every one has trails even i am gng through a shock in life but all this journey i have now firmly believe one thing to never give up ever ever .Allah is with you right now talk to him. Pray tahajjud! Find him! and he will provide support and open ways for you Insha Allah!

        • Naila, without knowing you or knowing the details of your situation, my general impression is that it's not Allah the Most High who is the problem, nor your dua', but your mind and your attitude. Your negativity, bitterness and envy are prison walls inside which you have locked yourself.

          Wael
          IslamicAnswers.com Editor

          • Wael may be my negativity is a problem but that doesn't mean i never followed His orders. All my life I only asked Him for my problems. I never gave up on struggle until now when its too late. too late cz i have reached an age where I can't even apply for life options anymore. and now because my hands r full of failure 🙁 I want to discuss my situation if u think there is a fix . how do i contact you without getting public?

          • Dear Sister Naila,

            i dont know your situation in detail but iI just want to say that i have been in somewhat same situation (negativity) in which you are. I followed moral values all my life but i made a mistake and my life became a failure. i already was not having (Still do not have but i am learning bit by bit) knowledge of Islam and its teachings inspite of being born and raised as Muslim. i got sunk in negativity not just for myself but even for people around, even for almighty (Astagfirruah). i developed a complaining nature. i used to think that i did my best in life, then why Allah(swt) did not save me, why my parents did not guide me, why people around (siblings, friends etc) did not help me. why some people took me for granted. i reached to a point when i had wanted to commit suicide. i got into depression ( iam still affected with it somewhere) but but...then i came across this site and learnt many things like.

            "Verily Allah does not change any people's condition unless they change their inner selves." (Quran 13: 11).

            "...without doubt in the remembrance (Zikr) of Allah do hearts find tranquility." (Quran 13:28)

            "Remember Me, and I shall remember you; be grateful to Me, and deny Me not." (Quran 2:152).

            For everything negative say Astaghfirullah wa atoobo ilayk (I seek Allah's forgiveness and I turn to You [Allah]).

            "If you are grateful, I will give you more." (Quran 14:7)

            Say: ”O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” (Az-zumur 53)

            [94:5] So, undoubtedly, along with the hardship there is ease.

            Narated By Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "If Allah wants to do good to somebody, He afflicts him with trials." (Sahih Bukhari Vol 7, Book 70, #548)

            I have realized deeply by heart and soul the following-
            1 There are people who a lot worse than you in terms of health, property, money and food.
            2. Life is a circle of tests. we will be tested in many ways many times. this life is temporary, whatever choices we would make , our eternal life in hereafter will be based on the same (hell or heaven)
            3. feelings, people, circumstances change with time. There is nothing permanent except change.

            Worrying, crying, feeling Sorry for yourself doesn’t get you anywhere! You have to think as if you are in a hole and you need to climb out of it. Help youself first then Almighty and people around will help you too. but you have to take the initiatives.

            I was not regular in my saleh and i used to offer my saleh and fasts like a forced duty or say burden, i became too negative that i started feeling that there is no point in seeking Allah(swt), i wont get any help from anyone, no one bothers for me, not even god (astagfirruah). but when i have started offering my saleh regularly and this was my first ramadan that i offered all my saleh including nafl saleh and kept all my fasts without miss and this has helped me a lot.

            I am realizing that people be it parents, your life partner, your friends, your siblings, your relatives etc. no one will remain with you , no matter what they promise to you. but its only Allah(Swt) our creator who never leaves us. I am also realizing this that may we do good to others but that doesn't mean that our life will turn out good. If you love someone, doesn't mean that they would love you back, if you put your trust or hope in someone, doesn't mean they would be so, you know sometimes we do not make right choices and we suffer but we dont realize our mistakes.

            you want to get rid of this life, well time will pass and one day you will be dead but remember we get this life only once and whatever we do in this life, our eternal life will be as per of this. then why to waste time in being negative, its partly your own negativity and its Shaitan who is trying to mislead you by increasing your negativity. do not give up hope. if today is a bad day, tomorrow will be a new day. who knows what future holds for us.

            i would like to share this

            7 Cardinal Rules in Life
            1.Make peace with your past- so it wont screq up the present
            2. what others think of you – is none of your business
            3. Time heals almost everything – give it time
            4. Don’t Compare your life to others- and don’t judge them. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
            5. Stop thinking too much – its alright not to know the answers. They will come to you when you least expect it.
            6. No one is in charge – of your happiness, except You.
            7. Smile- You don’t own all the problems in the word.

            I am still having a tough time with myself, shaitan is also troubling me like anything. the more i am trying to get close to my deen and Allah(Swt), the more its getting difficult to me because of shaitan and my lack of knowledge of islam. but i have decided one thing, i wont give up. Allah(Swt) counts our efforts not just final outcome. so you too learn it by heart.

            Help yourself, put trust in Allah(swt), use saleh and dhikr as your weapon to fight back negativity and shaitan and earn for success in eternal life. I am an example infront of you. there will be many like us. Just dont give up. plan out things, Insha’Allah you will see that the situation will increase for the better....So you can be POSITIVE and ATTACK or be NEGATIVE and MOOCH around!

            Its upto you.

            your Sister

      • Don't be depress Ali bhai.. i also sometime thought about suicide.but i recite ALLAH names and i found myself better..i advise u to do the same..there is shifa of everything in ALLAH names.

    • some people made joke of me in the name of love,decieved me so i want to die nothing left here for me

      • neha, you will get over it in time. Naturally this kind oif betrayal is very, very painful. But the pain will fade in time, even if it takes a few years. Be patient and trust in Allah. Stay busy with things you enjoy. Your heart will heal and you will be stronger than ever one day Insha'Allah.

        Wael
        IslamicAnswers.com Editor

      • Everyone needs love but it's not a reason to take your life. I have a disease that will make love difficult for me but I dare not commit suicide. This Dunya is temporary, the afterlife is everlasting. Endure and by the will of Allah love will come to you begging. Read the stories of the prophets and see how their lived through hardships worse than what we face today and also remember the waswas of shaytan of real.

  2. Assalamu alaykum Questioner,

    Are you ready for Qiyamah? Have you made preparation for it? If yes, then Alhamdulillaah.

    If no, then start working towards it instead of asking for death.

    You need not ask for it, as it will come when the time is set for it, don't worry.

    145. No soul can ever die except by Allah's leave and at a term appointed. Whoso desireth the reward of the world, We bestow on him thereof; and whoso desireth the reward of the Hereafter, thankful. We bestow on him thereof. - Surah Al Imraan.

    There is a fixed term for death, so whether you seek to hasten it or try to delay it, death will come upon it's appointed time.

    Did you read the Qur'an yet? If not read it with meanings.

    There is no narration of a Prophet in it asking Allah for death.

    Life is for striving, for being patient. Life is a test from Allah and the situations could be tough and circumstances under which the Prophet (peace be upon him) and the Sahabas lived were filled with adversity.

    As Allah says in Surah Baqarah:

    214. Or think ye that ye will enter Paradise while yet there hath not come unto you the like of (that which came to) those who passed away before you? Affliction and adversity befell them, they were shaken as with earthquake, till the messenger (of Allah) and those who believed along with him said: When cometh Allah's help? Now surely Allah's help is near.

    I advise you to read the Qur'an for now, after reading it, if you wish to make du'aa for death it is up to you.

    I also advise you to read the below verses, keeping faith in Allah, make it a habit to read them:

    286. Allah tasketh not a soul beyond its scope. For it (is only) that which it hath earned, and against it (only) that which it hath deserved. Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget, or miss the mark! Our Lord! Lay not on us such a burden as Thou didst lay on those before us! Our Lord! Impose not on us that which we have not the strength to bear! Pardon us, absolve us and have mercy on us, Thou, our Protector, and give us victory over the disbelieving folk. - Surah Al Baqarah.

    Surely Allah has not put you to task for something you cannot bear. Allah knows well and He knows you Best.

    So seek His Help. Call Him in your prayer and His Help will surely reach you, Insha Allah.

    Read this part of Surah Mu'minuun:

    57. Lo! those who go in awe for fear of their Lord,
    58. And those who believe in the revelations of their Lord,
    59. And those who ascribe not partners unto their Lord,
    60. And those who give that which they give with hearts afraid because they are about to return unto their Lord,
    61. These race for the good things, and they shall win them in the race.
    62. And We task not any soul beyond its scope, and with Us is a Record which speaketh the truth, and they will not be wronged.
    63. Nay, but their hearts are in ignorance of this (Qur’an), and they have other works, besides, which they are doing;64. Till when We grasp their luxurious ones with the punishment, behold! they supplicate.
    65. Supplicate not this day! Assuredly ye will not be helped by Us.
    66. My revelations were recited unto you, but ye used to turn back on your heels,
    67. In scorn thereof. Nightly did ye rave together.
    68. Have they not pondered the Word, or hath that come unto them which came not unto their fathers of old?
    69. Or know they not their messenger, and so reject him?
    70. Or say they: There is a madness in him? Nay, but he bringeth them the Truth; and most of them are haters of the Truth.
    71. And if the Truth had followed their desires, verily the heavens and the earth and whosoever is therein had been corrupted. Nay, We have brought them their Reminder, but from their Reminder they now turn away.
    72. Or dost thou ask of them (O Muhammad) any tribute? But! the bounty of thy Lord is better, for He is best of allwho make provision.
    73. And lo! thou summonest them indeed unto a right path.
    74. And lo! those who believe not in the Hereafter are indeed astray from the path.

    Read the Qur'an, be not in ignorance of the Qur'an, use your life for Islam.

    If you have problems to share, you may write.

    Allah has given life and He will give you death and He surely will raise you up to life again on a Heavy day.

    Life is too short to waste. It is a fleeting life.

    So use it for your Aakhirah.

