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Female Wet Dreams Every Two Days

Worried women

Assalam alaykum. I am a 35 year old married woman.  For 10 years I have had wet dreams almost every two days.  Please help and advise me, as my marriage depends on it.  Thanks.

~ Mariama77


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  1. Salaams,

    It is very difficult to advise you based on the limited information you've given. For most females, having a "wet dream" simply means that while aroused by a dream you had an orgasmic response in your sleep. All females are different, so that response may or may not include varying amounts of vaginal discharge. Usually, the amount of discharge or having the orgasmic response in and of itself is not a cause for concern, even if it is occuring on a frequent or regular basis.

    Often, when women (or even men) are having "wet dreams" more often than normal it indicates that there is a lack of sexual satisfaction or opportunities in waking life. The obvious question would be whether you feel you are getting enough stimulation during time spent with your spouse, and are these times occuring reasonably enough? If you are enjoying a fulfilling and active sex life with your husband, and you are still feeling physically unsatisfied, it may be that you need to explore the reason for this with a behavioral therapist as well as with your gynecologist. It would be adviseable for your husband to be included in these consultations.

    If your "wet dreams" are in fact something other than I've described, such as waking with significantly saturated bedsheets and night clothes (with or without an accompanying arousing dream), then this may be something altogether different- such as nocturnal enuresis. This is a medical condition that is treatable with lifestyle modifications and cognitive therapy. Sometimes medications are needed to help, but the problem is still easily resolved.

    I am not sure what you mean when you say that your "marriage depends on it" regarding this problem being resolved. Most men would be more than obliged to help with any details that would make his wife more sexually satisfied (if that's the issue). If there is more to it that would help us be able to give more comprehensive feedback, please let us know in a follow up post.

    -Amy
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor

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