Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Duas to solve the family problems and to get the loved one as my husband

Young Muslim woman making dua

Assalamu alaikum warahmathullahi wabrakathuhu..

i am  21 year old muslim girl. i was in relationship with 22 year old muslim boy for the past two years. he is a very good guy as in he always used to give me advises to enrich my knowledge on islam. today we realise the extend of punishment of doing a haram like relationship. so we with great decided to stop contacts but and to we want to get married according to islam and to make our relation a halal one. but we have some diifrence in our family status as in my parents are not in good terms. because his parents wont be going to accept our relation if my parents are not in good terms or if get divorced. but he really likes me but also he want to marry me with no problems between the families and dont want to hurt his parents and also as per to islamic laws.

from the childhood itself i am suffering a lot from the family because of the only reason that my parents are not in good terms. as my father is not an easy person to handle with as my mother is struggling and adjustin in home.

i am in a critical situation in between my parents and the person i love.. the one i love is no doubt a very good person since he only want to get married to me in halal way so as i believe that he will be a good companion beause he always helps to raise the level of my iman. so i sincerely want to get married to him but at first my family problems should be solved.

please help me..feed me with duas to solve the family problems as in i really want to see my parents loved to eachother and i also want get to married to the person i love with no problems.

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  1. Assalaamualaykum Shirin,

    You can pray the Salat Al-Isikhara and make the Istikhara dua for this situation. In the dua, you will ask Allah that if it is in your best interests to marry the brother, to make it possible for you, to make it easy for you, and to bless you in it. If he is not able to marry you due to the family problems, Allah should ease these problems through your dua if it is truly in your best interests to marry him. You have then only to trust Allah and that He is guiding you to the best for you.

    Inshallah things will work out for the best.

    Hugs,

    Nor

  2. Dear Sister,

    Also, if you want to make a dua for your family problems alone, you can make a dua in your own language at any time or after any prayer. Allah knows what you are facing, and will answer your call in one way or another Inshallah.

    Best,

    Nor

  3. I cannot see option on profile submit for review and cannot publish my story plz help me to solve my problem. thanks

  4. may allah make easy fir you

  5. I am just a boy of 23years old...

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