    Allah says in Surah Hadiid:

    20. Know that the life of this world is only play, and idle talk, and pageantry, and boasting among you, and rivalry in respect of wealth and children; as the likeness of vegetation after rain, whereof the growth is pleasing to the husbandman, but afterward it drieth up and thou seest it turning yellow then it becometh straw. And in the Hereafter there is grievous punishment, and (also) forgiveness from Allah and His good pleasure, whereas the life of the world is but matter of illusion.
    21. Race one with another for forgiveness from your Lord and a Garden whereof the breadth is as the breadth of the heavens and the earth, which is in store for those who believe in Allah and His messengers. Such is the bounty of Allah, which He bestoweth upon whom He will, and Allah is of infinite bounty.
    22. Naught of disaster befalleth in the earth or in yourselves but it is in a Book before We bring it into being Lo! that is easy for Allah
    23. That ye grieve not for the sake of that which hath escaped you, nor yet exult because of that which hath been given. Allah loveth not all prideful boasters,

    So turn to Allah quickly in repentance for uttering such words, ask Him to make it easy for you to face these situations and to give you strength and say this du'aa which Allah commands the Prophet (peace be upon him) to say:
    80. And say: My Lord! Cause me to come in with a firm incoming and to go out with a firm outgoing. And give me from Thy presence a sustaining Power.

    Pray to Allah and do not allow yourself a day when death would come and you would say : O Allah ! Reprieve me for a little while that i may do good and be of the righteous. When death comes, it does not wait a moment here or there.

    Salaam,
    Your brother,
    Munib.

    • what do you do when ur tired of life and cant do better than giving up on life?

      • Remind yourself of the following:

        1) There are people who a lot worse that you. People around the world are dying of hunger, of poverty, of sickness. But you have food, family, health, a home and Islam.

        2) Life is a test. Give up and what hope do you have of passing it and going to Jannah. If you think now is bad, do you really want to the spend the rest of eternity in complete misery?

        Assess your life and look at what it is that you may be doing to contribute to your bad condition. Then try to put it right.

        SisterZ
        IslamicAnswers.com Editor

        • "But you have food, family, health, a home and Islam"

          No dear sometimes u have food but it doesn't give u happiness, U have family who donot accepts u, U have health just for few days and another painfull experience waiting for you you have home but nothing more than a prison and Islam huh do u beleive u can still conected to religion having all these odds in life,

          And when u know by some super natural means in few days/weeks u are going to die.............. What then.....

          • I have been there many times. If I could be a doctor in islam I'd say your iman is dangerously low. This life is a test. Think and feel happy to know that everyrhing that happens to you in this life bad and good are ridding you od your sins. Its all about your attitude and how you approach what you have. Be close to allah completely and utterly depend on him for he is always there and truly love you more than your mother ever could. This life is temporary and the hereafter is forever. Small insignifigant upsettings are worth forever.

          • in every persons life good days comes and then bad days and then again good day, which follows bad days.

            those bad days and those good days both are tests from ALLAH

            TRUST ME shaitaan is making you think like that

            and Allah is still giving you chances

            all the obligatory namaaz every single day
            and after each namaaz make lots of duaa (never never never give up on making duaa) Allah doesn't hate you

            it has been said that if even iblees asks for forgiveness and do sijdah on the grave of prophet adam
            even he will be forgiven

            please listen to me IT'S SHAITAAN MAKING YOU LOSE HOPE; DO NOT LET HIM DO THAT

            PRAY THE OBLIGATORY SALAATS IN MASJID WITH JAMAAT
            IT WILL HELP YOU!

            LIFE IS ONE CHANCE YOU DON'T GET ANOTHER ONE, IF YOU MESSED UP ON THE FIRST ONE

            AND ATLEAST YOU GOT THE BIGGEST NIMAH WHICH IS ISLAM

            BEING THE HAPPIEST MAN IN THE WORLD AND NOT HAVING IMAN IS THE WORST

            EVERYONE HAS TO DIE ONE DAY

            AND PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE TALK TO A MUSLIM SCHOLAR PERSONALLY, AND DIRECTLY ABOUT THIS MATTER

            LEARN MORE ABOUT ISLAM
            THIS WILL HELP YOU

            I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU DO THESE AND STUART IMPROVING ONE DAY
            YOU WILL HAVE A VERY HAPPY LIFE

            TO GET ALL THESE GOTO TABLEEGH JAMAAT FOR FORTY DAYS AFTER JUST FORTY DAYS YOU WILL SEE EVERTHING IS SO MUCH BETTER

            PLEASE GO GO FORTY DAYS (TABLEEGH)
            PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

    • Assalamu alaikum brother
      I need to know, can i acheive the death by asking Allah, will Allah provide the death by asking approx date to be die

  3. Do not pray to die. Instead pray for relief, and Allah will grant you relief.

    I have a martial arts instructor whose brother AND sister committed suicide. He expresses deep disappointment in them, and he says that "Suicide is a permanent approach to a temporary problem."

    In other words, the difficulties we deal with in life are temporary. Allah says, "With every difficulty comes ease." That's a promise from Allah that every period of difficulty is followed by a period of ease. So why would be try to "solve" a temporary problem by means of a drastic, permanent action that cannot be undone? And furthermore, an action that would earn Allah's anger and punishment.

    Tell me, are you so confident of your Judgment on Qiyamah? Are you so sure that you will be one of the people of Jannah, that you are ready to die???

    Live your life. Turn to Allah and seek refuge in Him. As brother Munib has said, read the Quran and supplicate to Allah. Do not seek death. Believe me, it will come sooner than you think anyway. Life is very short.

    Please see my article on suicide. I know that you have not threatened suicide, but you will find much helpful advice in it Insha'Allah:

    Dealing With Thoughts of Suicide

    Also, please see my IslamicSunrays.com website. I think you'll find many of the articles to be very helpful, such as my most recent article:

    How to invite Allah's power and wisdom into your life

    Wael
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  4. i cant tell any reason i hate this world so i want to die however it is haram to pray for death.oh allah do for me whats better keep me alive till i m happy and love the life. it is easy tbeing angel but it is har d being a human

    • As salamu alaykum,

      You have many inspirational readings on IslamicSunrays.com, hate is the opposite face of love, go beyond the duality of material love and find the unity of unconditional love, increase your iman, be grateful for all the blessings you have and praise Allah(swt) in all you do.

      María
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  5. my life is not much good but i still pray ALLAH (swt) for the best

  6. As Salam alakim ,
    I am in need of some help, some guidance lease oh please.

    (April, I have published your comment as a post here:

    http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/new-convert-pregnant/

    - IslamicAnswers.com Editor)

  7. Assalamu alaikum, i have one doubt,everbody says and i also read that if we do not doing namaz allah will punish us very badly ,and also after dying allah will punish us more and more,but allah is most mercifull(bismillahi rahman rahim) and allah is the source of love,allah loves his servants without any partition,Then how can allah punish us?,and allah is the power,he is the cordinator of us,if baby born here in the world allah decide what he will be in future bad or good,Is it? Please clear my doubts, i m very anxious to know please ,

    • As salaam brother

      Your parents love you a lot, yet they still punish you
      Allah loves you much much more then your parents, so for sure He will punish you if you disobey Him

      and you ask why He would punish you because He loves you so much? Well He probably loves out of us the ones that obey Him more
      and He will grant them Jannah for obeying Him
      but if the bad people are getting as much as the good get
      then why would the good strive in the sake of Allah

      If the bad aren't punished, what will stop them from being bad?

  8. Well jish allah will forgive us if we ask for forgiveness

    regarding the Salah , yes if u will not offer Salah allah will punish u but u said that allah is the most merciful why will he punish us

    Firstly , muslim must be very strict in offering Salah , there is no excuse in leave Salah
    It is said that even in war when u r losing a War and the enemies are run behind u and its time for Salah u have to offer it

    So if one leave any Salah , then he should offer tahajud and ask allah for forgiveness

    Let me give u an example ,
    if ur working in an office , there are office work which u should perform with integrity , consistently .

    U know that as we work we should do are task without failure , in order to get promotion , and better life and admiration from our boss
    well as an muslim , if u want to get better life style admiration then Salah is must.

    In office if u don't perform well ur superior will be angry with u it may lead to losing ur job .

    Similary if u don't offer Salah than allah will also be angry

    In office we u don't perform well , u try to add extra effort to do well so to earn respect in eye of your boss

    Similary , if u leave Salah then u offer tahajud so in order to complete ur Salah .

    Well I tried to make u understand in a simple manner but I think other will be able to help u also

  9. I want to ask a question I know I should have posted but i need an answer asap so plz sorry

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    • Truebloood,

      We cannot answer your question here, it would be unfair to all the others who are waiting. Please log in and submit your question as a separate post.

      SisterZ
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  10. Ok no problem , fair n square

  11. Jish,, as a muslim, the first thing Allah has ordained for you after taking the shahada is sallah.. Sallah is something that is compulsory and that's what classify you as a muslim.. There is an hadith of the prophet that says ''what differentiate a disbeliever, a hypocrite and a muslim is the sallah prayers''.. If you really believe in Allah and the hereafter and you are ready to be a muslim, then you must be ready to offer the sallah, otherwise you are just a hypocrite and you are allowing the devil to have influence over you.. It can't take you more than ten to fifteen minute to finish the form of worship(sallah).. ALLAH said ''AND I (Allah) CREATED NOT THE JINN AND MANKIND EXCEPT THAT THEY SHOULD WORSHIP ME'' ''I SEEK NOT ANY PROVISION FROM THEM NOR DO I ASK THAT THEY SHOULD FEED ME''... Think about this sister, Allah created you, gave you shape and form, health, gave you eyes, ears, nose and mouth and all the blessings He gave you for free without you asking. What's the big deal there to devout 10 to 15 minute and worship you creator???,,,.. If you are used to missing your prayers, then you should do tawba now and sincerely ask Allah to forgive you with the intention that you will never ever miss the sallat again until your death.. ALLAH is indeed oft-forgiving and most merciful, He will forgive you your past sins BUT dont ever joke with your prayers again.... Concerning your second question., Allah knows what is going to happen in the future, for example Allah knows (in his knowledge) what is going to happen to you in the next few minutes, in the next 10 yrs, next 20yrs etc and also He knows what would happen to you after you death.. He knows what you are going to do but He didn't willed it for you to do it. He didn't make you to do it. He has given the mankind free will to choose btw good or bad. If you choose to offer your salah prayers and do rightous good deeds ordained by Allah, then paradise/jannah is for you. But if you choose to be ungrateful to Allah, don't offer the sallah and do evil bad deeds, then hell fire is your final abode.. So is left for you to choose where you want to enter.

