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I can’t forget him

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I'm in love with a boy from the last 5-6 years the feeling is mutual. But we are not in a relationship. The problem is whenever I try to forget him I see him in my dreams. It is happening from the last 3-4 years. There is also been a time when we were not able to talk to each other and that lasted for almost more than a year. During that time I did Istikhara too regarding I leave him or not. And every single time either the answer is no or I simply don't get an answer. Even now whenever I try to end anything because of his ignorance I dream of him.And I don't know what should I do. Please help


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  1. If you both love each other, what's keeping you from getting married?

  2. Negative dreams of your partner isn't good at all. I have been in a relationship for 2 years and for the last year I had dreams where he meet my parents and they didn't like him. or me seeing bad stuff about him in my dreams we broke up and that's why it didn't work out. So this what you getting are signals . Find someone to replace him please which I mean in Halal way . Marry someone good for you not someone you love

  3. Your post is confusing. You state you are in love with someone, the feeling is mutual, but you are not in a relationship.

    It might be better to completely end all contact with this person. You state you are not in a relationship. So that might be easy to end the relationship that you are not in. If you mean you are not sexually active, that is another situation all together. Either way, I think you should end whatever relationship you have. There seems to be more going on that you have revealed. It may be best that none of us even know the details. If you are in love with someone for 4 or 5 years and they know it and don't bother to make some kind of plan to marry you, you should move on. If they are out of your life it is easy for them to get out of your head, to have a good night's sleep without them entering your dreams.

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