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I got intimate piercings and regret it!

Hijabi woman with veil drawn over her face, half face

I hate myself so much for doing this and I regret everything. I am currently 21 years old and I did this a couple months back. I met this girl at work and we clicked right away. We started hanging out a lot. Everytime we went out I pushed our religion to the side because for some reason I had this urge to impress her and show off. She wanted to get her nipples pierced and I started thinking about it nd started wanting to get them done. I started telling my co-workers about it to show off and impress them. Me and her went to get them done a couple weeks later. At that time I started feeling regret already and was trying to say no but in the end I ended up doing it. This is the part that I will never forgive myself for and the more I think about it the more I hate myself. I got my piercings done by a man. I kept my head scarf on but he saw my chest area uncovered. I went home and cried and took them out a few hours later. I have since left that job and stopped talking to that girl. I hate myself so much for this. What should I do? I want to go to Jannah one day Inshallah but I don't know how Allah (swt) can forgive me for this.

Lana123

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  1. Salaam sister
    Repent sincerely and wholeheartedly to Allah.
    May Allah shower his mercy and forgiveness towards you. Ameen

  2. Salaam alaikum. Don't be a drama queen. You are human and inherently made to sin. Return to Allah thru asking for forgiveness and salaat. Make that your focus if you really have any regret of what you did.

  3. Young people do all kinds of crazy things. (So do older people.) But that is a part of growing up and being human. You can realize some things you did were totally wrong, inappropriate and maybe even haraam. And then you can do taubah, avoid questionable behavior and conduct. That is the good part. You do things that are wrong and acknowledge your misdeeds. Many people make excuses or worse may never admit their big mistakes.

    Remove your piercings. Keep company with respectable people. Increase your good deeds. Allah has said all we have to do is ask Him for forgiveness and beg him to keep us close to Him and His believers.

  4. You had a head scarf on? Wow
    I’m sorry this is exactly why I don’t wear it, and disrespect it.

    • Its again the whipser of shaytan that you are adhering. Indeed she committed the most hateful and disrespectful act, that tatto guy will go in his circles and say girls wearing scarf have nipple piercings and what not and they portray themselves as modest bla bla. However, thats not the justification to not wear a hijab( scarf is not hijab) , assume a simili of driving license, if someone is a bad driver does it mean u wont have a driving license?

  5. Sure I get that you've committed a grave sin but don't start thinking I'm human and its absolutely okay to commit sins and everyone commits sins cuz we're designed that way. You need to acknowledge your sins and feel great regret and seek Allah's forgiveness. You need to increase and intensify your worship. Wake up at night for tahajjud and seek Allah's forgiveness, cry to Him if you can. Perform fasts and don't hang out with non-muslims as clearly they are a bad influence on you. Isolate yourself from every possible sin, seek Allah's forgiveness whenever you remember your sin. Try to remember Him more, be more grateful and repentant. Perform all 5 prayers on time. Lastly, have faith in Allah. It may take years for Allah to forgive you, but don't give up and lose hope in ever being forgiven. ❤ Allah's mercy encompasses all things, and don't for even once think your sin is greater than Allah's mercy. He is The Most Loving, Perfect Being there could be, and it is clear He loves you because He has not taken away the shame from you, He has not taken your ability to repent and feel remorse and verily, the tears of a sinner are more beloved to Allah than the arrogance of a righteous man. Insha Allah He will forgive you soon, make a lot of efforts to make it up to Him ❤ but don't over-exert yourself, it may distance you from Allah. Remember, he hates your sins, not you. Assalam O Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa baraqatuh.

    • Allahumma barik for your advice, i think the sister should get married asap, i live alone in uk for nearly 5 years. I , literally dont have friends even whilst i was studying. Because its better to be alone and strive then have friends who guides towards vice and if u dont agree they call u antisocial.

      We need to cut social media well. Before we go to bed, and stop idealising west, that has destroyed the muslim empires . Hasbunnalh wanaymal wakeel.

      • Nabeel: Allahumma barik for your advice, i think the sister should get married asap, i live alone in uk for nearly 5 years. I , literally dont have friends even whilst i was studying. Because its better to be alone and strive then have friends who guides towards vice and if u dont agree they call u antisocial.

        Do you mean you don't have any friend because every one around you is a bad person? No one can force an adult person to become a bad person.

  6. Hi! I actally read yur post... and i just wanna know if yu feel better now ? We all do mistakes and do not worry about it.

  7. Repent to your Lord. Allah is all forgiving and we all sin. Dont repeat the sin, increase in good deeds & increase in worship. May Allah forgive you and grant you paradise. Ameen

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