  12. Please friends please give me an advise,is there any dua to request allah to take me from this world? Plse help me plse,I m 26 years old,Till today i didnt get happiness even in a single minute,yesterday i saw psychological traing program they said when u desperate just close ur eyes and think about a happiest day or happiest moment,but i dont have even a happiest day or happiest moment,when i was in preschool age i didnt wish to have too many toys ,but i just wished to eat biscuits,when all my friends having there biscuits chocolates and snaks i just dreamed that i m also eating that and one day i cant contrnl myself and i just took a cake wraper from waste and i ate that,from there to till now my life r filled with insulting,tears and pain,at begining i was a good believer of allah,but all my hurting experience make me feel like that there is no god ,plse give me any dua to request allah to take me from this world,other ways i will end my life i knw its a sin,but friends u cant understand my pain,if i live i will become mad which i dont want,plse reply me plse plse

    • Assalamualaikum,
      Dear Shaji,

      i know this is a late reply but i couldn't help but want to give you some advice i learnt in my life that might help you become stronger if you already didn't know about them. From your mgs i see you've had a very hard life I don’t think it’s good to wish for death but instead to keep praying Allah gives you what is good of this world and what is good of the hereafter and most importantly to save you from the torments of hell because you will only die the time God proscribed for you to die so there’s no need to ask for that because it will never change. Don’t think that your life is not a blessing from Allah when really your whole life as be your jihad if you never give up and be patient which i pray you are doing and look forward to meeting your lord i believe he would be pleased with your effects with dealing with this world remember this world is only a test and a this life you are living right now is your test which Allah is trying to show you how much he loves. The amount of reward is in accordance with the amount of suffering. When Allah loves some people, He tries them with affliction. He who then is content with Allah's decree has achieved the acceptance of Allah, and he who is dissatisfied (with Allah's decree) will attain the anger of Allah. Whenever Allah wills good for a person, He subjects him to adversity.

      Hardships Benefit the Believer Allah has decreed that, in this life, hardships and disasters strike both believers and non-believers. For a non-believer, they are inconveniences that hinder him from proceeding with his normal involvement in the worldly life.

      For a believer, on the other hand, they are instances of rest and remembrance, tests that promise great rewards, and indications of atonement and expiation/pardoning of sins. Regardless of how little is the harm that strikes a believer, it carries with it good news of forgiveness and ELEVATED RANK IN HEAVEN. The righteous predecessors used to be pleased when a hardship afflicted them, seeing it as a token of Allah's forgiveness and benevolence.

      Verily with every difficult situation there is a relief. 94:6

      A true believer is one who maintains a clear level of Iman-faith throughout the worldly fluctuation. He continues to remember Allah and ascribe the bounties to Him; and he turns to Him in submission, asking for relief from his affliction.
      "Certainly, We shall test you with fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits; but give glad tidings to the patient - those who, when afflicted with calamity say, "Truly to Allah we belong, and truly to Him shall we return." it is those who will be awarded blessings and mercy from their Lord; and it is those who are the guided ones." [2:155-157]

      Muslim reports from 'Abdullaah ibn 'Amr (ra) that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said "The poor of theMuhajireen will enter Paradise forty years ahead of the rich". (Mishkat al-Masaabeeh, 2/663, no. 5235)

      at-Tirmidhi reported from Abu Sa'eed, and Ahmad, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Maajah reported from Abu Hurayrah, that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said: "The poor of the Muhajireen will enter Paradise five hundred years ahead of the rich of the Muhajireen" Saheeh al-Jaami' 4/90, no.4104).

      Elsewhere the Prophet (saw) explained that these are the people who have nothing to be brought account for, and this is in addition to their jihaad and virtue. al-Haakim reported from 'Abdullaah ibn 'Amr that the Messenger of Allah (saw) said, "Do you know who will be the first of my ummah to enter Paradise?" I said, "Allah and His Messenger know best". He said, "The poor of the Muhajireen. They will come to the gate of Paradise on the Day of Resurrection and ask for it to be opened. The gatekeepers will say to them, "Have you been brought to account?" They will say, "What do we need to be brought to account for? We were carrying our swords and fighting for the sake of Allah (swt) until we died." Then the gates will be opened for them and they will stay there for forty years before anyone else enters". (Silsilah al-Hadith as-Saheehah, 2/532, no. 853, al-Haakim said it is sahih according to the conditions of al-Bukhari and Muslim).

      al-Bukhaari reports from Usaamah ibn Zayd that the Prophet (saw) said, "I stood by the gate of Paradise and saw that the majority of those who entered were the poor and wretched. The rich [Muslims] were detained while the people of Hell were ordered to be taken to Hell". (Sahih al-Bukhaari, Kitaab ar-Riqaaq, BAab Sifaat al-Jannah, wan-Naar, Fath al-Baari, 2/345

      Seeking knowledge is obligatory upon every Muslim (male and female). After providing us with the capability to contemplate, think and differentiate between things, He instructed us to know Him, to know his Prophets and to know His Deen, Islam.

      He said "It is only those who have knowledge among His servants that fear Allah."(Qur'an, Fatir 35:28)

      The Messenger of Allah gave glad tidings to anyone who undertakes the task of seeking knowledge. Abu Hurayrah relates that the Prophet said, "For him who embarks on the path of seeking knowledge, Allah will ease for him/her the way to paradise." (Related by Muslim)

      i pray allah makes you stronger in your faith and inshallah my reply helped in someway. Assalamualaikum

  13. Assalamualaikum,
    Dear Shaji,
    You should never ask Allah(s.w.t) to make you die. Your life is a gift from Him. Remember Him as much as you can. Do some good deeds for your akhirah. Thank Him for your life, for your breath, for the food you eat , for the water you drink. Go out, see nature's beauty and thank Him. Try to remain positive . Eat healthily , exercise, do some volunteer work. I don't know what your problems are so have no idea about what to comment. I just can feel your pain and do care. So please take care of your self and try to make your life happy step by step Inshallah. Make your connection with God strong and you will find peace Inshallah.
    All my love and respect,
    Wasalaam

    • muslim, thank you for this compassionate reply.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

      • Helping people brings a great feeling. Thanks to you all too on this panel for helping others. May Allah(s.w.t) reward you for your great work. Ameen.
        I even had something to ask just generally. I mostly see outside when I try to help people they react arrogantly. The place where i grew up wasn't like this but my current place is so. I can't change my attitude of being polite and helpful. But it hurts when others react so. Any advice on how to stop this feeling will be highly appreciated.
        Regards
        Masalaam

        • Assalaam Walekum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu Sister Muslim,

          Cannot help but noticing that you asked for this advice twice.The nature of our great religion is that the more it is suppressed the stronger it becomes.Thats also true for people who are soft hearted like you( Allah Tabarakwataala knows better).If the feelig in you for helping others is strong enough than soon you will see that Inshaallah response from people would not matter you.You will also learn that : everything we do must be inorder to please only The Almighty.If one believes in this then he/ she can resolve the problem mentioned by you.Try helping others just for the sake of Allah Rabbil Izzat.Do not get attached with them, interms of their reaction.If the reaction is good ,accept it as a gracious favour from The Almighty and Thank Him for that.And if the reaction turns out to be bad: accept it as The Almighty's decision and ask for forgiveness from HIm.You should pray to Him asking for cleansing your heart off this depression you get.Remember some people are like leaders , they have amazing ability to get things moving in a circle by the way of their good heart and knowledge and bitter experience from their own past.Nothing can stop such people except their own depression.And thats how evil forces can turn table against you.For they know if you rise you can lift hundreds of others.So never ever allow depression to set in you.

          What you are facing is a behavioural problem.Sometimes in childhood we tend to be in such conditions that we are not able to share our feelings to anyone except our ownself and Allah subhaanwataala.That leads to a behaviour of keeping silent initially and then later depression .In this state we are caught between our ability to help others and our own happiness.As a muslim our soul always wants us to sacrifice our happiness and look after others, BY FORGIVING them.Once we do that we come out of that situation.

          So next time you want to help someone, be ready to face harsh situation, as they say we can take a donkey to water ,but cannot force it to drink.And teach yourself to come out of this situation of negative feelings by forgiving them for their reactions.My experience says, all people do not know worth of other human companion.They only realize it when someone is not there.As most of us are so busy chasing own worldy dreams that we have forgotten what is living a good life.People are so sick that they think if someone comes to help them that means the helper thinks they are weak or wrong.In present world very few people are there who accept the fact that they are weak or wrong gracefully.Actually its their frustration over there condition which sometimes comes out as yelling on others, as this is their vain effort to release their pressure.Also some people are so sadist ( by way of their harsh experiences in life) they tend to take everything negatively, even your positive energies, and helpful nature.

          So when a person wants to help someone, its important to realise how the person's state of mind is and how he would react.Most importantly keep ourself detached from Him/ her's behaviour.Its a art you will learn it slowly if you endeavour.
          Please forgive your mother and begin the process.

          DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING FROM OTHERS EXCEPT FROM ALLAH (The exalted is He)

          Allah Hafiz wa Nasir

  14. Trusted Muslim ladies please

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    Asalamualaykum I am an eleven year old girl and I am also finding life hard and I feel that death is better for me I am currently memorizing the holy Quran and allhamdulilah living with my family but what my problame is that every time I come back from school mama is always saying come in go memorize come on come on come on but this really stresses me because I am in grade seven and am shuved with homework assignments and many more I have tried speaking with mum but she just dosent understand me she is always saying yala yala go memorize and now my daily life is six hours of school have sone food pray duhr pray asr the nemorise till mugrib prayer so I pray then I do my tons of homework and assignments then pray isha and bush my teeth and go to bed then wake up for fajir the next morning and on we go from there I am sooooooooo tierd and annoyed from the way I am living and now I just want to die I feel like my heart has ripped open that the fact that I have to post this note on the internet and not to my family
    My heart is tourn
    Please give me advice and help me
    Jazakumuallah
    Wasalamualaykum

  15. oh dear unknown ,

    you r just 11 yrs old .dont talk such things.u have whole life ahead u.you r going thru the most beautiful phase of ur life.childhood is the most beautiful period of life so njoyy it.I am also going thru bad time.i am 29 yrs old just after 1 yr of my marriage got divorce and also after 10 month of my marriage lost my first baby boy.but im living and have full faith in Allah.i was always a very good student in school, college and score excellent.now when Allah is testing me how can i let him down.i want to win and beat this test.I want to b a good student of Allah.U also think this way and show everyone that u r not making only duniya but also ur aakhrat.u r doing something for ur maker(Allah).prove yourself.inshaAllah u will cum out of this stressful condition...and prey to Allah .Allah listen to the children most....

    cheerful 🙂

  16. Unseen,
    Assalamu alaikum, why u want to die? Life is so beautiful if u appreciate everyday the blessings of allah swt. Dont focus only on negative things in ur life, be appreciative. In times of trials praise Allah coz it means He loves u so much coz his testing ur faith, and He will not give trial or problem without solution. He always give the greatest battle to His strongest solder, so be brave n Insha Allah in the hereafter u will get ur rewards.

  17. i want 2 attempt suicide soon 🙁

    • Why? Why do you want to go to the Hell for eternity? Would you not even like to try and save yourself from the blazing fire which will burn one's skin again and again and nobody will listen to the cries and nobody will come for the rescue?

      If you would like to try and save yourself, then you can register and login to our website; and then submit a new post with details on what makes you take this decision, so that we can help you stand up and face the world insted of breaking down and killing yourself for destruction - the Fire.

      Abu Abdul Bari
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

      • i cant survive anymore with alot of problems..i dont knw whats happening with me....i cant even understndginx the problems...so i dont want to live anymore..:(..:(

        • Remember that Allah won't burden you more than you can handle and so your problem can be solved by following the guidance in Quran and ahadeeth insha'Allah. Your problem may be due to your own doings or it can be a test from Allah. If its a test from Allah then suicicde wouldn't come up.Therefore its best if you share your problems so that we might be of some help insha'Allah.

          In the mean time, go to your kitchen, lit your gas stove and try to put your hands on it. If its not possible due to extreme heat which would burn your skin, then the punishment for suicide would be like your whole body in the fire which is multiple times more hot than your gas stove and its for eternity. I would say, bearing the pain in this life is more rewarding and possible than getting tortured in the hereafter which is everlasting.

        • @ayaat fatima - what are your problem ?

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          May Allah grant us success! May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet, his family and Companions!

        • @fatima

          sister, you are going to the doctor and asking him to give you the medicine without telling him what is your problem.

          first calm down.

          say أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم (I seek refuge with Allaah from the accursed shaytaan).

          tell us what happened. so that you can get help inshaAllah.

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          May Allah grant us success! May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet, his family and Companions!

    • You should read this hadith

      Prophet Muhammed(sallallahu alaihi wasallam) peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

      “Whoever throws himself down from a mountain and kills himself will be in the Fire of Hell, throwing himself down therein for ever and ever.

      Whoever takes poison and kills himself, his poison will be in his hand and he will be sipping it in the Fire of Hell for ever and ever.

      Whoever kills himself with a piece of iron, that piece of iron will be in his hand and he will be stabbing himself in the stomach with it in the Fire of Hell, for ever and ever.”

      Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5442; Muslim, 109.

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      be patient.
      why don't you share your problem here?
      inshaAllah you can find the solution too.
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      May Allah grant us success! May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet, his family and Companions!

    • Salam sis
      If u need someone to talk to im here

  18. Sister look In the mirror and ask this question yourself,

    - are you ready to face Allah?
    - have you finished all your responsibility in this life?
    - have you done your salat?
    - have you read qaran and fast?
    - have you earned good deeds to pass the judgement day?
    - did you follow prophet?

    And there are thousand of thing we all need to do before we think about death. Sister please do not fix your death time by yourself let Allah fix it for you when its right time. pray ask for Allah's forgiveness and make dua.

  19. assalamu alaikum.
    can yov advice me how to get ready to face death. I need to die soon. iv had enof in this world. i think Allah loves me, for he saved me from suiciding myself. i love him too. so one day i need to see him. By asking the dua above, what else should i do to get ready myself. please anyone who read this add me in your prayers for my forgivness.

    • noorah, to get ready for death what you must do is live a righteous life. Obey Allah and His Messenger, pray, fast, go to Hajj, and do good to others. Suicide is exactly the opposite of what you must do, because it is a serious sin. Please log in and write a separate post, and tell us more about your situation.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  20. Dear all..

    Plz tell me if there is dua I can pray every moment of my life

    I want to die I tired with my life!!! I can't suicide because its against of Islam.

    I can't tell y I want to die, plz you all pray for me I shud die as soon as possible

    • Mohammed, please log in and write your question as a separate post, and explain the situation. You can register with a different name and change your personal details so no one can identify us. We have received every kind of question here, so do not be embarrassed to tell us about your situation.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

    • You said you are "tired" of life but are you really ready for death are you ready to meet Allah???? Have you done all the things which Allah command you??? Look in the mirror and Ask this question yourself and find the answer 🙂

    • @OP - walaikumassalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu
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      below is a copy paste from a website
      @AllFirstly: A long life in which a believer does righteous deeds is better for him than death.

      The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The best of people is the one who lives long and does good.” Narrated by Ahmad and al-Tirmidhi, 110; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

      And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Glad tidings to the one who lives long and does good.” Narrated by al-Tabaraani and Abu Na’eem, classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 3928.

      Ahmad (8195) narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: Two men became Muslim with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). One of them was martyred, and the other remained for another year. Talhah ibn ‘Ubayd-Allaah said: I was shown Paradise (in a dream), and in it I saw that the one who was delayed was admitted before the martyr. I was surprised by that, so the next morning I told the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about that. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Did he not fast Ramadaan after he was gone, and pray six thousand rak’ahs, or such and such a number of rak'ahs, the prayers of one year?” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 2591. al-‘Ajlooni said in Kashf al-Khafa’: its isnaad is hasan.

      A man said: “O Messenger of Allaah, which of the people is best?” He said: “The one who lives long and does good.” He said: “Which of the people is worst?” He said: “The one who lives long and does evil.” Narrated by Ahmad and al-Tirmidhi, 2330; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

      Al-Teebi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Time is like the capital of a businessman, and it should be invested in such a way as to make a profit. The greater the capital, the greater the profit. Whoever benefits from his life by doing good deeds will succeed and prosper, but whoever wastes his capital and does not prosper will evidently lose out. End quote.

      Hence it was said to one of the salaf: Death is a good thing.

      He said: O son of my brother, do not do that, for an hour of life in which you ask Allaah for forgiveness is better for you than an eternity of death.

      It was said to an old man among them: Would you not like to die? He said: No, for youth and its evil have gone, and old age and its goodness have come. When I get up, I say Bismillaah (in the name of Allaah), and when I sit I say Al-hamdu Lillaah (praise be to Allaah), and I would like this to continue.

      Many of the salaf would weep when they were dying, in sorrow for the cessation of their righteous deeds.

      Hence the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade wishing for death, because it deprives the believer of the goodness of obedience and the joy of worship, and of the opportunity to repent and make up for what one has missed.

      It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No one of you should wish for death or pray for it before it comes, for when one of you dies, his good deeds come to an end and for the believer a long life will not increase him in anything but good.” Narrated by Muslim, 2682

      So he mentioned the prohibition of wishing for death alongside the prohibition on praying for one's own death.

      A version narrated by al-Bukhaari says: “No one of you should wish for death. Either he is a doer of good and will do more, or he is a doer of evil but perhaps he may stop.”

      Al-Nawawi said: This hadeeth clearly indicates that it is makrooh to wish for death because of some harm that has befallen one, such as loss or distress caused by an enemy, or other such hardships of this world. But if a person fears harm or fitnah with regard to his religious commitment, it is not makrooh to wish for death, according to this hadeeth, and several of the salaf did that.

      There is another reason why wishing for death is not allowed:

      The throes of death are very hard, and the terror of seeing one's end draw nigh is immense. Man is faced with nothing else like it. Moreover, no one knows what awaits him after death. We ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound. Wishing for death is seeking something which is unknown. Perhaps if he wishes for death because of some hardship that he has fallen into, he may end up like one who jumps out of the frying pan and into the fire, and after death he may find himself in an even worse situation. In that case, wishing for death is akin to seeking to hasten calamity before it happens. No wise man should do that, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not wish to meet the enemy, and ask Allaah to keep you safe and sound.” (Agreed upon). A hadeeth to this effect has been narrated, but it is da’eef (weak).

