My Girlfriend wants to become pious
Assalamu-ailaikum,
My girlfriend wants to be a pious-woman but she doesn't know how to be so. I told her "In every success whatever it like small or big give thanks to Omnipoten ALLAH. Thus a afflivity will be form in your heart adventitiously."
But I want more suggestions to implement her wants succesfully. Please help.
~ Nafisul123
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As salam aly kum
very nice to here your girl friend want to be piouse plz remind her few verses from holy quran
Allah says in quran
Reward for righteousness: "Whoever works righteousness, man or woman, and has faith, verily, to them will We give a new Life, a life that is good and pure, and We will bestow on such their reward according to the best of their actions." Chapter 16, Verse 97
1) Allah says in quran
Indeed whosoever purifies himself shall achieve success. Chapter no 87 name Al-'A`lá (The Most High) Verses no 14
2) Allah says in quran
Success is for those who refrain from deviating base desires: "But as far as he who feared to stand before his Lord and restrained his soul from lust – lo! The garden will be his home." (79:40-41)
Allah says in quran
3) “Successful indeed are the believers. Those who offer their Salât (prayers) with all solemnity and full submissiveness. And those who turn away from Al-Laghw (dirty, false, evil vain talk, falsehood, and all that Allâh has forbidden).”
ALLAH swt says in Quran: 23: 1-3
4) ALLAH Says In Quran “But For Him Who Restrained Himself From Impure Evil Desires And Lust. Verily Paradise Will Be His Abode.” (Chapter.An Naziaat (79 Verses no 40)
5) Verily! The pious will be in place of Security (Paradise).Within gardens and springs,Dressed in fine silk, facing each other, And We shall wed them unto fair ones with wide, lovely eyes.They will call therein for every kind of fruit in peace and security;They will not taste death therein except the first death, and He will have protected them from the punishment of HellfireAs a Bounty from your Lord,That will be the supreme success. Quran c44 .(v51-57)
6) Allaah Says In Quraan “And whoever fears Allah – He will make for him a way out. And will provide for him from where he does not expect. [at-Talaq 65:3-4]
7) Allah (swt) says in Quran : As for those who believe and do right actions, We will erase their bad actions and recompense them for the best of what they did. (Surat al-Ankabut, 7)
8) Allah (swt) says in Quran : He responds to those who believe and do right actions, and gives them increase from His favor.
As Salamualaikum,
Brother Nafisul123, the first thing your girlfriend should do to become pious is to cut all contact with you and concentrate on her Deen, praying to Allah, Worshipping Him Alone.
The only thing you should do is give her the link to this post, so that she reads the advises here and takes decision.
Next, I recommend her to read books on how to improve Khushoo in Salah, and work on improving her relationship with Allah through Salah. She can find the book by Shaikh Saalih al Munajjid on this subject on this page:
kalamullah.com/salih-al-munajjid.html
When you give her the link to this post, if she requires anything else, let her comment, and insha Allah, she will find an answer.
My advise to you, brother, is that you yourself cut all contact with her and come out of this Haraam relationship, and concentrate on improving your Taqwa.
But yes, you could both work together on your Taqwa in a Halal way, by getting married. So, if you intend this, approach her Wali and ask for her in Marriage.
I hope it works.
Wassalamualaikum
Muhammad Waseem
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Asalam waliykum.
if you care for you sister in Islam and respect her... do you? Then let her go? Would you like it that a man had a relationship with your daugther? your sister? your mother? No.
respect women. Let them be alone do nto harrase them and have relationships with them. Its forbidden to.
So first thing let her go to be alone with Allah. Let her love Allah and herself.
When she is ready for marriage her family will help her get married.
You should also do the same cut all ties and learn about Allah and his beautiful way of life for us. If you read you will find relationships of anykind outside of wedlock with opposite sex is forbidden in every situation.
If she is not closely related then you should not be alone with her or near her. Even cousins and inlaws sister inlaw for example.
Allow her to befriend other sisters, let her make good freinds with sisters. She doesnt need a haram relationship it will only ruin her relationship with Allah and ruin her future.