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She thinks her husband is cheating on her

why dont you love me

salaams,

what should 1 do, when she feels her husband is cheating on her and he would never ever change?

~ zahram


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  1. Sister, there is a colossal difference between ''feeling'' and ''knowing'' - - - please provide more details such that we may aptly advise.
    Do you have proof of your husband's ''cheating''? And in which way he has done this? It is difficult to assess your circumstances from a single sentence, dear.

  2. Salam'alaykum,

    Unless she has solid proofs/evidences, she should not 'feel' or 'think' that her husband is cheating on her because this is called 'suspicion' and it is one of the worst sin in Islam and falsely accusing a spouse of lewdness requires hadd punishment of 80 lashes. 'Feeling' or 'thinking' that her husband is cheating is very unhealthy and will corupt the atmosphere of the family.

    Allah said, "O ye who believe! Avoid suspicion as much (as possible): for suspicion in some cases is a sin: And spy not on each other behind their backs. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? Nay, ye would abhor it...But fear Allah: For Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful. (Quran 49:12)

    Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said,"Beware of Suspicion (about others), as Suspicion is the worst false talks, and do not spy upon each other, and do not listen to the evil talk of the people about others' affairs.." (Bukhari)

    Therefore, tell her to be at peace and put full trust in Allah for He will guide her if anything bad is happening.

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