      It was narrated that Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not wish for death, for the terror that follows death is immense. It is a sign of blessing to live long and be guided by Allaah to repent.” Narrated by Ahmad; classed as da’eef by al-Albaani in Silsilat al-Ahaadeeth al-Da’eefah, 885.

      Ibn ‘Umar heard a man wishing for death and he said: “Do not wish for death, for you are going to die. Ask Allaah to keep you safe and sound, for the dying person is exposed to great terror.”

      Ibn Rajab (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Many righteous men have wished for death when they were healthy, then when it came they hated it because it is so difficult, such as Abu’l-Darda’ and Sufyaan al-Thawri, so what do you think about people other than them?

      Wishing for death, if the reason for it is difficulties in worldly matters, is forbidden because wishing for death in that case is indicative of impatience or panic as a result of the calamity that has befallen.

      It was narrated from Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No one of you should wish for death because of some harm that has befallen him, but if he must do that then let him say: ‘O Allaah, keep me alive so long as life is good for me, and cause me to die when death is good for me.’” Agreed upon.

      What is meant by “some harm that has befallen him” is worldly harms such as sickness, loss of wealth and children, and the like. But if he fears harm to his religious commitment, such as fitnah, then there is nothing wrong with wishing for death in that case, as we shall see below.

      Perhaps the one who wishes for death in order to find relief from the harm that has befallen him will only increase in exhaustion and pain, he does not know.

      It was narrated that ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said: It was said: “O Messenger of Allaah, So and so has died, and has found relief.” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) got angry and said: “Only the one who is forgiven finds relief.” Narrated by Ahmad, 24192; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 1710.

      Secondly: There are some cases in which it is prescribed to wish for death, such as the following:

      1 – One who fears for his religious commitment because of fitnah

      Undoubtedly death which takes a person away from fitnah (tribulation, temptation that takes one away from religious commitment), even if his righteous deeds are few, is better for him than being subjected to tribulations with regard to his religious commitment. We ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound.

      It was narrated from Mahmoud ibn Labeed (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are two things that the son of Adam dislikes: death, although death is better for a believer than fitnah; and he dislikes having little wealth, but less wealth means less reckoning.” Narrated by Ahmad; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 813.

      The fact that wishing for death in this situation is also prescribed is indicated by the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in his du’aa’: “If You should decree fitnah for Your slaves, then take my soul (in death) before I am put to trial.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 3233; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’.

      Ibn Rajab (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: This is permissible according to the majority of scholars.

      Based on this, the reports of the salaf wishing for death are to be understood as meaning that they wished for death for fear of fitnah.

      Maalik narrated that Sa’eed ibn al-Musayyab said: When ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab came from Mina, he made his camel kneel at al-Abtah, and then he gathered a pile of small stones and cast his cloak over them and dropped to the ground. Then he raised his hands to the sky and said, 'O Allaah! I have become old and my strength has weakened. My flock is scattered. Take me to You with nothing missed out and without having neglected anything.'

      Sa’eed said: Dhu’l-Hijjah did not end before ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) was murdered.

      Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: Whoever sees death offered for sale, let him buy it for me!

      Al-Thabaat ‘inda al-Mamaat, by Ibn al-Jawzi, p. 45

      2 – When his death is martyrdom for the sake of Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted.

      There are many ahaadeeth which indicate that wishing for death in this case is prescribed, such as the following:

      It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Were it not that it would be too hard for my ummah, I would not have stayed behind from any campaign. Would that I could be killed for the sake of Allaah, then brought back to life then killed, then brought back to life then killed.” Agreed upon.

      The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) wished to be killed for the sake of Allaah, and that was only because of the great virtue of martyrdom.

      Muslim (1909) narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever asks Allaah sincerely for martyrdom, Allaah will cause him to attain the status of the martyr, even if he dies in his bed.”

      The salaf (may Allaah be pleased with them) loved the idea of dying for the sake of Allaah.

      Abu Bakr (may Allaah be pleased with him) said, concerning the liar Musaylimah, when he claimed to be a prophet: “By Allaah, I will fight him with people who love death as they love life.”

      Khaalid ibn al-Waleed (may Allaah be pleased with him) wrote to the people of Persia saying: “By the One besides Whom there is no other god, I shall send against you people who love death as you love life.”

      This status is something desirable – may Allaah not deprive us of it – and seeking it is something that is praiseworthy, because the one who is given it will not be deprived of the reward for righteous deeds for which a person may want to live and which may be better for a person than death. Moreover Allaah will spare the one who attains this status from the torment of the grave.

      It was narrated that Salmaan (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Standing on guard at the border for one day and one night is better than fasting and praying qiyaam for a month, and if he dies, will be given the reward for the good deeds that he used to do, and he will be given provision, and he will be kept safe from al-fattaan [i.e., Munkar and Nakeer, the two angels who question the deceased in the grave].”

      Muslim, 1913.

      _________________
      May Allah grant us success! May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet, his family and Companions!

  21. Sallam
    My name is Numan I am 23 years of age I have committed suicide once but been saved but I am going to do it again . I just don't know what to do . Please remember me in your prayers . I just can't take it anymore . It's bitter then hell . Every day I do sins I am just done with my life plz remember me in your prayer

    • Numan, Asalaamualaykum,

      I'm sorry you are feeling so bad. But suicide is never the answer to anything.

      What is upsetting you so much? What can you not take anymore? Talk to us here. I am certain that someone reading your comment can relate to what youre feeling.

      InshaaAllah I will pray for you this iftaar and hope you will do the same for me.

      SisterZ
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  22. I was in love (remainder of comment deleted by editor)

    • Salaams,

      Please log in and submit your question in a separate post, and we will answer it in turn in shaa Allah.

      -Amy
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  23. I want to die right now , i don't want to live , i don't want to suicide bt i thnk my mind is going this way , i feel no happiness , my life is empty , whom i love died , my parents think i'm burden , they didn't gve m happiness , i want everythng bt i've nothng , when you've nthng y should u live , tomorrow's eid n i've no pants to wear , what's the reason i shld live

    • Ahmd, I'm sorry that you are going through such a hard time. It's always disappointing when our parents don't value us. In that case we must find value within ourselves, and find our own way and joy in life.

      Please read my article, Suicide in Islam. May Allah comfort you and help you.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  24. Asalamo Alikum, muslim brothers i need ur help. i love a girl alot i knew her since my childhood i love her for 13 years.. She always told me that she also love me. But recently she was nikkahfied that day was like hell to me but i tried to get back to my life but i cnt. And i wish to die cux my parents are worried to see me like that. i wish to die in order to end my suffering and also help my parents. Trust me the are worried sick my mom didnt even wish to eat when she see me in pain.

    She is only nikkahfied and not and live with her parents till her education ends then she will be forced for rukhsati and all that. She contacted me recently and she said that her parents forced her to be nikkahfied saying it will end her pain. But she told me she never stop crying. she said she is not happy to be with them. When i asked her to take divorce she said it is not possible too since she didnt wanna break hearts of every family member for her husband's family.

    So plz help me tell a way to die i dont wanna do suicide but i cnt bare my life and see everyone i loved a lot in problem. Plus every time i think that she cnt be mine now i felt like cutting my heart since it pains alot then. Plz plz help me pray for my death or tell me a way. I will be thankful to u. May Allah Help everyone and dont repeat my story ever ameen.

    Allah Hafiz

    • Assalam O Alaikum Brother,

      Sorry to hear what you are going through but suicide is never the answer to any problem instead it will only infuriate Allah (swt) as by committing this act we give up hope in the Almighty. Brother, she shares the same feeling than why didn't she stand up for herself; yes women all over the world are forced/coerced into marriages by their families but we all know that it's not Islamic and someone has to stand up to this practice or else it will keep on going until God know when.

      Surely, it's not easy but than what is. We can't just sit around and expect things to change without having to go through difficulties and sacrifices. I suggest that you move on and pray to Allah (swt) to bless you with peace because; now she is married to someone else and she is someone else's wife and honor. So, please stop thinking of suicide for your own sake and for the sake of those who love you. If you can't bear to see your mother suffering now than how much pain and suffering she will have to bear if you commit suicide astaghfirullah.

      Read this article on suicide and pray to ask Allah (swt) to help you heal and move on iA. Also, check our database for similar posts which I am sure will help you immensely.

      http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/suicide-in-islam/

      May Allah (swt) make it easy for you and help you fight shaytan who is whispering these negative thought in your ears. Amin.

      Muhammad1982,
      Editor, IslamicAnswers.com

    • As-salamu alaykum brother. It always hurts when we can't be with the one we love. However, suicide is not a solution nor an option for a Muslim. Also, what you're saying doesn't make sense. You say it hurts your parents to see you sad, so you want to kill yourself to help them??? How sad do you think they will be after that? SubhanAllah.

      Maybe the girl you love was forced to marry, maybe not. You loved her for 13 years and you say she loved you, but you did not marry her. So you missed your opportunity. Now you have to accept what has happened and move on with your life. Stop all contact with that girl as she is a married woman. Do not speak to her, email her, text her, or look at her Facebook page. Remove her from your life altogether. In time the pain will lessen.

      Dying is easy. That is a coward's way out. The challenge for a Muslim is to live. That is the challenge Allah has given you. To live your life and find a way forward.

      Please also read my article on suicide: Suicide in Islam.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

    • Assalaamualaikam

      Brother, suicide is never the answer to life's trials; if someone ends their life, the problems they faced in this life cannot be solved, and remain unfinished, and the people who love them are left behind to carry on in their lives without their loved one. It's very painful to lose someone that you love, regardless of the cause, but the other people we love, who love us, still need us.

      Your parents are upset to see you sad, but they would be devastated to lose you - especially to suicide. Try to remember that they love you. Open up to them and ask them for help with coping with your feelings, and you can all support each other.

