My husband has left home and I suspect my sister-in-law has done black magic.
Hi,
My husband left home about 4 months ago, it was just a silly arguments which led to bigger ones. I have told that; he has black magic done on him. I asked few people and they all said the same. He has moved to his brother house and the person who I suspect has a part in all this is his sister-in-law where he is staying. I was told that he was fed these when he went abroad recently.
I hope that you could give me some advice on this or tell me some duas that could help me get him back home to his kids.
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As salamu alaykum, Sister Debs,
Thank you for sharing and trusting us, Allah(swt) open the ways, we close them through our words and acts, many times we are not conscious of that but when we open the eyes, we realize that all the good comes from Allah(swt) and all the bad comes from us, we can blame on others but at the end, the others are just helping us to work on something we are avoiding to see then we should thank their presence and the test we are going through to be our best, only submiting to AllaH(swt) without doubts, the ways will open again, insha´Allah.
I don´t know what is the best for all of you, only Allah(swt) knows, but I believe the best for you right now, it is to focus on your relationship to Allah(swt), if you make your vibration higher, you will see everything around different. You won´t blame your sister in law, she can be doing wrong but the only One that knows is Allah(swt) and she will have to answer in front of Him, when your Imaan is strong, you will see this. You will live day by day, being your best completely surrendered to Allah(swt) then you will say to your children when they ask you for their dad, he will come back the day Allah(swt) wants him to come back, the doors of his home and the arms of his family are opened to him, Alhamdulillah, Insha´Allah he will come when he solve the situation he is in.
If your husband is blind towards your goodness, Allah(swt) will open his eyes when all of you are ready for it, then sister forget about your inlaw and focus on the well being of your children and yourself, connecting all of you directly to Allah(swt) through prayers. Your salat on time, dua from Heart (you have a link on top of the page on dua), repent and ask for forgiveness for what you did consciously and unconsciously, for what you are doing and for you will do, and ask for the capability to forgive what others did, are doing and will do, this will create the right atmosphere to receive your husband at home, insha´Allah.
If you have the opportunity, go full of humility in your Heart and ask him for forgiveness, don´t mention others, just your children and yourself and explain to him how much all of you love and miss him, ask him what he thinks it must be improved, what he expects from you, and if he says this is too difficult ask him to try marriage counselling to learn tools to have a better quality relationship, to learn to listen to each other, to learn to accept the other, to learn to commit to achieve goals together as a family, .... Let him know you love him, you accept him, you respect him, but never forget you have to receive a respectful response too. If he is not ready, give him time and continue your duties as muslimah to Allah(swt), keep on reinforcing your bond to Allah(swt), but I hope and expect, his Heart will be touched by your Heart, insha´Allah.
Once he is back, insha´Allah, keep your duties and thank Allah(swt) more than before, remember, try not to fight, cool down and look for refuge on Allah(swt), negativity fades away when the Heart of people has love, respect compassion, mercy.
All my Unconditional Love, Respect and Support,
María
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
Assalamu alaykum Sister,
No black magic. A mere magician can cause doubts, physical harms by his actions, but there is nothing divine he can do. Do you understand? He has no knowledge of Ghaib or Unsee.
Magicians only fool people.
So until Allah wills, no magician can cause any harm to you or to anyone else.
Allah has control over all things - qulli shay in qadiir.
17. If Allah touch thee with affliction, there is none that can relieve therefrom save Him, and if He touch thee with good fortune (there is none that can impair it); for He is Able to do all things.
18. He is the Omnipotent over His slaves, and He is the Wise, the Knower. - Surah Al An'am.
Try to get a good person from both sides involved to talk to him and you and settle the matter.
Try to be a good wife and leave the rest to Allah.
If after being good and trying hard to save marriage it does not work, take divorce and Insha Allah hope better to come from Allah.
Salaam,
Your brother.
I am not sure magicians trick people in all cases. Is there not a famous story of a sorceress putting magic on Prophet Muhammed SAW? I think it is a message to not mess with these things/take them seirously as they even made our Prophet sick!