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Feeling like to get suicide

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I am a teenager who finds hard to control sexual feelings and stop masturbation. I am feeling really shame over this habit. I ask Allah to help me to control my sexual feelings and stop masturbation and I even asked Allahu subahanahuthalla to Capture my RooH (soul) if his will is that I may continue this habit and wouldn't be able to control my sexual feelings (فَيُضِلُّ اللَّهُ مَنْ يَشَاءُ وَيَهْدِي مَنْ يَشَاءُ “Then Allah misleads whom He wills and guides whom He wills.” [Ibrahim, 14:4]). I have even thought to do suicide so that I won't be no more in this world to do this shameful habit rather than living in this world committing the same sin. So is there any sort of specific duas to stop sexual feelings and masturbation? If so please say me those.


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  1. Salam Alekum

    Fasting helps stop that sinful habit, also read Quran open your Heart to Allah and say the following Thikrs

    Prophet Muhammad ﷺ would also say:
    Transliteration: Allahumma laa sahla illaa maa ja`altahu sahlan, wa anta taj`alul-hazna idhaa shi' ta sahlan.

    Translation: Oh Allah, there is nothing made easy except what you make easy, and you make the difficult easy, if you wish. (Ibn Hibban and Ibn As-Sunni)

    Sayyiduna Abdullah ibn Mas'ood (Radhiallaahu Anhu) narrated that whenever Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) used to be afflicted in any worry or concern, stressful trial, he used to recite the following supplication, 'Yaa Hayy Yaa Qayyoom birahmatika astagheeth.' (Mustadrak al-Haakim vol.1 pg.509; Shu'ubul Iemaan of Imaam Bayhaqi Hadith No.:10231) Also see Kitaabud Du'aa of Imaam Tabrani pg.47 and Majmauz zawaaid vol.10 pg.147

    A saying of Ahmad b. Taymiyya which his student Muhammad b. al-Qayyim (Allah have mercy on both of them) relates in two of his books: Madarij al-Salikin and Tariq al-Hijratayn, in which he says that reciting “Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum, la ilaha illa ant” every day 40 times after praying the Sunnah of Fajr and before the Fard “revives the heart” and “has an astonishing effect” respectively.

    Powerful Supplication for Trials, facing serious difficulties stress or afflicted in any worry or concern From the Secrets of Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum;
    This is a Hidden Qadiri-Noshahi Dua:

    Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum ba-haqqi La ilaha illa Anta, Subhanaka, inni kuntu minaz-zalimin.
    O Ever-Living, Oh Self-Existing for the sake of There is no deity but You. Glory be to You! Verily, I have been among the wrongdoers.

  2. Salam alikum bro,

    I know it's hard and painful to live with your sins hanging over your shoulders. You are not alone in this.

    You can get over it bro, just hang in there and keep trying to fight the Shaitan!


  3. Masturbation is not a sin. Almost all men at some stage of their life masturbate. It is sad to see how misinformation can even make people consider suicide for some thing that most men do and is considered normal

  4. Salaam brother,

    You are a teenager and it is normal for a teenager to have increased sexual feelings in this age because of his hormones.

    It is a sin to masturbate but it is even a bigger sin to do suicide.

    The habit of masturbation you can over come in a few years time. But the sin of suicide you will have to suffer your eternal life. Suicide is many many times worse than masturbation. So you have to decide which of the two evils you choose. Suicide is Haraam.

    Many young and old muslims in todays world have the problem of masturbation. So you are not alone in this.

    I suggest you keep making Istighfar everyday. And Inshallah you will overcome the problem of masturbation. If you commit any sin in this world you can ask forgiveness from Allah sincerely and He will forgive you, But in the case of suicide you are not alive to seek forgiveness. You will go straight to hell.

    Watch the youtube video about sin titled " From Addiction and Sin to devotion within - by Shaykh Hasan Ali ", in that video he gives some good tips about how to overcome these problems.

    May Allah give you the strength to avoid suicide.

  5. this website is the best for intimacy, sex, sexual relations, masturbation, boobs questions, penis sizes but when i asked a simple question related to islam quoting the ayat of Quran not even the admin was there to answer so i had to search it on google. it was emergency i guess your website should be named as sexual

    • I'm sorry that no one was able to answer your question on the same day, but that's not how this website works. We're not Fed Ex. We don't guarantee same-day service.

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  6. Assalamaliykum to all.

    No one replyed like me. i have solution 1) fasting 2) do oppose our mind. If you in winter, take cold water for wuju. 3) biggest thing y do is La ilaha illalah 500 times, astagfar 500 times after fajar and asar. Surely your mind is washed. Pure, clean like innosent child. I am well educated and well studed of Islam and i also do this jikar when i was dipressed by minds thoughts. Duva/ pray for me.
    Samir from India.

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