      It may be that we love and desire something or someone which would ultimately have a detrimental effect to our wellbeing in this life or the next; we may not be able to see this, but Allah knows, and protects us from such things, even if we feel it is something we really want.

      If you find yourself ruminating excessively on these events and on harming yourself, maybe try to fill your time with something constructive and challenging, to exercise your mind and body - why not try volunteering (maybe at a local masjid or community project), learning a new skill, or even just taking your mum out for a walk and a chat? That way you would be channelling your energy towards a clear purpose, and building a life and identity that goes beyond the loss you have experienced.

      If you continue to feel this way for a prolonged period of time, or feel you may act on your thoughts of suicide, I would ask you to contact your doctor urgently, as he can then provide professional specialist advice and support.

      I pray that Allah guides you through this struggle.

      Midnightmoon
      IslamicAnswers.com editor

    • Brothers i said i wish to suicide but i m not actually gonna try that. I know it is haram in islam. I try to stop all the contacts with her but after some time she manages to contact me and she use to cry alot saying that their parents made her life hell y m i leaving her in that. Secondly when ever i think about her i cnt concentrate on anything else for days, even i m not able to eat.

      I m sorry to mention that she is my first cousin. And she is not my wife since both our parents had a fight. I tried my best to marry her but her mom didnt told her anything about her marriage till she send invetation cards to her relatives. After sending she said that it is better to marry him i order to protect her family name. She refused that but her mom also closed our means to contact saying i left her and allowed her to marry someone else.

      She wish to take divorce but her family is not supporting her at all. Then they are saying to her that taking divorce means breaking relation with every single person in that family and if she breaks that many hearts Allah will punish her. So she is scared from that.

      She cry alot since she is in a situation that her family is not supporting her. She also wish to die. since she dont want anyone to take my place. Plus she loves her mom too like me. And she is scared if she take any step her parents will never see her again.

      At first she tries to take khula but her mom stop her by saying she will be bounded to court forever. Plus khula needs valid reason etc. Then she planned to ask her husband to give him talaq but then she is too scared to ask her that. She use to think that he will not give him divorce as they spend tooo much money on nikkah. Though her rukhsati is due next year.

      Plz brothers i cnt bare all that help me end this life. Tell some dua to do that. I will be thankful. May Allah bless u.

      Allah Hafiz

  25. as salamualekum,
    it is not allowed to pray 4 ur death. ur life is a gift, when you pray 4 death you are trying to get rid of the gift that allah subhanah tala has given you. when you pray 4 ur death it means u r losing hope, we have to be strong and should always be hopefull to allah, that is strong imaan.
    but as my sister above has told you, atmost u can pray "oh allah give me death when time is right" meaning when ur are with full imaan.
    may allah subhana tala helps you with all your problem.

  26. Asalam alikum
    Dear Muslim brothers and sisters pls tell me is there any wazifa or dua for death..??? Cuz I don't want to live in this duniya any more m just 16 n m having soo many problems I even forgot how to smile ,every day m crying, m tried n I've give up, I don't want to live any more !! Pls tell me what should I do ? I want to die 🙁

    • Assalaamualaikam

      I'm so sorry to read you're in so much distress. Please don't give up, though - have faith that Allah will watch over you and guide you to happiness, and never leave you to face these tests alone.

      If you can, try to speak to your mum, or a school-teacher about how you are feeling, as they may be able to help you fix some of the problems you are facing and can comfort you. I'd also recommend speaking with your GP or family doctor, as they may be able to give you advice about counselling services and supports available for young people in distress.

      Try your best to keep up your daily prayers and frequent remembrance of Allah - trust in Him to give you strength and hope again.

      Midnightmoon
      IslamicAnswers.com editor

  27. assalamu alaikum

    i really want to suicide i cant live anymore...i got dokha n love ....loving 3 years .today he tells me gali as he got job in saudi

    allah help me wat o be done

    i feel i wil suicide

    no guy is willing to marry me as i look fat and middle class family

    i really wana die

    • Assalaamualaikam

      No guy is worth killing yourself for - Allah has given us our lives, and no broken relationship is worth disobeying Allah's will that we should not kill ourselves. Turn to Allah for comfort, and know that His plan for your life will be best for you, even if the current situation is painful.

      You say no guy would be willing to marry you because of your weight and being middle class. A person's weight and physical appearance shouldn't be all we look for for in potential spouses - if a guy dismisses you because of how you look, that shows that he isn't the one for you, as you deserve a husband who sees the true beauty inside you - your faith and character. People have different definitions of class, but remember that people live in abject poverty all around the world, and still have happy marriages and families, and say Alhamdulillah for all their blessings - rather than looking at your financial situation as a bad thing, try to be grateful for all that you have (a home, clean water, food, clothes...) and ignore people who would look down on others based on their material possessions.

      I pray that Allah comforts you, and that He guides you to happiness. Please don't consider ending your life - if you feel in danger of harming yourself, contact your doctor or a support service such as The Samaritans or Breathing Space, and make sure you are in a safe place with people who care about you and will look after you.

      Midnightmoon
      IslamicAnswers.com editor

  28. I have sin terribly... I know I'm destined for hell...why should i wait for the time to die that Allah knows when... When I can just end right now. Both ways I'm still going to hell.

    • Salaams,

      No one knows their eternal fate. Not even Prophet Muhammad SAWS knew his. I understand that in the midst of your pain and whatever you've done that what you're thinking seems logical, but Allah tells us that He will forgive our sins when we repent. You never know what could happen- you may have done some small deed that saves you. Or, even if a person has no rewards on their own merit, they may earn the rewards of others if they have been wronged by someone else, and that could affect your hereafter.

      Allah is so merciful, and none of us can know what He knows. Please take the time to read our article about suicide (the link is at the top of our main page). Trust that what Allah says is more true than the ideas and conclusions you have.

      -Amy
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  29. I want to die. And I have a reason. I am 34 yrs old and unmarried. People love me and leave me by saying that they don't want to marry because I am not slim. wtf I am honest and do everything for those bastards but I don't do any non Islamic act n be in my limits.
    Recently my fiancé left me and according to him I m not slim thatswhy he hates me. I have tried everything to get slim but I could not. What should I do? I hate my life. I love him and he hates me. I want to die. My family also doesn't care for me. All are married and busy in their lives. I m alone in a full of people house. I m always ignored and I don't know what I did to ALLAH that he is punishing so cruelly.

  30. I want to die any how plz I am orphan so don't give me lectures
    If anybody knows The dua post it
    i am commiting sucide within an hour or less

  31. I WANNA DIE .MY FAMILY IS VERY CRUEL. SOMEBODY KNOWS ANY SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEM SO PLEASE TELL.

    • Salaams,

      If you want to write in a separate post detailing your issues, you will get the most helpful feedback. If you truly are considering suicide we would publish it immediately. Not really knowing what is going on it's very difficult to advise you to a solution, but we do have an article about suicide on this site that may address some of the things you are feeling and thinking right now. In shaa Allah, take the time to read that and know there are many brothers and sisters who care about you and will help you if you tell us more about what's going on.

      -Amy
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  32. EY Allax give us patience 🙁

  33. Assalamualikum..

    I am into a very tough situation in my life..

    Basially I am from a very low middle class family,but am very good at studies.till few days ago my main goal was to full fill all my desires of parents and make them happy,since they struggled allot for my success.Past seven years I enjoyed my life allot though i had lot of financial problems.I just used to trust allah and used ask help from allah.Allah helped me in all ways and now I am very well settled in my dream MNC with a very good pay.

    But when I started my graduation a friend(male only) met me.We were very good friends.We both used to understand and help together without any ego.We were like I am everthing for him and he is everything for me and we were like we can't leave if we breakup.But one fine day my friend got married.Till the end of the day his marriage I never know that,how much I am loving him.But after marriage he started ignoring me and I just couldn't bare that.I planned for suicide but I had lot of family responsibilities.I wasn't able to forget him and he keep ignoring me.My parents again played a vital role in my life,may be if they were not with me i could died till now.They started looking for matches and they selected a girl and I got married within 2months.

    Frankly speaking am a very simple man and very religious too..But am not sure why Allah elected that kind of girl in my life.She is bit elder than me and she is completely opposite to me.She never follows hijab.She discuss all the things of our nights with her friends.She just looking for my money.She don't want my parents and all.I am trying to chage her,but I can't.There are lot of things to tell,i don't know how to tell.I never show her the attitude that I am husband and u r wife like that.She never thinking to grab my heart.I am really very sad with my wife.I even not getting interest to touch her.since am looking for a best friend am not just looking for her body.

    I am really not able to adjust with such girl and missing my friend like any thing..I can't sleep,can't eat...again my position is like earlier.I am so alone..I can't love my wife and I can't forget my friend.Tell me how should I live.

    • Salaams,

      1. Marrying this girl didn't happen without your involvment. You had a choice to go forward into marriage with her or not. If you married her without due consideration of whether she's truly compatible with you, that is something you have to take responsibility for. No one else is to blame for that, especially not Allah. If you're not happy, then be proactive and start trying to change it. Get counseling, have a family meeting, talk to her and see what can be solved...or if you must, divorce her.

      2. It's not natural for you to have these types of intense emotions about a close male friend just because he married. Yes there are adjustments and disappointments when our friend's lives and priorities change, but going into what appears to be a depression about it isn't typical or healthy. The only times I've seen something like this happen is when someone has/had homosexual feelings or attraction to their friend, but hasn't been able to accept it from themselves to begin working with those feelings or dealing with them appropriately. I don't know if that's the case for you, but I strongly advise you get counseling for this unhealthy reaction as soon as possible.

