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False death certificate and lies

My mother is the only and youngest daughter of her parents after 6 brothers.

My elder mama (lets say happy) passed away a few years back and my younger mama (lets say sad) created a false identity and made a passport on my elder mamas (happy) name, so now my younger mama (sad) is known as (happy on passport) he got settled abroad. My mother was not aware of this until a year passed after he settled. We did not have any issues what he did without informing us, but yes we felt bad as my elder mamas (real happy) wife is still alive and has kids out of which one is a special child, if she could go abroad and settle her life would be better and she would not have to survive on zakat, let alone her kids could have a better future. However after few years thats in 2014 we came to know my younger mamas (sad, now as happy) family is also shifting abroad, by now we knew they are going on my elder mamas (real happy) name as well.

My first question is, what does Islam say about this? My elder mamas wife is still alive and his kids too so is it ok what my younger mumani did? Eventually on papers she becomes (happy's wife) where younger mama (sad) becomes (happy) same for their kids.

However this was one situation there is something I would never accept they did I dislike them for it.

When the process off passport was going on they did not inform anyone anything at the last day when they were leaving abroad they handed over some papers which would help my other mama for his passport work, to his surprise he found something not expected, a false death certificate of my grandmother, stating she passed away in 2005, who was still alive and passed away recently in 2015. Another shocking act was a false certificate of my grandfather stating he passed away in 2005 as well, where as he passed away somewhere in 1970's in reality.

I had gone to meet them before they left abroad, that time I wasn't aware of this but even now I when I remember I saw not guilt on mama's face neither I saw that fear of such a huge risk she took and she wasn't travelling alone her kids were along.

What does Islam say about this? I feel it's really selfish and bad of them.

Another thing which I hate they did is they could have taken my elder mama's son easily along with them as their son but they said we tried a lot but it didn't happen, how it didn't happen when her kids not being real kids of my elder mama, their passport got done but not the real sons? There was a good age gap between all the kids so I don't think his passport would not be done, they gave a very lame excuse and they do not send any money for my elder mumani neither they are trying to get her sons abroad. Their attitude has changed completely after going abroad we hear from our relatives that they stopped talking to any and everyone.

Please guide I feel really bad for what they did. I wish to complain about them to the embassy and let them pay for what they did but at the end there wont be any difference between them and me and its not the correct way. I know Allah will give them the fruit of the seed they sowed.

naya9110


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  1. Sister ,

    What is the advantage he got after taking False identity of his elder brother who is no more ? Did he has some bad track record so that he could not get passport and visa ?

    Taking some one's identity and getting false passport is criminal act . Some one from your family needs to lodge a Police complaint against him .This is unacceptable both Islamically and also from any Law of Land .

  2. its their family matter not yours

  3. OP: Another thing which I hate they did is they could have taken my elder mama's son easily along with them as their son but they said we tried a lot but it didn't happen, how it didn't happen when her kids not being real kids of my elder mama, their passport got done but not the real sons?

    What kind of Visa your elder mama had? Which country the Visa was for?

    I think when one applies for Visa, she /he has to give details for their families.including kids and wife.
    I know this happens for US Visa.

    Your younger Mama may have used your elder mama's kids identfication to get Visa stamped. If that happend your elder mama's family will never be able to get any Visa for that country. If your elder mama's son applies for Visa, embassy may find out about the fraud and go after your younger mama.

    There is lot of fraud in immigration. Lot of immigrants who get Visa by fraud, usually also enjoy life on welfare and cash jobs.

  4. Assalaamualaikam

    I'm afraid I'm a bit confused as to who has done what, but if you believe that a crime has been committed and you wish to alert the authorities, then that is your legal right. If you are unsure what to do, it might help to discuss things with a lawyer, who should inshaAllah be able to give an expert opinion on the matter.

    Midnightmoon
    IslamicAnswers.com editor

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