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Fear from Marriage


Assalamu Alaikum.

My age is 26, I got engaged. I don't want to get married due to side effects of heavy masturbation. Now I am feeling guilty. It ruins my life, and suffering from erectile dysfunction and many other effects due to heavy masturbation. My penis is not erecting properly so that I cant satisfy my wife if I get married.

In my home my parents are looking for bride. But I can't say my problems to my family members. I have tension that may be I will not become a father :( and this tension ruins me everyday. I wanted to die...

Pls help me...


Your Brother.


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  1. Assalaamu Alaykum,

    Erectile dysfunction is not a result of masturbating. It's sounds like it's more likely a psychological effect of your guilt over masturbating. Erectile dysfunction in many cases has psychological roots.

    In any case, regardless of what caused it, it's easy to treat. Instead of writing off marriage altogether, talk to your doctor about some treatments that can help resolve the problem when you do marry. Maybe after some time of adjusting to your spouse and getting comfortable with your new sex life, you can wean off the medications and go naturally without any problems in shaa Allah.

    -Amy Editor

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