      -Amy
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  34. I have a serious issue. My ex boyfriend has leaked our pictures together in which he was kissing my cheek I come from a very strict family and those photos have circulated everywhere all my family and friends. I don't know how to stop him I have tried to confront him many times but he says that he will continue to do because I rejected him. I didn't reject him but I left him as my family wanted to. Now my respect in my friends and my family's respect in the society is zero. I have repented a lot for my mistake and asked Allah for help but that guy is continuing to do that. He is also telling people that I have committed all the sins only except zina. I want Allah to conceal my a in a however that guy has exposed everything. Please help me I want to die I posted this question earlier but it didn't get posted. I can't put my parents through this torture of being disrespected

  35. I wanna die am fed up with my life. So am planning to kill my self sonn

    • Hb, suicide will not solve your problems. Instead it will make things worse, because Allah's punishment is far worse than whatever you are experiencing in this life. Please read my article, Suicide in Islam.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  36. I want to love Allah as Allah loves me. Allah's decisions are always against my will. I put a lot of effort in single work with a lot of duas but it never works. I always remain behind according my desire and wishes or even I deserve. I thought I have a hard luck. Am becoming psycho. I try to offer prayer five times But sometimes I feel I dnt have stemina. If I pray for something n Allah didn't give me. Am fed up now. I know everything but it's not in my hand to tackle my situation.

    • Salaams,

      Maybe it would help if you looked at the way you're conceptualizing things- from what you wrote it appears you think that Allah is supposed to do things for you according to what you prefer. It's actually the other way around. Allah doesn't exist for us, but we exist for Him. When we find a way to submit to what HE likes for us and let go of our own nafsani wishes and goals, we can find peace and contentment no matter how bad it gets in shaa Allah.

      -Amy
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  37. Assalamo alaikum dear sisters and brothers.
    I'm really stressed and I'm feeling like my brain is going to burst out. I'm 18 years old and Im tortured all the time by my mohtarma ammi je. I just dnt know what to do some times I think of killing my self but that's haram. Plz somebody help me

  38. Oh Dear Allah s.w.t and beloved Nabi Sallahaho ali wa sallam,

    You saw, what's going on with my life in this Duniya. Duniya, which is made by and which is nothing for you. You gave me a life to live here.....but......what i did.......ruined it.......with lies.....hatered......backbiting.......cursing......unlimited sins........gossips and many other wrong things which YOU do not like it.

    I agree all my mistakes which i have done. I am a coward, untrusted, cunning and bad human. I dont have right to live the life which you have given to me. I tried my best to become good and of course i wish to that.......because I LOVE YOU ALLAH s.w.t and Rasool ( PBUH ).

    In detail, i will not write anything more.....because i strongly believe that you see everything and indeed knows everything.

    Oh Allah.......no human have right to take decision on my life........except you. I seek your approval.........as you said in various surah like Surah Baqrah.....Surah Yassen and others. That when you say something to be happened " then it is said by "YES", and that happened.

    Allah, i dont wanna give up this life but if things are like this then why should i live?.......its better you take this back........give my soul to someone who deserve to be true servant..........atleast i will not continue with more sins which ofcourse you dont like.

    All muslim brother and sisters wish like to go JANNAH. I cannot continue more Allah. Its enough what i have done and i know that if i survive like this then i will be first person among human race to put inside HELL FIRE.
    Really, i dont have right to live this life.........i agree all my mistakes.

    Allah s.w.t. I just wanted to say THANK YOU TO YOU. Thank you for this life.........now i will only wait for your mercy on me like you did on others.

    I dont want t live my life with pain and die with lots of sins inside me and stand infront of you with lots of shame.

    Allah, I am sorry for everything.....please forgive me........I LOVE YOU.

    Regards

    Muslim

  39. Ya allah please beg u help me am totally depressed i cnt liv i need to die but its haram n our islamic but i realy wanna die i lost everything ......

  40. I am really tired of life...

    • muhammad khan, I deleted the remainder of your comment. Please register and submit your question as a separate post and we will answer you in turn, Insha'Allah. Or search our archives as we have published many posts about lost love.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  41. asssalamalikum i dont want to commit suicide.please mei bht tension Mei hu agar koi mere madad krskte haito is nmbr pe msg kro please ye mera wats app no hai.mei poore tension share karunga.

  42. Thank you for sharing such a dua 🙂

  43. Salam

    I am really depressed and sad in my life and have suffered for o long, all I have done for people is cared for my loved ones from the bottom of my heart and it has all been thrown back in my face, I am grateful to Allah for everything they have given me , and always have had faith in Allah, but now I hvae really had enough as every1 I cared for has taken what they wanted and left and I feel so hurt and lost in genuine love and constantly have breakdowns.

    I can't relate to any1 or make friends in ,y situations and I'm lost in this wold and want to die.

    All I wanted was a true friend and didn't even get that - people look at me and compliment me and assume Im the type to go out and have fun or I have it all and no 1 knows how broken I am from inside and I can't even tell peope how lonely I feel which has affected my life ..:)

  44. assalamualaikum.i am T***, i dont want to live. i lost my father four years back, i have two elder brothers the second brother and my mom took my responsibility but my eldest brother want to kill me he does everything to hurt me he beats me he uses bad words for me, for four years i bared this but now i have lost interest in living. I know its haram to commit suicide i love my mom and my second brother. like every other girl i too want to have happy life but i dont think i will get it anymore. plz anyone give suggestions what should i do.... plz help i am realy fed up. my cell num is ***

    • T**, I removed your name and contact information. It's not a good idea to post that in public. I'm sorry to hear about your very difficult situation. I'd like you to submit your question as a separate post so that we can advise you properly Insha'Allah.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

    • T am here for you , you can call me No 1 helps or gives advice here they jus don't care no 1 has replied to me !

  45. I was feeling really sad for the past few weeks. I started getting these thoughts that maybe it better to be dead. So i was searching for dua to hasten my death. I found this site and after reading all the posts I feel so ashamed of myself. How could I be so weak and ungrateful? Allah gives me a few problems and I give up and say- "I quit"... I am so weak. I have so much to thank Allah for but I refused to see all that. How can I ask to hasten my death when I know I am not prepared for aakhirat..
    Thank you all for such positive answers. You all have opened my eyes. May Allah bless you all for your efforts.
    Allahumdullilah, Allahumdullilah, Allahumdullilah for EVERYTHING, even for the problems. Allahu Akber.

    • It Just hard that's all

    • Glad to read that you found a comforting reasoning of your issue. You can be a great deal of help to other going through same crisis either posting their thoughts on site like these or through support group you may are of become part off. Good luck!

  46. T you can contact me I'm here for you , cos no1 here cares to respond to my problems n help me!

  47. I am going to suicide tonight .....Bcz my fault is only that I m 15 and he is 41 (Bcz I lv him ) and I can't lv without him .........I just said to him that I lv u and want merry .....he said its impossible .........bye forever

    • Assalaamualaikam

      Sister, no man is worth committing suicide. You are young and have so much ahead of you. Rather than ending your life, speak to your mum or to a counsellor at your school - inshaAllah they will be able to help you put this situation in some perspective.

      A relationship between a 41 year old and a 15 year old would be very inappropriate in most countries in the world today, and could result in him going to prison and getting a criminal record. You need to discuss this situation with your mum, so that she can help you through this.

      Midnightmoon
      IslamicAnswers.com editor

  48. pls help, im in danger feeling suicidal, i am a muslim and 18 yrs old,i have lost my parents and have an own elder brother and a step father,i am slapped and belted 4 no reason sometimes by my own brother, he tortures me ,i cannot approach my relatives as they will take advantage of the stuation and would also get me married, due to this torture i lost my mother 2yrs ago and have nobody now, my mother was my strength, i cant find a solution and this is endless and unpredictable, after my mothers death allah has protected me but i have no strenth now ,ive gathered lot of courage to write this, am higly ambitious want to become adoctor, but becoz whats happening at home i cannot concentrate, i have no hopes pls helppppp , m sick. allah wil bless you ,,, plss help eithr i want to kill myself or kill him is there any wazifa????

    • seher, you have to get out of that household right away. Go to your mother's relatives if you can. I don't know what you mean that they will "take advantage of the situation", but it can't be worse than your current situation. And if they get you married, maybe that wouldn't be so bad. You could also consider going to stay with a friend, or staying in a shelter. You are legally an adult. You are free to leave if you choose. You might even be able to get a job and find your own place to live. The most important thing is that you get out and go someplace safe. May Allah aid you and guide you.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  49. thanks so much 4 the replly, but what if iam not allowed to go out of the house wael bhai, by the sentence "take advantage of situation" i meant my realatives always had aproblem with my mother as she was very much well off and had a good joj but none of my aunts have there own house or are working ,so the always have this attitude of being happy by seeing me in trouble,and whenever m at there home they talk somethig that hurts strongly, for aperson like me once m hurt its very difficult to be mentally stable again as m a very emotional person, it was my mom who used to calm me down, what do i do now??

