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I need an authentic wazifa or dua for love marriage

aoa all,

I am a 21 year old girl. I met a guy online 2 years back. We were just friends and nothing more. we used to chat. we never met in person. My mother and my elder brother knew it and then somehow things ended because my mother thought that it's not right to talk to an unknown person despite of he being my friend only.

I respected her decision and ended all.

few months back he contacted me again. and now, with a proposal. He confessed of liking me first and then wanted to talk to my mom to come to my house with his family.

I've been in his friendship past 2 years back. I know him. He's a really nice guy. He even said that he doesn't want to chat with me anymore and all he wants is a legal relationship and is ready to take my responsibility too. MashaALLAH he does job and is well settled.

Again to mention, I havent met him in person yet.

I like him too. He's a really nice and religious guy. He never crossed his limits in chat also. All I am afraid of is whether my parents will agree or not. He and his family is ready. But what about mine? 🙁 I like him a lot. He had been a great friend and I am sure he's gonna be a really loving husband too.

Please tell me some dua or wazifa to recite so that my parents get agreed for this online met guy 🙁 this is the only draw back... rest all is positive of his proposal 🙁

plz plz plz help me out. I am hell tensed.

Thanks, namal.

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20 Responses »

  1. I don't think there exist anything like specific wazifa .
    Best way to dua for any thing is to say to Allah ,, ALLAH IF THIS THING IS BEST FOR ME THEN MAKE IT MY DESTINATION . recite darood in the beginning and end of dua.

    From your post it appears if he is according to standards your parents have for son in law, they will accept him.
    So many marriages happen via internet and online sources . Gl

  2. Sister, you cannot conclude from digital communications like "chat" that this is a "nice and religious guy". This is the person who will protect you and be the father of your children, and you are drawing conclusions about his character, personality and suitability due to a series of electronic communications you've had with him.

    Had he ever suggested that he come to your home with his parents to meet you and your family??? If not, why not?

    If your mother needed medical attention, would you take her to a hospital or communicate with a doctor via online chat?

    When your child is old enough to go to school, will your child obtain her education via digital communications with the teacher, or will she go to a school, interact with the teacher, speak with her classmates, bring homework home to,show to you, etc?

    If the answers to the above questions are "no", then why would you determine the suitability of a husband via online chat? Marriage is a serious institution in Islam.

    • Mashallah amazing answer.what a logical questions?I really like it.Convincing.

    • hes ready to bring his parents to my house. all iam afraid of wheather my parents will agree or not. and the chances for their agreeing are very very very low. this is stressing me 🙁

  3. Sister, becarefull remember u said through chatting.

  4. i'm agreed with all. be carful sister, there are many ways of deception

  5. Malika but we cant pray for whole 42 days because of what should one do?

    • These things are not from the sunnah we can't get our wishes to come true by reading something a certain number of times. Ayats and duas are not spells that we read. The best thing that anyone can do is just to pray to Allah that If he/she is what is best for me then please allow it to happen but if he/she is not good for
      Me then please turn my heart towards what is best for me.

  6. is this the authentic way of istikhara?
    cuz what i know is dua-e-istakhara is already there, which has to be recited after nafil.
    plz correct me if iam wrong.

  7. aoa my name is mahnoor ***

    • mahnoor, please register and submit your question as a separate post, and we will answer you in turn, Insha'Allah. And please do not use your full name or the boy's full name. Also, we do not need information about your dreams. Instead we need more information about the nature of the relationship between you and the boy, and why your family does not approve of your desire to marry him.

      Wael Editor

  8. i couldnt find the way how to register with ur page ... our realtionship start in sep 2014 before that we were best friends...

    • Please read the answers already given. If you want to register and submit your own post, the link to register is on the home page (right side beneath the Recent Stories).

      Wael Editor

  9. i leave a separate message + i registered also bt my message is not visible

    • Assalaamualaikam

      Thank you for submitting your post for publication. There is a queue, so your post will have entered the queue and will be published in turn, inshaAllah.

      Midnightmoon editor

  10. When will my post be published? I am in urgent need.

  11. i want to marry a guy my parents are not agreed...though he is religious..His parents are ready by not mine...any dua to melt my parents heart?

  12. I want to marry a boy whom I love but my parents are not ready plz tell me some thing to solve this problem

  13. I don't agree with the concept that children can not assess what is best for them. Children are adults and they can better find a compatible and traditional parents only wants to show off the world. God has given a complete free will to choose your partner. At the time of Nikah, boy and girl will be asked 3 times, whethere he/she agrees. Note 3 times. Parents will not be asked even a single time. However girl's Wali will be asked. Wali is not necessarily be father. It can be grand father or even court under certain circumstance. If girl and boy agrees, then stopping them is sin.

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