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He became Muslim for me but I feel we shouldn’t get married

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Assalamwakam
Brother my question is he became Muslim for me because i said i can't marry non muslim but there are things i see is not going right and i feel we should not go for marriage but my innerself is not letting me that ALLAH will not forgive me that i convert him and if i leave he is ganna leave islam so i will be sinfull for that..plz help me i am very stressed.

Halima

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  1. Salam Halima,

    I recommend that you not think that you converted him. Allah says:
    http://legacy.quran.com/28/56
    Sahih International
    Indeed, [O Muhammad], you do not guide whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills. And He is most knowing of the [rightly] guided.

    If he is meant to be guided then he will remain muslim regardless of whether you marry him or not.

    As for the marriage, that is up to you as to whether or not you can run a marriage with him. If you feel that you cannot, you should tell him that even though originally you felt a marriage was not possible due to religion. Now that you know more about him you feel there are other factors that prevent a good marriage with him. And that you really appreciate that he would go this far to marry you, but you feel you cannot fulfill his rights as his wife.

  2. Sister You will not sinful for this if he leave Islam. Its Not your mistake and please do not marry him. May be he accepted Islam for marriage with you and after marriage he leave Islam than what will you do ?? Some
    NonMuslim boy do that For marriage they accept Islam and after marriage he revert his own old religion and do force on muslim girl that she accept his religion own religion this way the Muslim girl become a Mushrik and leave Islam. Many cases happened of this type.So Please do not marry him "The Quran Says Do Not Marry With Nonmuslim"

    If You do Shirk And Qufr Allah Will never forgive you.

  3. Sister Please search on youtube "Every night i was just a toy for him" you will see the video of BBC. Click video and see videos

  4. If we do shirk and Qufar ALLAH will never forgive us. If we die with Shirk and Qufar. ALLAH will forgive us when we will ask forgiveness alive. After die nothing is happen

  5. OP: Brother my question is he became Muslim for me because i said i can't marry non muslim ............but there are things i see is not going right and i feel we should not go for marriage but my inner-self is not letting me that ALLAH will not forgive me that i convert him and if i leave he is ganna leave islam so i will be sinfull for that..plz help me i am very stressed.

    Is your family willing to accept him? What is the real reason you don't want to marry him?

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