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Divorce.

Asalam o alikum , I am a married woman and have 3 kids but i dont want to live with my husband any more. please help me and suggest me what i should do as i dont like my husband any more and i want khula.

my family is not supporting me in this. they want to punish me if i go for khula because it will ruin their reputation.

-wish


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  1. If u are not happy with your husband.then u may also ignore him.and do what for your pleasure but don't divorce or khulla to save your safe side. And don't imagine about him. If u need peace ur mind u can forget him.God has giffted I three kids and care them. For feeding the u can do a job and ask help from me finnancial.Ok take care. Ucan write me at ***. take care again

  2. Sister wallahi life is so short, please do not stay if you're not happy. I get where your family is coming from and you also have kids involved too, but at the end of the day, you matter and so does your happiness. You have to do what's best for you. My parents were like you too, my mom was often scared how ppl would view her if she left but people will always talk regardless. Do what's best for you inshallah. Ramadan Mubarak too

    • I agree, if you are unhappy and I'm saying this from my own experience and I have 4 kids. You need to ensure not to look to people for support or worry what people say. Take advice from an Islamic organisation s you need to see what it is that's making you unhappy with him and if it can be fixed fix it if not and you feel like you are losing yourself leave as you will be the only one miserable in the end. إنشاءالله may
      اللَّهُ سبحانه وتعالى make it easy on you.

  3. When companions came to Anas Ibn Malik (r.a) complaining arrogant rule of Hajja Ibn Yusuf post the ruling of 4 khalifa, asking what they should do when Hajjaj was killing the companions being an islamic rule. The answer was simple, the khadhim of prophet told them to Persevere (swabr).

    I am not asking you to persevere sister but to enlighten myself and you that perseverance is no more an option to the believers. Allahs talks about the sabr in quran, he loves that sabr (Fasbir sabran jameela) which is beautiful sabr. Hence, your sabr can be a reason to forgive your sins and put you in Jannah. Choice is yours sister. But one condition as long as you dont mean your choice. If you are not happy with your choice to make sabr, then leave him sister. In simple, do whatever but do it for the sake of Allah.

    Sister when it cost millions for this worldly luxuries, never underestimate the price of Jannath. May Allah give us jannah.

    Pray for me sister

  4. It's your choice u know best....but make sure your doing the right thing......If you guys are not praying and reading quran then what do you expect? You think life is going to be easy ...when Allah is the controller of everything .....Those who are disobedient will live hard life full of stress worries and problems ...this is fact..

  5. Pls do not do this live with your husband

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