  50. salamo alaikom
    my wife cheated on me
    i dont know what to do.....
    i will kill my self or i will kill the man?
    please help me,,,,,,

  51. Assalamu Alaikum,

    Since this post is so old I don't know if anyone will reply, but-

    Is it haram to want to die if the only reason is to want to see the Prophet (sws) and Jannah?
    I have been wondering for so long
    JazakAllah

    • Wa alaykum as-salam. How do you know that you will see the Prophet (sws) and Jannah? This life is your proving ground. This is your time to do good and worship Allah, so that you will be worthy of that honor on Yawm Al-Qiyamah. The Messenger of Allah (sws) was not someone who gave up. He had a mission in this life and he strived all his life to accomplish it, even in the face of hardship and loss. If you are one of his Ummah, then you also must not give up on this life. You must live a full life as he did, and struggle against your difficulties.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  52. AOA!
    Same this Here. I am having anxiety and depression. I couuldn't express by my word. It's complicated 4 me. My life is going worst. I have no Grievance from Almighty Allah. I dont want to sucide also. AllaH has Given us the life. It is Allah's property. I want relaxation and freedom from this World. Sugest ME any Dua 4 it. Jazakallah

  53. Taking your life is a sin, but God is most forgiving, unfortunately we put God in a tiny box and assume he'll just throw us in hell? well what about all the good someone may have done in their life, what if they truly loved God and couldn't bear living life anymore then NO ONE is in the position to say they will burn in hell for all eternity, just because (your) brain thinks differently and processes differently it does not mean it is the same for everyone else, not everyone is this strong...I lost my best friend last year, she was the kindest, sweetest girl anyone knew, never had a bad thing to say about any one and one day...shes gone, she couldn't take it anymore. Do I believe she'll never enter paradise? hell no! IF God is the most merciful and loving and forgiving then surely everyone's situation will be measured accordingly. Who ever feels suicidal and depressed I know the feeling, it sucks and when people tell you to just get over it and pray I guess you feel even more ostracized than normal. While I would not encourage suicide at any cost I cannot tell you the feeling will subside in one day. Healing takes time, I do believe it is feasible, though it does take months, even years of practice to accept your situation and start loving the little things in life again. When I lost my best friend I lost a part of me, but now it has been a year on and I do feel stronger and a little better, I do not have suicidal thoughts as much as I try and conceal these demons with dhikr and prayer.
    I hope if someone reads this it benefits them in some way at least..
    thanks and peace all

    • Salam everyone, I have suddenly had many health issues. I am only 26 but it is very depressing as even quran reading and sujood has become difficult. Please please make a dua for me that everything goes back 100% to normal. I love Allah and I am saddened that I can't enjoy long sujoods anymore. 🙁 I would do anything to go back to how I was 🙁

      • May Allah aid you and relieve you. Keep in mind that every illness and hardship brings barakah from Allah if we are patient. Allah understand that you cannot make sujood. He will not hold it against you.

        Wael
        IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  54. I think im mentally ill, I literally cannot control temper and nearly killed my own sibling, my parents disowned me, i dont speak to anyone, i have no friends, connection with my siblings is gone, i have nothing. Im 18 and so still live at home, Ive attempted auicide over 10 times. I always fail, Im crazy wallahi, what can i dooooooo?

    • Usman, I'm sorry to hear about your difficulty and unhappiness. Please register and submit your question as a separate post, and give us more information about your situation.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  55. i feel like i have given up on all worldly things.. i cant take it anymore but wait for death to approach me. i was about to get married but this man whenever an argument happens he says i depress him and i dont make him happy and all.. usually it small things and so i have decided to end this marriage proposals and forget marriage exist and i dont want to start over and feel this pain again.

    i thought maybe here i will find dua for dying quickly and leave this painful world and have done alot of mistakes in my life that i cant go back and change. i cry myself to just die sooner and leave this world.. just be in peace.. why is this world so painful... ?

    is there any dua i can read to have protection from this pain and be happy forever ..

    • The end of a relationship is always very painful, but it's no cause for despair or wanting to die. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.

      Dua to have protection from pain and be happy forever? No such dua exists, because pain is a part of life. It cannot be escaped. The good news is that happiness and pleasure are also part of this life. They key for you right now is to focus on the things that make you happy. Keep yourself busy with hobbies that you enjoy, prayer, time with your friends, a good book, etc. Be patient and trust that the pain you feel will lessen in time.

      Also, this page has some excellent duas that you can use. Keep them on your tongue and they will ease your heart: 25 Duas from the Quran

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  56. I'm only a kid 11 years and I hate my life I get bullied second by second and high school is very hard. I get upset because of very little things and for me life is very stressful please help me. Every single time I just feel like getting the knife out and killing myself but then I remember hell and what punishment Allah pbuh would say to me. I want to live life in peace bit it doesn't work for me. I believe that one day these things will eventually go from me but it still comes to me. Please help me Muslim brothers or sisters I want advise to keep strong so that suicide doesn't come up to my mind again or if you could write down the dua for safe wanted death that will help me too if I think I'm absolutely done with life. Thank you

  57. Say instead انما اشكو بثي و حزني الى الله innamaa ashkuu bath-thiiy wa huznii ilal-laah
    Never give up hope in the mercy of Allah and certainly never aspire to meet ArRahmaan as such.
    Say this dua and keep saying it until your heart no longer is in agony and there is no yearning in it for anything as much as it yearns for the love and pleasure of Allah.

    • Salam,

      I just want to add the English translation of the verse Amatullah recommends above:

      "innamaa ashkuu bath-thiiy wa huznii ilal-laah"

      "I complain to Allah Alone for my sorrow and grief”

      May Allah ease everyone's burdens.

      Nor

  58. Ya i want to die......so i want to ask u dat is there any dua specially for death......because most of the people wants me to see dead.

    • This question has been answered. Read all the answers given, starting from the beginning.

      It should not matter what most of the people want. Allah wants you to live, that's why you are still alive. Also, it's possible you are depressed. Depression medication might help.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

  59. I wanna die too. But wishing for death is hated by prophet Muhammad so after death, I do not want him (saw) to get angry on me. living longer is better because wanting to die indicates lack of patience, lack of perseverance. Every bits of pain you feel is rewarded. I have a blessed life of pain. Seek Allah's help. Remember, You never know what will happen after death. Try every options you have to live longer.

  60. i feel the same way. 30 in 2 months and utterly dead inside. a complete failure in every sense. i guess i have to just laugh at what ive been reduced to. all im going to do is go from one salah to the next and wait for death. in sha allah it comes very very soon. i dont like being in the dunya at all. if suicide was permitted that would have been my answer. but what can ya do? just gotta go on day after day until the clock hits zero. rubbish way to live but perhaps people like us were just not really meant to be in the dunya. my grandad died 2 weeks ago..he was 90.. i hope to God i dont even make it to 30.
    in sha allah though im confident Allah will take me soon. it doesnt make sense to me that i could be meant to live in this world with all these endless problems that have no solutions. it really does feel like a test and i think its gonna come to an end soon in sha Allah. I request your duas for a quick death this ramadan. I turn 30 on the 7th july which might be eid day..in sha Allah i dont live to see it. Ameen.

  61. Isa: i feel the same way. 30 in 2 months and utterly dead inside. a complete failure in every sense.

    Why do you think you are a complete failure?

  62. How can I post any question that I want to ask?

  63. I m gonna suicide because of my parents

  64. Dear All,
    It is full desperation for make dua for ones death, and any muslims who believes in Allah should remember that Allah can accept all duas , so why not to make dua to give you peace of mind , to save you from distress and to make you respectful in the eyes of your acquaintants.
    Best dua you can make is as taught by holy prophet ( Rabna AAtena Fijjuniay hasnatan wa filakhrate hasnatan , wakena azaabannar).

    Be hope ful and trust Allah.
    May Allah bless the best in life and hereafter to all muslim brothers & sisters,
    Abdul Rehman rathore from Pakistan

  65. Even I want to know is there any dua for asking death..please if so ..help..!!

  66. I want to kill myself I am 12 years old and I'm a Muslim and my name is zainab and I hate my life more than anything I need a dua on how to kill myself immediately I would be so grateful if anybody could give me a dua on how to kill myself jazaakullah

    • Assalaamualaikam

      Sister, even though life feels horrible at the moment, it won't always feel this way. What is it that's causing you to want to die? InshAllah we may be able to help you.

      Suicide is forbidden in Islam, so no matter how hard things get, don't give up. Trust that Allah will guide you through the dark times.

      Midnightmoon
      IslamicAnswers.com editor

  67. hi. any duas to make me happy i feel down right now.

  68. Asalamualaikum I.have the same feelings I pray Allah swt gives peace to your heart

  69. When lyf becomes hell ,..I feel nt to live.tday d worst day of ma lyf ..I jst want to leave this earth..pls help

    • U need to have patience. Easier said than done, I understand but remember Allah will never burden his slave with what he cannot carry. This might be a test for you so please don't let your shaytan give you ideas. Insha Allah you will succeed in this life and the Hereafter.

  70. Never had a peaceful family...

  71. I am in the same situation, i want to die so bad , but i am also afraid that if my sins are forgiven or not , i repent and i will become so pious. I will give all of you an advice. Repent, do a lot of good deeds, do this for a year , and wish for Allah that you want to die, but i dont ask of you to wish to die . Death is much harder, than it seems. You can make dua to the almighty god to solve your problems or you could talk with a therapist and the best of them is allah. And you could also move, or ask your parents to move and start fresh and new. And when your appointed time comes you will die. But i will tell you something, i promise you. There will be a time when everything has become quiet and solved or a person will enter your life that you will be afraid of death so much that you'd want a dua to stop death from coming to you. You have just have got to be patient . Verily, allah is with the patient.

  72. Assalamualaikum I have been married since two years.After marriage I am stuck up with lots of bad thoughts such as porn , wishing of death to each and all without any issue or reason simply at all using go die word for all whom I meet , talk and think about or hear voice of. More over also for my closest family and kin. I also have bad words such as porn, fuck and so as I am really rid of using and thinking such things from within any help from you would be appreciated.

    • Also I would like to know that what thoughts I am getting these negative thoughts is it normal or am I sinning ? But All I can say is that I do this unwantedly or without purpose

  73. Pranam and Salaam. I am a Hindu in love with a Muslim guy . It's been 3 years we were in a relationship and now he is getting married to another girl. I don't belong to his religion and I accepted to follow Islam. But he isn't interested in marrying me. All my dreams are shattered and I can't think of any other man in my life. Is it fine to hurt a person's feelings coz I don't belong to his religion inspite of me telling that I will follow Islam. Please pray for me I can't commit suicide coz it's prohibited in Sanathana Dharma (Hinduism) as well. Can I pray to get a natural death

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  75. Yesss....there is a way.... Pray tahajjud daily without sleep. Then u can die or allah give good life... Its simple

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