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How can I remove the bad dua on my family?

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Asalaamualaykum,

I have been facing financial issues since 2010. We are 4 family members. We all earn a good amount, but every time we get paid, something bad happens right before and we sink into more and more debt.

We don’t have any barakah in our home. All 4 of us have some health issues which doctors can’t diagnose. My kids are very bright in studies but they both are stuck in middle.

Last year someone told me that there is a bad dua on me and my family. Please help guide me on how to get rid of it!

Noshaba

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  1. OP: We don’t have any barakah in our home. All 4 of us have some health issues which doctors can’t diagnose. My kids are very bright in studies but they both are stuck in middle.

    Last year someone told me that there is a bad dua on me and my family. Please help guide me on how to get rid of it!

    Who is that some one that told you that you have a bad dua on you and your family. What qualification they have to tell you that? Some one else may tell you some thing different..

    You all have good jobs, you make good money, in spite of that bad dua. You have bright kids.
    There are be psychological problems or functional problems due to psychological problems.

    Have doctors told you are depressed or anxious? Do you all have same medical issues or every one has a different issue?

    Have you heard about hypochondria a condition where normal people think they are sick?

  2. I personally don't believe in the power of black magic, negative dua and evil eyes. I believe in choices and consequences, and I believe that our own outlook and attitude towards life have a deep impact on how our lives turn out.

    You say you can't understand why - with four of you in the household earning a salary - you keep ending up "in debt again". What do you mean AGAIN? These two words put together - DEBT and AGAIN - tells me that it's not about you and your family being victims of bad dua as much as it might be about you making terrible financial choices. I.e spending more than you earn + take on debts you cannot pay off. Even the richest man on Earth would say his money aren't enough if he spends more than he earns and borrows money from people that he can't pay back. Please look into your finances and see where you can make some changes in order to have more money at your disposal + to get out of the debts you have taken on. Maybe you can't really afford the house you live in, so move to a smaller house or to a less expensive area to save money. Maybe you can't afford the cars you have - so maybe downgrade there as well. It seems very off to me that a family of four working adults with good salaries should struggle financially, unless they - as mention - live beyond their means. Please adopt a "if I can't afford it, I won't get it" attitude. Because getting into debt can be a never-ending cycle. When you take on debts, you're not just paying fback the money you have borrowed, you also pay supremely high interests on top of it, too. Which is what I suspect is happening to you: With all the interests of the debts you take on, you just can't keep up with paying them back.

    In regards to health issues, we actually do have a lot of power over our own health. How's your lifestyle? Diet is probably the primary health indicator...both in terms of mental and physical health. Please make sure to adopt a healthy diet to improve your health. Science has shown that the healthiest way to eat is animal-based. So something like the carnivore, keto or Atkins diet can be a massive help in improving your health. Stay away from something like veganism, plant oils, sugars and whatnot.

    As for your children's education...lots of things can be demotivating to children. If they grow up in a household with problems, stress, fights and whatnot...that WILL affect them in school, bright or not bright. What's causing your children to not excel in school? Have you talked to your children, or even to their teachers? What are you actively doing to get to the bottom of your children's education problem?

    You seem so defeated and passive, if I'm honest...please take a serious look at your life and gain some perspective and control of it. What CAN you do about it? What CAN you change? As soon as you have analysed and dissected your own life, it's much easier to come up with an actual plan of action.

  3. Assalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatu.

    It could well be due to your sins and taqwa is the way out. In Holy Quran, Allah Almighty says: “And whoever fears Allah, He will make for him ease in his matter.” (Quran, 65:4). Whoever has Taqwa, Allah makes matters easy for him in this world as well as the hereafter.

    Allah says in Holy Quran about those who are facing problems in a verse that: “And whoever fears Allah, He will make for him a way out.” (Quran, 65:2). People who are facing difficulties but still remain steadfast in their faith for the sake of Allah then He (SWT) will surely make a way for them to get rid off of these problems. Taqwa serves as a divine guard against trials of this world as well as the difficulties of the hereafter.

    Almighty Allah is the creator and sustainer of the universe. Whatever a person requires and desires of sustenance can be found in His vast treasures. In Holy Quran Allah says: “And if the people of the towns believed and had Taqwa, certainly We should have opened for them blessings from the heavens and the earth.” (Quran, 7:96)
    Salvation from the Fire: Allah says that: “Then We will save the ones who had taqwa“(Quran, 19:72). Allah will save the Muttaqin from hellfire so try to do righteous deeds. Be piety and get rewards from Allah Almighty.

    Success from Taqwa: Allah Almighty says in Holy Quran: “Have taqwa of Allah in order that you might succeed” (Quran, 3:200). Anyone who wants to get succeed in this life and the hereafter has to do righteous deeds for the pleasure of Almighty Allah. Taqwa is also to do righteous deeds for fear of Allah Almighty.

    Tranquility: Allah says in Holy Quran: “It is He (Allah) who sent down tranquility into the hearts of the believers.” (Quran, 48:4). People who want calmness and tranquility should do taqwa that means fear of Allah Almighty in result they became piety. When they become piety they feel calmness and tranquility in their hearts as Allah mentioned in Quran.

  4. Too many unexplanation things are happening with you and your family. Seek a qualified person (does it sunnah way) that can do ruqaya at your house. Seems like people’s evil eye have kept your lives at halt. Be careful who your friends are. Don’t share things that they don’t need to know. People may seem nice in the outside but deep inside they can be jealous. So be vigilant. My family and I are facing blockages in our lives (preventing us from becoming establish in life- job and marriage). I never believed in these nazar hasad things before. It does exists I have been seeing how people’s admiration of my life brought me downhill all of a sudden.

    Evil Eye Exists
    “An incident which is narrated from the time of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ saw Quraish ask some people who were known to give the evil eye to another person which could cause illness, death or some other effect to put it on the Prophet ﷺ. However, Allah (SWT) protected the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ from those who were intent on destroying him with Ayn”

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